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Paul Esterly Obituary

Paul A. Esterly Jr.
Paul A. Esterly Jr., 53, of Del Haven, N.J. and formerly of Allentown, passed away suddenly Wednesday, July 19, 2006. Born in Allentown, he was a resident of Del Haven for the past 17 years. Paul was a self employed tax consultant serving the Cape May County area. He also worked daily with his best friend, Marty Vega in the RV Service business. Paul was an Eagle Scout. He was an avid golfer and enjoyed fishing, boating and motor cycling. He took great pride in his many gardens and his wonderful family. Paul was predeceased by his parents, Paul A. Esterly Sr. and Everdia Esterly and his beloved son, Shane Esterly. Survivors: Paul is survived by his loving wife and best friend, Barbara; his loving son and best friend, Jeremiah Boo and his wife, Jessica Esterly, of Allentown, Pa.; sons, Jason Esterly of Kutztown, Pa. and Jarrod Rutherford of Del Haven; daughter, Jennifer Rutherford of Cape May; his Puddin Pops, Abigail Esterly and Tessa Marie Rutherford. Also survived by his loving best friends Marty and Traci Vega, Bill and Kim Ginder and many heartfelt friends. He will also be missed by his cat, Willie. Services: Mass of Christian Burial, will be celebrated 9:30 a.m. Tuesday in Our Lady Star of the Sea Church, 525 Washington St., Cape May, where there will be a viewing from 8:30-9:30 a.m. Interment will be private. Arrangements, Sudak-Danaher Funeral Home, Cape May.

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Published by Morning Call on Jul. 21, 2006.

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Carla Drennen

August 18, 2006

I want you to know I loved your dad. We didn't have many cousin on his mother side of the family our age. So we always hung out at family fuctions. I know you will miss him. The first year is the hardest, have faith, he will be around you in sprit.

JIM & LYNN OBRIEN

August 6, 2006

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. Please let us know if there is anything we can do to help at this time.

Drena Merkel

July 26, 2006

Dear Jeremy and Jason,

My thoughts and prayers are and always will be with you both. You must never forget that your father loved you both very. He was always there for you both when you needed him. You must remember the good times you had with him. Not long ago he told me "at least we did something right" ! He was referring to you guys!!!!!!!No matter what problems we had, he loved you guys.

Love forever,

Mom

Dawn Kaplan

July 24, 2006

Dear Jeremy and Jason,

I am so sorry to hear about your Dad. I know that he loved you both very much and was always there when you needed him. He will be missed.

Aunt Dawn

D. Keith Sneddon

July 22, 2006

There were 3 of us who met each other when we were 3 years old here at Waldheim Park. Butch, who was born in Decemeber of 1952,Don Myer,who was born in May of 1953 and myself,Keith Sneddon, who was born in February of 1953. We met in the Summer of 1956 and were pretty much inseperable during those great Summer months. The memories I have of both Butch and Don are memories that I tell everyone about. Don passed away 3 years ago before he reached 50. I ran into Butch about 10 years ago when he was in town to watch Jason play B-Ball. He and I were in an establishment(I'll say no more than that) and I saw him and knew who he was after he smiled. I walked up to him and asked if his name was Paul Esterly. He said yes and I said Butch and he knew who I was. I'll tell you it was like we never left. We both got thrown back to our Summers here at Waldheim. He was up here a couple of years ago and stopped in to to see my Mom. I am truly sorry that I wasn't here to see him.He understood as I was at a softball tournament.(He was a great 3rd base)

As you go through this time of grief,know that a friend of Butch's for 50 years is truly going to miss Butch and the memories he and I had will be talked about and remembered until the day I go to the other side.

If, in your grief or after you'd like to get in touch and talk about Butch,please feel free to contact me.

Butch was a good friend and even though we hadn't seen each other he was in my thoughts and memories.

My condolences and prayers are with you at this time.

Sincerely,

D.Keith Sneddon

23 Waldheim Park

Allentown,PA. 18103

Francisco DeOliveira

July 21, 2006

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

jeffery d spaulding

July 21, 2006

barb and family , may god bless you and your family through your time of sorrow. your family is in my prayers. god bless

Sue Paz

July 21, 2006

Barbara, I am so sorry to hear about Paul. I justed wanted you to know that our thoughts are with you and your family. Sue Paz & Steve

Christina Kelley

July 21, 2006

Dear Barbara and Family,

I am deeply saddened to hear of the loss of Paul. Please know my sympathies and prayers are with you.



Sincerely,



Chris Kelley and family

Karen Quagliani(Drennen)

July 21, 2006

Dear Family and Friends,

I want to send my condolences and my sympathy for you. I know there are no words that will ease your pain or relieve your feelings of loss at this time. My heart goes out to you.



Butch is a very special person to me and I am sure that many feel the way I do. We are all better for knowing him and we all will lose a part of ourselves now that he is gone.



In a lifetime, I only knew Butch in moments. A visit with my family here and there, now and again, but cherished so much by all of us. He is my mother's sister's son. He came into our large family and blended right in, he was never a stranger.



We all adore Butch and value the time we had with him. It is so hard to come to grips with the fact that we will not have the opportunity to see him again here on earth. But I have to believe that one day I will see him again and he will be with all the others who have passed before him, those who loved him so much.



I hope the heartbreak that you feel today will soon be replaced with the joyous memories that you shared with this husband, this father, this friend, this wonderful person. He will be missed by so many.



God Bless You,

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