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Joao DaSilva Obituary

Joao "John" DaSilva March 31, 1958-July 31, 2008 Passed away after a short illness of cancer with his family and friends at his bedside. He was preceded in death by parents, John and Maria Silva and a loving wife of 29 years, Adelina "Addie" DaSilva. He was a loving father to his children, Erick, Danny, Marc and Dalaila Silva. Devoted Grandpa to Zoe and Ema Silva .John was a dedicated worker at Pacific Maintance where he worked for 30 years. His joy was camping with family and friends. He was the happiest when he was with his family. Visitation will be held on Wednesday, August 6, 2008 from 3:00-5:00 PM, at DARLING FISCHER GARDEN CHAPEL, 471 E. Santa Clara St., San Jose, CA. and 6:00 PM to 7:00PM at Five Wounds Church, 1375 E. Santa Clara St. San Jose, CA. A Rosary and Mass will follow at 7:00 PM. Aug. 7, 2008 procession will begin at 10:30 AM, at DARLING FISCHER GARDEN CHAPEL to Calvary Cemetery, 2655 Madden Ave., San Jose, CA, where he will be laid to rest.

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Published by San Jose Mercury News from Aug. 5 to Aug. 6, 2008.

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Clarinda Miller

August 4, 2009

Silva...i can't believe that it has been 1 year. You are missed very much!!! Lake of the Springs was nice, but not the same without you. I know that you were there in spirit with us. We have so many great memories of you there and every time we go there it makes me feel that you are there with us. My dear friend you will always have a special place in my heart. I know that you and Noelia are up in heaven together watching over us..we miss you both very much!!! Keep sending dragon flies and humming bird to us!!! Love you Silva!!!

August 2, 2009

Silvin, Lake of the Springs was not the same without you. I see Blue Dragon Flies and think of you...I missed my morning coffee with you, but felt you there all the time. There are many mornings when I put your picture in front of me and talk to you while I drink. We followed Danny to the Flying J on the way home....how many times have we followed you. It felt so surreal. I felt your spirit over the trailer as Danny was driving. I tell Ema about you all the time. she will never forget Grandpa and Zoe told me that Jesus took you to the hospital to make you better. We love and miss you more than you will ever know. Keep watching over us and especially your grandkids and your Godchild....they need it. Love you always and we will have coffee together again someday, Christy

July 31, 2009

Hey my dear brother Silvino today is one year that you have left us, how much your'e missed, but i guess you must know how we all feel Rene visits you alot! i havent cause i dont have the courage,but i thank God your at peace We love you and miss beijoinhos Mary and Rene

Madeline Sousa

May 12, 2009

Adelina,Eric,Danny,Marc and Dalaila,

I am deeply saddend to hear about Silvin.

April 28, 2009

i just want to say that you are missed and i hope my mom noelia mendoza and you are having a wonderful time up there with all your loved ones.

Maria Izquierdo

January 15, 2009

Hi Silvino just wanted to tell you we miss somuch!life insent the same, i miss you asking me to make your'e cafecito gee i cant remember going to bed without tears!?but i do know you're looking down on us,love Maria

Dalaila Silva

September 9, 2008

I want to thank everyone that has been here for my family and for my mom. my mom was the strong one she never give up on him.... i member wen he was sick n i tryed takin care of him i got so scared i called my mom cryin cause i dnt no wut 2 do but she walked me thow it just wish i could go back n help him more.... my dad was the BEST he did what ever he could 2 make his MAMA happy and his Kids.... pai ull never be 4gotten i wake up n ur the frist person i see ur pic is right beside my bed =].... dont worry dad will be with u as a family agin one day rest in peace rember that im always ur lil girl n that i love u....

brittany miller

September 6, 2008

i never really got close to you tio silvin, but i really regret it now. this has jus proven to me that life is really too short and we never kow what is going to happen next. i know you are resting in peace and in a better place. i miss you alot and i cant wait till i get to see you again. i love you!

Ryan Miller

September 6, 2008

Well, what can I say. John was a great man. I know he loved me and everyone else in this family. I just wish, I would've gotten to know him a little better, you know? Every time we were camping, there were so many things I could've said to him, but for some reason I just didn't. That is something I regret quite often. I guess this is just one of those situations where you don't know how much you love someone, until they are gone.

I have learned many things over this past four months. One of those things being, it is okay to cry. I had always been afraid to cry, but on the day of the funeral when I walked up to that casket with my father at my side, eveything stopped. Everyone vanished out of my mind, and it was just me and my uncle, Silva. Even though, It was all in my head, he talked to me. He told me that it is okay to show emotions. It is okay to miss me. It is okay to love me. And it is always okay to cry. When this all happened, there was no more fear in my mind, so I did what I have been scared to do for my whole life. I took a deep breath, and right when I said, "Goodbye, Tio John", I cried. It was by far the hardest I have ever had to do. However, to this day I am glad I did.

