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Bartos, John J.Jack died peacefully on March 10 at Thomas Jefferson University Hospital surrounded by his loving wife, his children and by the compassionate Jefferson staff. He was a loving husband to Sallie (Dunbar) Bartos for 19 years and an incredibly supportive and proud father to his six children: Bethlehem Catholic sophomores, Drew and Alexa, with whom he resided; Peter (Donna) of Peoria, Arizona; Jennifer Roeder (Jason) of Bethlehem; Annie Bartos (John Mauro) of Auckland, New Zealand; and Kristen Bruneo (Vince) of Bethlehem. He was the doting grandfather and head golf instructor to PJ, Gracie and Hannah Bartos; John, Ryan and Patrick Roeder; Madeline Bartos Mauro; and Joseph Bruneo. Jack was the oldest of nine children and the heroic big brother to them all. The front nine: Jack graduated from Central Catholic High School in 1967 where he was a member of both the golf and wrestling teams. He went on to play golf at Mt. St. Mary's College in Emmitsburg, Maryland, from where he graduated in 1971. Jack received his Juris Doctorate from Duquesne University School of Law in 1974. He returned to the Lehigh Valley from Pittsburgh immediately upon graduation to practice law, which he would do for more than 40 years. Despite owning a successful law firm, Jack did occasionally (often) find the time for 18 holes. He cherished every blade of grass at Saucon Valley Country Club, where he had been a member since childhood. He loved a quick round with one of his children or grandchildren or clients or with his regular foursome. Jack supported Saucon over the years by keeping the caddie-master busy, but also by doing good for the club. As a former member of the Green Committee, Jack was instrumental in working with the United States Golf Association to bring the 1987 United States Senior Amateur to Saucon. This event would be a precursor to the club's subsequent USGA majors. The back nine: Jack was a member of the Northampton County and Pennsylvania Bar Associations. He had spent the latter part of his business career as an expert in the area of elder law. This work gave Jack the good fortune to meet hundreds (if not thousands) of members of The Greatest Generation. His diligence and care, not to mention his attention to every detail, made him a respected and sought-after professional who always served with his clients' best interests at heart. Jack truly labored for the love of his work and of his clients. As an example to many, Jack endured his setbacks with the same humble approach as when he relished in his victories. He took great joy in hearing of his family members' triumphs and was the consummate rock during their trying times. His perseverance, strength, determination and dedication to that which he held important are just a few of his qualities that his children and grandchildren will carry on in his name. Survivors: He is survived by his wife, Sallie, his 6 children, 8 grandchildren, brothers Paul Bartos, Joseph Bartos, Robert Bartos and Jeffrey Bartos, sisters Mary Jane Sickonic, Susan Bartos, and Peg Story, as well as many nieces and nephews and their children. He was predeceased in life by his parents, Dr. Joseph E. and Ethel (Daday) Bartos and his sister, Nancy Bartos. Services: There will be a Celebration of Life in Jack's honor on Thursday, March 19, 2015 at St. Anne's Church in Bethlehem at 6:30 PM. Contributions: In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Drew and Alexa Bartos Education Fund at Embassy Bank, 100 Gateway Drive, Bethlehem, PA 18017. Send online condolences to www.connellfuneral.com.

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Published by Morning Call on Mar. 14, 2015.

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Geryl E Hodge

March 8, 2022

Sally,
Blessings and peace to your family and entire Circle of Friends and Associates who knew and loved Jack.
It is good to remember & memorialize those who've been a blessing to our world. They plant seeds that transcend their own space and time, and supercede their own footprint on this earth, by the trees that flourish and remain for the next season.
My Brother shared with me yesterday, a realization of how much our own family have been blessed and favored by the acts of kindness and legacy of our parents. We along with our children and generations to come may never understand how much of our good fortune and favor are due to the seeds they sowed.
I remember Jack in this way as well. May he continue to RIEP.

Geryl, Former Client

P.S. My sentiments also extend to Sally as well, who has herself had the same impact in my life. Praying you are all thriving and doing well inspite of Jack's absence, and continuing to sow seeds of your own.

