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Dave Otterness Obituary
Dave Otterness
Former resident
of Morgan Hill
Passed away on October 31, 2011 after a 1.5 year battle with cancer. Dave was born on July 23rd, 1953 in Portland, Oregon and was 58 years old. He is survived by his wife Katy and step-daughter Emma; children Ian, Kelsey, Kristen and their mother Cindy; mother Jeanne; sisters Judy and Joan; niece Monica and nephew Eric; and a large extended family. Dave lived in Morgan Hill for 30 years, and worked at Flextronics. He moved to Truckee in 2001.
A memorial service will be held at Los Altos Lutheran Church, 460 South El Monte Avenue, Los Altos, CA 94022 on Sat, Nov 19th at 2pm. Donations can be made in Dave's name to the UC San Francisco, Helen Diller Family Cancer Center: 415.476.6922 or www.cancer.ucsf.edu.
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Memories and Condolences
for Dave Otterness
August 16, 2012
"When you were born, you cried and the world rejoiced. Live your life so that when you die, the world cries and you rejoice." ~ Your light is so missed!
Pamela
April 20, 2012
"I believe the soul continues on and blesses those he loved, and those who loved him. Just happens that way. His heart- that deep sense of love will continue on. It's not for us to understand how or where, but I believe this is how angels are made. He may be sitting around some Holy camp fire in a forest long gone, with a bunch of his old passed friends…communing on nature and the flow of eternity- life- death- pizzas. What a concept…." These are some of Dave's own words (written after my step-father passed) a few years ago. I wanted to share this with his friends and loved ones, as the words are as profound as his life. We are heartbroken... and yet blessed to have called him a friend.
March 6, 2012
I love you Dave. I miss you so much. Cancer is evil and you were the last person I thought would be a victim. I love you so much and miss you beyond belief. You were the best husband, the best father and the greatest man I have ever known. I know I'm late in posting but I know you understand. I will love you forever.
Katy
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katy charters
March 6, 2012
I love you dave! It's us. Katy and Emma. We miss you more than anything.
Tom Jones
February 13, 2012
You touched so many souls, Dave. In our lives your time was too short; in our hearts--forever. We will do Montana Winter again my friend. Blessings to your family.
Jill Alter Kreifels
November 17, 2011
Dave you were a wonderful person to work with. I remember my days at ITT/Farnell and supporting Flextronics. I am so glad you were able to escape this business and hope you enjoyed your time in Truckee.
So sorry that God took you from the world to soon.
To your family I am so sorry for your loss he was one of kind !
Jill Alter Kreifels
James Ruis
November 15, 2011
Dave, To all of us who knew you as a friend, we are diminished by your passing. Thanks for the memories, till we meet again.
November 15, 2011
Dave,
Thank you for being a friend.
Love,
Paulette Castellanos
Barry Henderson
November 15, 2011
Life is sometimes not fair. I admire Dave's courage and strength throughout his battle and will carry wonderful memories the rest of my life. Playing pool and drinking beer in San Jose...good times. I hope the hereafter is ready for you!!
Mary Kipfstuhl Morris
November 14, 2011
Words are never enough. Feelings translate poorly. The legacy that is Dave Otterness will last an eternity, in the hearts and souls of friends and family alike. You left us all too soon, Dave. We were only just getting started on this earth. Know that you are loved, your friendship cherished, and your passing kindness remembered for a lifetime. We will miss you, my friend.
Cindy Otterness
November 14, 2011
Thank you for being the love, strength, and inspiration for our 3 beautiful children. You are absolutely loved and so irreplaceable. I will always treasure the time God gave us.
Ellen Hogencamp Baker
November 14, 2011
God bless you, Dave, I cherish every memory, every smile, every joy of the laughter we shared. True friendships are gifts, and you and I were greatly blessed. I love you and I will miss you--we will sing together again one day.
Matt Penry
November 14, 2011
Cindy, Ian, Kelsey and Kristin,
This is a difficult thing for you to go through and we will all miss him. Know that we are here for you as you need any of us for any kind of support.
With lots of love for you all, Matt
November 13, 2011
May God bless you all, family and friends, in the coming months and years in your memories of Dave. May God give you comfort and peace at this difficult time. Peggy Solomonson Rothchild (Newburg, ND)
Jean Lindvig
November 13, 2011
God's Blessings to you all, family and friends of Dave. I didn't ever see enough of him in my lifetime, but the moments we did share are memories that will last forever simply because Dave's spirit moved to all who were around him. My heart goes out, to us all really. I Know Dave had a lot more to give to this world, but was stopped so short, so young. My only consolation is knowing he is safe, at rest, and with those we also love SO MUCH who have gone on before us. Holding Dave and those he loved in my prayers, Jean (cousin, North Dakota.)
Judy Roehm
November 13, 2011
God Bless you, Dave. You were my light and strength through so much. You will always be in my heart. Remember.....I love you.
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