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Alan Becker Obituary
Alan M. Becker
Resident of San Jose
Died peacefully on September 22, 2011 after a yearlong struggle with cancer. He was born on December 18, 1929 in the Bronx, New York, to Nathan and Pauline Becker. He moved west in the 1950s and lived most of his life in the San Jose area. He was a noted Bridge player and teacher. He was preceded in death by his son, Danny. He is survived by his daughter Sue, sister Barbie, ex-wife Pesha, and dear friend Jewel and her family. Burial took place Oct. 3rd, 2011 at Los Gatos Memorial Park.
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Dan Claassen
July 9, 2012
I'll miss Al. When I showed up at the SJ Bridge Center on Thursday nights seeking a partner, he always welcomed me, and would play with me himself if he couldn't find me a partner. I grew to respect Al's playing greatly, and he also mentored me in etiquette -- always championing the beginners and the little people, against the arrogant and powerful. Maybe I'll return to playing more regularly, to promulgate Al's philosophy in his absence. I'll miss Al.
Betsy Ducey Hare
April 24, 2012
I'm so sorry to hear of Al's illness and passing. He was a mentor to so many of us in the valley, teaching us about bridge .. and life .. always with patience and kindness. My heart goes out to his family and friends.
Alan Lasnover
January 7, 2012
I spent most of my life and career in the Santa Clara Valley and remember Al with great fondness. He was one of the people at the Bridge Club who always remained calm and collected and could be counted upon to play a good game. I had great respect for Al and offer my condolences to his family and friends.
carol woodward
January 3, 2012
i knew al for many years. i took lessons from him and played at the sj bridge club for a long time. he not only was a wonderful teacher but a very nice man. the bridge world has lost a great guy.
Nancy Girvin
November 4, 2011
Sue and Barbie,
My sincere condolences to you about the loss of your father and brother. Since moving to the Mt.Shasta area, Alan and I only had occasional phone conversations. I was shocked to hear he had cancer and had passed on. I have many fond memories of him especially the years of bridge playing in the San Jose Area. Sincerely, Nancy Girvin
~ Nancy Girvin, Mt. Shasta, California
Nancy Girvin
November 4, 2011
Sue and Barbie,
My sincere condolences to you about the loss of your father and brother. Since moving to the Mt.Shasta area, Alan and I only had occasional phone conversations. I was shocked to hear he had cancer and had passed on. I have many fond memories of him especially the years of bridge playing in the San Jose Area. Sincerely, Nancy Girvin
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