I look up to the sky every day, and stare into the heavens, and see his face. He is always in my heart, and in all the hearts of others. I miss him dearly, and I am sure everyone else does to. I guess I can finally get this off my chest, and finally, for the last time, say... "Goodbye, Silva", and, "See you later..."

Ivo Miller

September 5, 2008

I have been trying to write on this book for a while but couldn't get past a few words. Maybe because in some way it brings a finality that I'm not prepared to face. But as you bravely faced your illness, I will learn from you and face this, yet another good bye. A month has past since you, my brother has left us. Your presence is felt as is the sense of loss. Difficult to understad why someone so kind had to go. These things are best left in the hands of God. I certainly don't understand it but pray that in time I come to accept it. We will keep you memory alive and I hope that you liked your bench. Use it often, I now we will. I hope that in sitting there, the place where you were so comfortable, happy and at peace, we may celebrate your time with us and gain some wisdom from your steps on this earth. Good night Silva. Rest in peace my friend.

Cidalia Azevedo

August 23, 2008

God in His infinite plan chose to intertwine our lives from long ago.Silvinho we knew you as a child, we were neighbors and we played together. We would travel across the world twice and then meet again, and find ourselves joined by family ties as you became our brother-in-law. This was God's plan, that we shared our time here on earth with you. You had the gift of hospitality and kindness, always serving (thanks for all the lattes), and asking if we needed anything. You made us laugh at every family gathering. When God took you He left a hole in our hearts and in our family, but we are reassured and comforted in knowing that He loved you so much and wanted to end your suffering. The mystery of life is great and none of us can understand it, but I pray that all of us can find solace in knowing that we will meet you again someday...
Adelina, Eric, Danny, Marc, Dalaila and families - We love you all very much and we are here for you.
His legacy and his memory lives on in you and the grandchildren.
Cid & John Azevedo

Clarinda Miller

August 20, 2008

Silva, I can't believe that you're gone. We all miss you very much! I find comfort knowing that you are no longer suffering and that you are in heaven watching over us. Camping will never be the same with out you. I promise to watch over Mama and the kids always!
Addie, I am here for you always!
Boys and Dalaila, You guys know that the Millers are here for you guys always.
On the road again eat some rice and beans! Rest in peace my dear friend!

Norma & Hector Gonzales

August 19, 2008

Danny & family,

I don't know what happens when we leave this world. I only know that somewhere the one you love is smiling on you, hoping your okay, wishing you strength and courage in the days ahead.........just as we are keeping you close in heart and wishing you all the comfort and love you need to get through this sad time.
Sending a big hug.

Love,
Norma & Hector Gonzales

Jorge Valladarez Sr.

August 19, 2008

Danny & family,

Remember that your father left the world a legacy in the good and caring person you have grown to be.
And in this time of sadness, may it help to comfort you to know that he is still a part of all you are and do.
May God bless you and your family now and always.

Love,

Jorge Valladarez Sr. & family

Elena Jensen

August 18, 2008

Danny & family,

God knows the sadness that you feel at losing one you loved so much.

May He help to ease your pain with His tender, loving care.

With Sympathy

Elena Jensen & family

Elida Valladarez

August 15, 2008

DaSilva Family,

It's hard to understand why people are taken from us when the Lord calls our loved ones home.
But find comfort in knowing you were a special part of a well-lived life.
Hold on to your memories, and let them guide you during this time of sadness.
Wishing you and your family strength and peace.

Paula Goncalves

August 14, 2008

My heart goes out to you and your family Adelina, Silvinho was too young to leave this earth, we have to believe that God has a plan for all of us.

Silvinho survives through you and his children. May you and your loved ones find comfort in your memories.

We didn't see each other very often but what I remember most about Silvinho was how very welcome he always made us feel when we saw each other, he was a very kind gentleman.

God bless you,
Paula & Candido Goncalves

Heather Anicete

August 12, 2008

I am terribly sorry for your loss. May time ease your sorrow. I am so glad that I had the chance to meet him. May he rest in peace.

Maria Izquierdo

August 11, 2008

I still cant believe your'e gone,but in my heart you'll always be RIP. Silvino love you

Gabe Aguilar

August 10, 2008

DaSilva Family
Silvino and I only talked occassionally at BBQs and birthdays, but we always talked about our families and 49ers. I'll miss his laughter while playing cards.

Caroline Smith

August 8, 2008

Adelina & family,
My deepest sympathy to you. I know you will miss him terribly, but with time, you will all be okay. Know that he will always be in your hearts.

With love,
Caroline

Delfim & Lucila Avila

August 8, 2008

Silvino,we will miss you dearly and will always love you. Now you are an angel watching over us.Adelina we love you and we are here for you and the kids.

