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Barbara Norton Stewart Of San Rafael, California passed away Sunday, October 24th, 2010. She was 88 years old. Barbara was born on September 20th, 1922 in Los Angeles to Rolla and Lylac Norton. As a child she studied Spanish and Mexican folkloric dance. She attended South Pasadena High School where she was known as a fantastic dance partner and a good friend to many. She attended UCLA and then interrupted her studies to join the war effort during World War II. She worked at the Caltech wind tunnel facility in Pasadena, California and then moved to Washington D.C. where she worked for the Pentagon as a secretary. After the war she returned to her studies at the University of California, Berkeley with her brother Craig. During the war she corresponded with William Lyman Stewart III. They were engaged upon his return from the war and married in 1948 in San Marino, California. The couple moved to Menlo Park while her husband attended Stanford University. Barbara gave birth to a daughter, Julia, at this time. Later, while Bill was attending the Harvard School of Business, their second daughter Margy was born. The family moved to Portland, Oregon where Bill worked for the Union Oil Company, and Barbara gave birth to Polly, their third daughter. Five years later, while the family had settled down in Marin County, twin daughters Sally Lee and Lucy Nell were born. In the following years Barbara accompanied her husband and children on ocean sailing trips including visits to the Hawaiian and Tahitian Islands. Barbara continued her practice of Mexican folkloric dance, performing 'La Hota' and her Spanish footwork, not only at her children's schools but at her grandchildren's schools. As a resident of the International House and promoter of the United Nations during the 1940's, Barbara discovered her lifelong interest in raising multi-cultural awareness. Barbara's beloved husband of almost thirty-two years passed away at the age of 53, after which Barbara began to explore what turned out to be an unquenchable desire to travel. She traveled to hundreds of nations all over the Earth. She often said, 'Every inch of the earth is beautiful.' During this time she also housed international students attending Dominican University where she served as a board member. She served on the board for the former World College West. She was a longtime supporter of the Institute of Noetic Sciences and traveled with them to the Soviet Union. Barbara was a member of the California League of Voters and supported many environmental organizations including the Sierra Club, Mangrove Action and many more. Barbara enjoyed the companionship of her Jack Russell Terriers for many years. She traveled on Safaris observing all kinds of wildlife, from tortoises to gorillas, and served as board member of Wildlife Safari in Oregon. She supported the arts in Marin County for many years as a dedicated board member of the Marin Civic Ballet, Downtown Artworks, Odissi Vilas: Sacred Dance of India, and Young Imaginations. She took enormous delight in her reunions with her extended family throughout the entirety of her life. She was a creative and inspiring mother. She studied yoga, Qi-gong, and attended Nia dance classes up to the very end of her life. She loved dining out at fine restaurants and attending lectures and at the end of her life she especially enjoyed hearing piano bar performances. In addition to her husband Bill, Barbara is predeceased by her brother Gary. Barbara is survived by her brother Craig Norton, her daughters and spouses Julia and Bill Wayne, Margy Stewart, Polly and Matthew Stone, Sally and Leif Christian and Lucy Nell Stewart; her grandchildren Phoebe Wayne and Peter Musselman, Jennie and Ian Wayne, Caleb, Hayden and Adalaide Stone, Adrian Bennett, and one great grandchild, Jasper Musselman. A memorial service will be held Saturday, November 20th at the St. Francis Yacht Club Chart Room, from 2 p.m., 700 Marina Blvd., San Francisco,CA 94123.

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Published by Marin Independent Journal on Nov. 2, 2010.

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Joseph Okeyo

November 24, 2010

Tonight I was just talking to my son who lives in the DC area when he asked me if Mr. Norton had a sister named Barbara. When I answered "yes," my son informed me of Barbara's passing.

I remember Barbara as a very culturally diversed, people and life-loving individual. My wife and I always enjoyed chatting with Barbara whenever and wherever the two of us would attend some gatherings involving the Norton family. Our sympathy goes out to my former sponsor and Barbara's brother (Craig Rolla Norton) as well as Barbara's entire family.

Barbara, your welcoming smile will forever bring shineshine upon my own face...We will miss you. Much love, and tell "mom" that I miss her too.

October 2008 StFYC

Shelly Stevens

November 13, 2010

Dearest Barbara,
In my childhood your presence, your family, your boat was always a safe and welcome harbor. Through out my life, finding your radiant eyes and smile at a gathering always filled my heart with joy, knowing that hugs, laughter and interesting conversation were in store. I imagine you and Bill sailing wing and wing into the sunset, with fair winds and following seas. With my fondest aloha from one of the old Tinsley gang.

November 9, 2010

I was very saddened to hear about the loss of Barbara Stewart from my parents. I grew up on the street where she and her family lived. From child to adulthood, everytime Barbara passed by me in her car, she always waved and said hello.

November 6, 2010

I was honored to serve with Barbara for many years on the board of Dominican University, and just saw her at the Whitman/Brown governor-candidate debate on campus. She was a very poised, gracious, intelligent woman and I'm sorry I'm in North Carolina and unable return to California for her service. I'll remember Barbara fondly, and will miss her. Best, Katy McGovern

Deirdra Claiborne

November 5, 2010

I am very saddened that lovely Barbara Stewart, a shining star has passed away. The last time I saw her was September 2009. I gave her a big hug, and I told her that I loved her. She was a very special, unpretentious, world traveled, and down-to-earth lady. She always had something profound to say about my husband's art. She loved the fact that I had twin girls. Over the past 10 years, when she would see my girls she would always comment joyfully about how they reminded her of her own twins. Barbara reminds all of us to embrace life fully, and she will always have a special place in my heart.
My deepest condolences to Barbara’s family and friends are with you as you grieve. Love, Deirdra Claiborne

Art Works Downtown

November 3, 2010

Barbara has been a long-time supporter and one of the original founders of Art Works Downtown, a non-profit art center in downtown San Rafael.

AWD gratefully acknowledges Barbara's generous contributions, her years of service on the AWD Board of Directors and Advisory Board, and her dedication to the arts in general.

She will be missed by many at AWD.

Deborah Walker

November 2, 2010

It is with a sad and heavy heart that I say good-bye to you dearest Barbara. You have been a dear friend and an inspiration to me since the first day we met. I cannot imagine Nia class without your bright eyes and beautiful spirit gracing us. I will remember you always and send you off with my love and deep gratitude for all that you gave to this earth. Blessings on your journey dear Barbara. I hope to dance with you again someday. With love, Deborah

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