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Berba B. Proffitt

1922-2011

Resident of Omaha, NE

Berba Proffitt passed away February 26 in Omaha, Nebraska.

Berba lived the vast majority of her life in Burlingame. She was a graduate of Burlingame High school and Mills College in Oakland. Berba was a member of both San Mateo County and Omaha chapters of P.E.O. She was a lifelong member of the United Methodist Church in Burlingame and could often be found cheerfully participating in services singing with the choir. An optimistic, charming and gracious woman, Berba could always be found with a ready smile and an encouraging word for all. Berba was always down for the party. She enjoyed a stiff cocktail and a good laugh. For several years running, she presided as the Gran Dam over the Disorderly House Party in Logan Utah managing to avoid arrest throughout her tenure. No one on the planet enjoyed having lunch at the Copenhagen on the "Avenue" more than Berba.

Berba was happily married to Buel G. Proffitt, was a loving mother of six children: Nancy Noller (Doug), Jamie (Kathleen), Tom (Diane), Susan Astrove (Skip), Buel (Trish) and Todd, and a grandmother to seven and great grandmother to three. She taught all the importance of compassion for others, a love for good music, movies, and reading, and never to pass up the opportunity to help your neighbor. She also was ahead of her time in encouraging her children to eat healthy, providing whole wheat bread and fruit smoothies in place of the era's Hostess cupcakes and Wonder Bread.

She is survived by all of her children and grandchildren, who will miss her smiles and optimism. She is preceded in death by her husband, Buel G. Proffitt and parents Myrtle and Carleton Bessett.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by San Jose Mercury News/San Mateo County Times from Mar. 11 to Mar. 13, 2011.

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Claire Noller

March 23, 2011

Thank you for your kind words about my Gram!

March 15, 2011

I was in Copenhagen Bakery today and we talked about your mother,how it was always so pleasant to have coffee with her. I will never forget how nice both your parents were. I am very sorry for the loss of your Mam. Connie Van Niekerken ,Burlingame

Lisa Krieger

March 13, 2011

I was thinking about your mother just two days ago and wondering if she was okay. She was a lovely, witty and intelligent lady whom I always enjoyed running into downtown or when walking my dog by her house on Walnut. I'm so sorry for your loss.

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