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jami davis
September 20, 2009
Anne and family:
It has been many months since your father's passing, but I still feel him in my heart on a daily basis. We loved that man to our depths and will cherish his memory forever. It is my hope that you are coping and all of your family is well and healthy.
Ryan, Jami, Reece and Cache Davis
(Garland St. neighbors)
Seth Berry
March 28, 2009
Dear Annie and family,
What an incredible man - I should have imagined how impressive he was - but reading is believing. My deepest regrets and condolences.
Connie Kelsey
March 24, 2009
Dear Palmer Families,
We know how proud you are of such a wonderful, caring father.Your mother and dad touched our lives in so many ways.
In the days ahead you will find comfort in your many happy memories.
Our thoughts and sympathy are with you.
Connie, Dan, Richie Kelsey and families
Sheila Cyr
March 20, 2009
Tom, Bindy and all of the Palmer family: I was one of the many fortunate folks that shared some of life's paths with Dr Palmer. My early nursing years in the O.R @ St Joseph's are full of memories of his kind and caring dedication to his patients. God Bless you all.
Emily Bugbee
March 18, 2009
Dear Annie,
The loss of a parent is especially difficult; it is unlike any other loss. You have so many wonderful memories of him and he will always remain in your heart. He was fortunate to have your love and care.
Bobbi & Floyd Beavers
March 18, 2009
Dear Annie and all your family,
With a super dad like yours we know the wonderful memories will help ease the pain of your loss.
Love and hugs,
Holly Mae Higgins (Pulver)
March 18, 2009
Tom & Bindy,
I just read about your dad's passing. I remember him coming into the hotel many times to visit. He's such a wonderful man. Sorry for your loss.
Carol Walker Byram
March 18, 2009
Dear Palmer Family,
I am very sorry for your loss. My parents Dr George R Walker and Wanda Walker were great friends with your parents. I can remember on Sat nights they would go out to dinner. Your father would be on call for my father and visa versa. I had not seen your parents since I was little but about 10 years ago I ran into them and reminded them who I was We must have talked for an hour or so catching up. Again
I am very sorry for your loss,
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
"Perhaps they are not stars, but rather openings in Heaven where the love of our lost ones pours through and shines down upon us to let us know they are happy."
Brenda Boynton
March 17, 2009
Dear Ed and Family,
I am so sorry to learn of your Dad's passing. One of my Aunt's spoke very highly of him. Please take care.
Nicole Morin-Scribner
March 17, 2009
Dear Annie,
sorry to hear about the loss of your Dad. Know how you spoke so highly of him during our time together at Leadership Maine. I know he played an important part in your life and you will miss him. What a gift it was for him to be YOUR father! My sincere condolences to you and your family.
Scott Thomas
March 16, 2009
Tom, Bindy, and family:
I didn't read of your father's passing until after the funeral.
He will always be remembered by me as a perfect doctor, the kind that is difficult to find today. He always had time to make his patients feel comforted no matter how busy he was. He was always a gentleman.
Bangor will likely never see another like him. The whole state will miss him.
My prayers and condolences.
Scott Thomas
Ralph and Paula Turner
March 15, 2009
To Tom's Family,
Tom was a wonderful man and will be greatly missed. As a neighbor he went out of his way to welcome us to the neighborhood and made our family feel at ease as we settled in. His smile, caring attitude, friendship and his beautiful flowers that we enjoyed each day when we were neighbors will be greatly missed.
David Hull
March 15, 2009
Tom, Ed, Anne, David, Jim and Families-
Sorry to learn of the loss of your beloved Dad, Father in law, Grandpa and Friend.
The compassion he possessed shined brightly in his life and work. I know he was VERY proud of all of you.
May the memories of a wonderful man, and a life well lived, sustain you in the days ahead.
Dawn & John Williams
March 14, 2009
Tom was a wonderful friend and neighbour. We shall miss him more than we can say.
ric clark
March 14, 2009
my thoughts and prayers are with you all. I really missed him not coming to highland beach the last couple of years..It was three years ago yesterday that my brother charlie passed and your dad was at our service. He was a Great man and I enjoyed our talks we would have about the old days of hampden and bangor. God bless you all and I will be with you in my heart..
March 13, 2009
Anne, Tom, Ed, David, and Jim,
Just heard the news today of your loss. We're both so sorry we won't be able to attend the service as we are in Florida this week. So many fond memories of your wonderful Dad. I just saw him a few years ago in line to get a flu shot at the hospital and he remembered me by name. Quite an exceptional guy, he remained so active his whole life. Our thoughts are with you all.
Lori Hawkes Edwards
Judy Bacon Strout
Ella Thomas
March 13, 2009
To the Palmer family,
I was so sorry to hear of your father's passing. I worked with him when he first started his practice in Bangor. He was always kind and compassionate to his patients and the nurses that worked with him. He will be sadly missed by all who knew him.
Joanne and Sonny Miller
March 13, 2009
To the Palmer Children and family,
Sonny and I send our sincere sympathy to all of you during these difficult days. Your Dad was a wonderful man and respected by everyone that came in contact with him. We are in Naples, Fl at this time . I remember many of you as students that I had the opportunity to have in my classroom.(Fondly) Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Warmest wishes, Sonny and Joanne(Tracy) Miller
Tom Twitchell
March 13, 2009
Sorry to hear of your dad. May God bless you all.