Geryl Hodge

May 25, 2015

I am deeply saddened to hear of the passing of Atty John Bartos, "Jack" as he was known. Since recently being made aware of this tremendous loss to our community but even moreso to his family, I would be remiss to not pay honor to a gentleman among men.
Ironically, I came to know Jack when we were about to lose our Mom. When it became apparent that the time was near my Mom made a request for an attorney to get her affairs in order. My response was to contact my Aunt, herself a top attorney back home in the Virgin Islands. She did her research and Jack was highly recommended. It was an important connection that has yielded dividends in numerous ways.
First of all, Jack expediently and graciously met with my Mom in the hospital and satisfied her every concern.
I soon had the privilege to experience for myself Jack's professionalism and gracious gentlemanly manner in the purchase of my first home. Another divine connection came as a result of knowing Jack, when Sallie became my Realtor. Together they guided me through the two most challenging experiences of my life. I will forever remember with fondness my Dynamic Duo team!
Sallie, I pray your family is strengthened and renewed time and time again by the many seeds sewn by Jack during his time with us. A righteous man leaves a legacy for his children and his children's children. Let it be so according to the legacy and significant impact he's made for so many. My warmest, heartfelt condolences go out to your family, yet I celebrate the fact that for a brief time I drank from the same well and it was good...Love and peace ever, Geryl E Hodge & family

Ed DiDonato

April 7, 2015

I just learned about Jack. He was a true gentleman and my friend for a long time. My condolences to Sally and the entire family. I am so sorry for your loss.

March 24, 2015

TO THE BARTOS FAIMILY Just heard about Jack, we are all so sorry to hear about your loss. Jack will be missed . From R.G.C. DEVELOPMENT L.P. AND STAFF....

March 22, 2015

Thoughts and prayers from a 1967 classmate, Susan Hirzi Cassium
Rest in peace

March 19, 2015

Dear Sallie, Drew and Alexa ~ So very sorry to hear of Jack's passing. Our deepest sympathy to you and your family. Love ~ Jeff, Barb, Shelby, Hailey and Reese Williams

Wayne and Diane Whitesell

March 19, 2015

Kristen and family,
We are so sorry for the loss of your dad. Take comfort in knowing he will always be your guardian angel. RIP Mr. Bartos

March 18, 2015

Dear Sallie, I just found out about your unbelievable loss of John. I cannot tell you how sorry I am for you and your children. Please, please let me know if I can do anything for you. Sorry I did not know sooner. Again, so very, very sorry. Madeline Peters

March 18, 2015

Attorney Bartos was a fine man and will be missed by all who had the pleasure of knowing him. Our staff had the privilege of serving as IT consultants to his firm. Jack was always professional, ethical, and kind. He will be missed.

The Staff of Keystone Technology, LLC, Slatington, PA

Financial Sources, Inc

March 16, 2015

Our sincerest condolences on the loss of Jack. He was a wonderful family man, friend, and attorney to our clients! He will surely be missed by all of us.

March 16, 2015

Sallie,
My heart is so very heavy to hear of Jack's passing. I have kept You, Alexa and Drew in my prayers and now send them in abundance for the strength to help you through the days to follow.

He is now at peace and all have been blessed another Guardian Angel.

All my love to you~
TC Cagni, Jupiter, FL

March 16, 2015

Mrs. Bartos, Alexa, Drew, and Family,

My deepest sympathy... You are in my thoughts and prayers. I am sorry for your loss. I remember your husband/Dad as being so supportive of Alexa at her volleyball tournaments. It was always a pleasure to speak with him. May your memories give you comfort.

Peg and Family,

I am sorry for your loss, too.

Mary K. Vanya
Quickset Volleyball Coach

March 15, 2015

Jack was a High Scholl friend of mine.
Our families were friends on both the Bartos and Daday side.
I am so sorry for your loss.
Sympathies to all.
Mary Lou DiLeo Welsh

Barbara Babcock

March 15, 2015

Sallie, Drew and Alexa
Jack was so proud of each of you. I know you will miss him daily but may you find the strength to remember each day how blessed you are to have shared your years together as a wonderful family.
Love, Barb

Susan Abud

March 15, 2015

Dear Sallie,
We are so sorry about Jack's passing. It was such a pleasure working with him and his wonderful staff. He was a great person. Sending you and the entire Bartos family our deepest sympathy.
Susan and Jose Abud

March 15, 2015

Sally ,Jack was a wonderful person you were great together. I know what you are going through. Take care. Gretchen Weinman

Donna Hopper

March 14, 2015

Sallie, Drew, and Alexa,

I am so sorry. You are all in my thoughts and my prayers.

Susan Dilcher

March 14, 2015

Mary Jane:
Please accept my sincere condolences for the loss of your brother. You and your loved ones are in my prayers and thoughts.

R.Douglas Miller

March 14, 2015

Jack was a high school friend of mine and I send his whole extended family my sympathy on his passing.

Kathy lamm

March 14, 2015

My heart and prayers go out to all of you. I pray God will give you the peace that passes understanding as days go on. Jack was truly a wonderful husband and father. He was a kind man , he will be missed all. God bless your family.

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