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Fred John Fraboni Sr.

1920 - 2013

Fred John Fraboni Sr. obituary, 1920-2013, San Jose, CA

BORN

1920

DIED

2013

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Santa Clara, California

Fred Fraboni Obituary

Fred John Fraboni Sr.
Nov 4, 1920 - Sept 17, 2013
Resident of San Jose
Founder of Fraboni Termite Control, and local theatre veteran, died on Tuesday the 17th of September in San Jose, with his wife and family in attendance. Fred was born in Hibbing, Minnesota, the son of Franchina and Amadeo Fraboni; Fred spent his youth in nearby Virginia, MN; he attended Virginia Jr. College, the MN School of Business and Hamline University as well as flight school in Altus, OK, graduating with the Class of 1945B. When the trumpets of World War II sounded, Fred found himself aboard the General Hodges troop ship bound for Clark Field in the Philippines. At final destination, Fred served as a pilot and finance officer for the United States Air Force. He later became a reservist for 16 years, retiring with the rank of Major assigned to the 9367th Air Reserve Squadron. Settling in California after the war Fred, with his first wife Muriel Grande Kline and their first-born son, Fred, Jr., Fred founded Fraboni Termite Control which for the past several years has been owned and operated by Fred, Jr. In 1975, Fred was sworn in as President of the State Pest Control Operators. Fred was affiliated with San Jose Civic Light Opera (later American Musical Theatre) for 20 years, as board member, producer and actor."I have had a love affair with theatre all of my life"; his signature role was as the King in The King and I; he appeared with Theodore Bikel, Janice Paige, Van Johnson, Harve Presnell and other film stars who graced the stage of the CPA. Over the years he performed with theatre departments at Foothill College, West Valley College, and Santa Clara's Mayer Theatre where he was also a board member. In the 1990's, he was Uncle Luigi in Bay Area productions of the off-Broadway play Tony 'N Tina's Wedding. Later in life, Fred took up woodworking, using the wood lathe his father gave him when Fred was 17; he created countless beautiful items, many of which were donated to fund-raising events in the community. "He was the Pied Piper of optimism" notes his wife LaVonne; "His legacy is his smile, his sense of humor, his generosity and his encouragement of everyone to wring the most out of life each and every precious day." Fred was a lover of all music, from the classics to barbershop and everything in between. He was a past-president of the Garden City Chorus of San Jose. Fred is survived by five children issue of the marriage to Muriel Kline: Fred, Jr. (wife Lauraine; Christina, her husband Andrew; Nicholas and Anna Marie; son William; son Richard, known as Max (wife Cindy; Megan and Hailey); Peggy Lee Melick (daughters Trinity, her husband John; children Terrell, Tayla and Aiden); Naomi (husband Nathan, daughter Noelle); and Rachel; and son John (Wife Lisa; Erin and Bretton). In addition Fred is survived by niece Maria and her daughter Selina; he is godfather to Selina and Michael Tripoli of Gilroy - and numerous nieces and nephews: Mario Fraboni, Denise Root, Diana Van Rybroek, Susan Fraboni Keto, Raymond Jr., Michael, Paul and Jeffrey Fraboni; he is also survived by cousins BarbaraTripoli, Nancy Fraboni Edwards and Rob Fraboni of Connecticut. There will be a memorial service at St. Martin of Tours, 200 O'Connor Drive, San Jose, on Friday, September 27th, at 2:30 p.m., with reception to follow in the community building.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by San Jose Mercury News/San Mateo County Times on Sep. 22, 2013.

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Kathy Morse

August 31, 2014

In the Heavens above. I remember your humor and loved our friendship.

Cardiff Pest Control Santa Cruz

September 30, 2013

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and yours.

joanie cesano

September 27, 2013

If the "Fountain of Youth" does truly exist, then Fred Fraboni was its poster boy!
Fred's constant vitality, ever-youthful spirit and just good ole' joy of life was absolutely contagious - and you always felt better after a visit with darling Fred.
He was so sweet to our children, as they were growing up, and those wonderful later summer dinners in LaVonne and Fred's backyard are forever a part of our fondest memories.
Take care, sweetie...

Uncle Luigi in "Tony and Tina's Wedding"

Maria Fraboni

September 26, 2013

Uncle Fred, You have been a special part of my life and family. Thank you for being my "Dad" for the past 38 years. ILY. You are truly one of a kind!

Heidi Carter (Parsons)

September 23, 2013

It Saddens me to hear of the loss of such a very dear man.
I had many opportunities have him as part of my life.
He will be missed.

Taffy Jones (Glazier)

September 22, 2013

So sorry to hear that we have lost Fred. i had the pleasure of appearing with him in Funny Girl . What a great guy!

Diana Torres-Koss

September 22, 2013

Dear Fred,
You were such a dear, dear man; always positive and always supportive, always generous with a smile and a laugh. I know you're up there, entertaining with your unique humor, until we meet again.

Rebecca Brownson

September 22, 2013

I remember Fred fondly. So sorry to hear of his loss.

The King & I

Patrice O'Connell

September 22, 2013

I was one of the King's children in the San Jose Light Opera so many, many years ago. I remember Fred with the warmest memories. He was as his wife described "The Pied Piper". The kid loved him. I remember crying the night of our last performance and he scooped me up is his arms and made me laugh and smile again. Fred, you were a special man that left an indelible mark on my soul.

Mark Guardino

September 22, 2013

So sorry for the loss to the fraboni's.

Mark A. Guardino

Steve Schneickert

September 22, 2013

Thank you for all of the fond memories, Fred Fraboni.......You will not be forgotten.

September 21, 2013

My favorite cousin. I have fond memories of my childhood years growing up, with Fred, whenever he and his family came out to California for a visit. I will miss his smiles and humor. Fred was always ready to help out when we needed him the most. You could count on Fred. A very generous man.
Yes, he was one of a kind. I will miss him terribly. You will always be in our thoughts and prayers Fred. Rest in peace my Dear Fred.
Love, Barbara and husband Sal.

Hanford, California

September 21, 2013

Uncle Fred
My Mom, Mafalda Fraboni Coggiola used to light up when
talking about you. If only we could have lived closer..
I wish my four children and 8 Grandkids would have gotten
to know you.
What an amazing man...my Uncle Fred

Don Coggiola

September 21, 2013

Uncle Fred,

I will miss you...I know my father and mother (coggiola Family) will be in heaven to greet you.

I still remember when you took me (SHARK Tooth) hunting in the Santa Cruz mountains

You were one of a kind
Michael Coggiola

Karen Ghiorso Peyton

September 21, 2013

I grew up next door to the Fraboni's. Mr.Fraboni was the only person I let put a string around my tooth the other end on the door knob the shut the door.Yanked my tooth right out. That is trust. He always made me laugh. He will be forever in my heart and thoughts.

Fred Cesano

September 20, 2013

There are people who come in and out of your lives who make such a difference. Fred was that to me. Just being around him. Soaking in his view of life and seeing that there is so much to do and accomplish after 60. His laugh, his endless youthful spirit and his stories will be with me forever. Everyone should have a Fred Fraboni in their lives. I'm lucky to have known him. My love to you LaVonne.

September 19, 2013

In memory of my dear Fred-O - in your final days, you showed, grace, even humor at times, and that poetry which so few men have What a big life we lived - you will be marching at the head of the parades in Heaven. Love, LaVonne

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