Renee O'Neill
March 13, 2009
To the Palmer Family
I was so sorry to read of your father's passing. I worked for him in the mid 80's, and he was such a wonderful man. He made every person (patient or not) feel special. He provided care the old-fashion way - kindness, compassion, and the respect of all who knew him. He will be greatly missed.
Susan (Styrna) Boyce
March 13, 2009
I remember with great fondness the wonderful times our parents spent together with the Strouts and Clements. They shared the special connection of being lifelong friends. Your dad left a legacy of warmth, compassion, and laughter. My deepest condolences.
Ray Hardy
March 13, 2009
Having grown up in Bangor, I recall always hearing of the kind, generous, thoughtful gentlemen, Dr. Thomas Palmer.
I wish to express my most sincere condolences to Anne and all of the Palmer family members on the loss of this very special man.
Les and Mary Butler
March 13, 2009
Dave and Suzy:
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. We never met your dad but to have a son such as yourself, Dave, he must have been a wonderful man and in turn brought that quality out in his son.
Sandi Styrna Griffin
March 12, 2009
To the Palmer Family,
I was so saddened to hear about your dad’s passing. He and your mom played such an important role in my parents’ (Bev and Ed) lives through rousing good times as well as difficult times. Your dad’s faithful, gentle support during my mother’s cancer meant a great deal to our family. His life made the world a better place. Please know you’re all in my thoughts and prayers.
Kathy Day
March 12, 2009
Dr Palmer was the perfect example of the old time gentlemanly doctor. I worked with him in the early 70s at EMMC and again later in the late 80s. I was one of the hundreds of nurses he worked with over the years, but he never forgot my name and always had the time to chat. I never saw him upset with the people who worked with him or his paitients. He was kind, giving and patient with everybody. He was a joy to work with and a pleasure to know.
It's so sad to see him go.
Peter and Lisa Graham
March 12, 2009
Our heartfelt condolences go to all of the Palmer family at the loss of this most wonderful man.
Michelle Miller
March 12, 2009
To the Palmer children:
So sorry for the loss of your dad. Anne, I never had the pleasure of meeting your dad, however, after getting to know you when you were a nurse at the Milford school, it is apparent that he passed on his legacy of treating people with compassion to you.
Rusty (Wellman) Gagnon
March 12, 2009
I knew Dr. Tom and Mary Ellen from the time I was a teenager and babysat Tommy & Eddie. Both Dr. Tom and Mary Ellen were some of the kindest people I ever knew during those years. How fortunate I feel to have been able to reconnect with him these past six months since returning to Maine. We sat and talked about those long ago years, the stories in his book, Cracked Marbles, and perspectives people gain through personal growth. I'll always see him as one of the kindest, most gentle gentlemen I've been blessed to know.
As difficult as his loss is for his family, know he treasured each of you while speaking so lovingly of memories and times you spent together. For all of his accomplishments, and there were many, his family and friends were his greatest joys.
Holly Houston Beers
March 12, 2009
Dr. Palmer was one of the best. His smile always made my day when I was lucky enough to see him at St. Joes or EMMC. His caring ways helped many patients through trying times. His was a healer's touch, his skills as an excellent surgeon, combined with a holistic approach to medicine provided his many patients with the very best medicine can offer. He gave wholeheartedly to his community with his time, wise counsel and skills.
Annie and family - the Houston family sends our gratitude for your Dad's life and prayers for you all. May the many wonderful memories you will always carry in your hearts bring you comfort and peace now.
Michael Crowley
March 12, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers are with the Palmer family and extended family...we share a great sense of loss for our dear friend 'Tom' Dr. Palmer. On behalf of the board and staff at EMHS Healthcare Charities - we celebrate his wonderful life and gracious time he shared as a member of our board.
Art Reardon
March 12, 2009
Dr. Palmer was a wonderful man. He operated on me twice when I was a child. He was very caring and alleviated any fears I had of surgery. My thoughts and prayers are with you, his family during this time.
Steven & Kathy McDaniel
March 12, 2009
Our condolences to the Palmer family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of your loss.
Sue Bowles
March 12, 2009
To Ed Palmer and Family,
I was so sorry to hear of the passing of your dad. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Take care.
My Deepest Sympathy,
Sue Bowles
Patricia Stoddard
March 12, 2009
Dr. Palmer was one of a kind. None came anymore compassionate than he. I remember being very young and needing very invasive life changing surgery. He stayed with me when I came out of recovery for however long it took to talk to me and to make sure that I totally understood what took place, what my recovery would be and that he was available at all hours should I have any questions or fears. He was the first and only doctor that I have ever trusted completely. He took the time to comfort and ease all of my fears. He was a role model in the medical field that not many can match. I appreciated that he was my doctor at that time and will never forget how he made me feel so safe and that everything would be alright in the end. The world was truly blessed to have him as one of their own in the medical field. My prayers are with the family at this time knowing that now he is also in a safe and comforting place.
joan maccracken
March 12, 2009
Tom Palmer was an inspiration to all who knew him. A devoted physician and surgeon who truly cared for his patients. The recent turnouts to his book signing was a living tribute to a well-respected man. I will miss him and his spirited and humorous quips. May the good memories last forever. Joan MacCracken
Wes Linscott
March 12, 2009
Rest in peace, Shipmate.
From a fellow Navy veteran,
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