Pam Edwardson

August 7, 2008

Addie & Family,

It is still hard to believe that we will not see John at work. Joe Cunha and John were always helping us with one thing or another at the university. As a matter of fact the office I am sitting in was put together by John and Joe. My God confort you in coming weeks . . .

Martin and Estela Camacho

August 6, 2008

John,
As we play our roles in life: sons, daughters, parents, grandparents, friends; I am so glad the lord put our paths together to share friendship. I've known you since my early days Pacific Maintenance, and shortly after, we became neighbors. John I cherished our friendship and I will surely miss our talks in the front yard. I found comfort knowing that you are resting in the peace of the lord. To your family our heart felt condolences.

Tanya Fregoso

August 6, 2008

DaSilva Family,
We are so sorry for your loss. We are grieving with you and for you. Your dad will be missed. Adi we will always be here for you for whatever you need. Silvino was always so kind to our family. He would always make sure I had something sugar free. Just remember that he will never truly be gone because he will live in your hearts forever. His journey has just begun.
We love you and are here for you for whatever you need.
Danny, Tanya, Danny Jr., Bianca and Marcos Fregoso

Micrus Endovascular

August 6, 2008

The Micrus team is deeply sadded by the family lost and our hearts and prayers go out to you all.

Liz and Matt Benjamin

August 6, 2008

John. Although we did not know you well, our daughter Marissa did and remembers you were the first one to meet when she went camping with the Miller family.. She spoke highly of you. God Bless You and Your family. Matt, Liz and Marissa Benjamin

Bernardett Pereira

August 6, 2008

I hope the memories you treasure will comfort you now and forever. With heartfelt Sympathy.

Orialda, Jason, Kayla & Matthew Reicks

August 6, 2008

Silvino- As I type this, I still can't believe this is true. I find comfort in knowing that you are no longer suffering now and our at peace in Heaven. You had a big heart and would give and do anything you could for others. You may not be with us physically but will always be with us in spirit and forever in our hearts. We will do whatever we can to take care of your "Mama" and kids. We love you very much. Sleep with the angels peacefully, my sweet brother. Miss you so much.

Orialda, Jason, Kayla & Matthew Reicks

August 6, 2008

Silvino-
As I type this, I still can't believe it's true. The only comfort I have is knowing that you are no longer suffering and that you are in Heaven peacefully. You may not be here physically but will always be with us in spirit. You had a big heart and would give and do whatever you could for others. We will make sure to take care of Mama and the kids. Rest with the Angels, my sweet brother. You will forever be in our hearts. We love you.

henrietta Silveira

August 6, 2008

John, although I didn't know you for long, it was enough to know that you were a loving caring person, convention time was so much fun, thanks for the good laughs.
To Addie: I can only say that I am here for you, no matter what time.
To the Kids: I know what it feels to loose a father, and although the pain eases with time I can guarantee that the memories stay and those are the most precious things to hold on to.

Love

Jasmina & Antonio Herrera

August 6, 2008

Erick(Juanito)
I am so sorry to hear this news. My sincere condolences
From a old friend from Mylex Corp.

Peter and Paula Brasil

August 6, 2008

Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead.

Roberta Dias

August 6, 2008

Adelina, my condolences to you and your family. May God be with you through this difficult time.

Adilia Azevedo

August 6, 2008

John,

We loved you very much and will miss you so very much. We will miss your smile and your thoughfullness in helping everyone. We Love you!!!

Adilia & Carlos Azevedo

Duarte & Fatima Teixeira

August 6, 2008

John, May you rest in Peace you where so nice to us and made us feel welcome to your family. We are very sad that we did not have more time together. We will do are best to make Marc feel like are son.

Yvette Silva

August 6, 2008

John you will be missed. Danny and I are so grateful that you were there on our special day, we love you so much and miss you everyday. We will never forget you.
In the words of John 'on the road again, eating beans and rice"

We love you!
Danny and Yvette Silva

Marc & Paula

August 6, 2008

John was a GREAT Father and Father-in-Law. He would do anything for his family. We both love and miss him very much and we know that he will be there with us on our Wedding Day. Thank you to all for all the love and support you have given our family during this time.

Alda Souza

August 6, 2008

He will be missed by all of us.

Jacqueline Olague

August 6, 2008

Padrinho, I love you and miss you. It just wont be the same without you, but knowing that you are in a better place calms my spirit. Rest in Peace! <3 your God Daughter.
Madrinha, you know you are like my second mom, if you need anything I will be there for you, you are gonna get through this, I promise. I LoVE you!
To My cousins! I pray that God just brings lots of peace and comfort during this difficult time.Im a phone call away if u ever need anything! I LOVE YOU GUYS!

Mary Kolanda

August 6, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this dificult time. May God help you through it.

John, was a wonderful guy and he IS very much missed here at work.

Darling Fischer Garden Chapel

August 5, 2008

Offering our deepest condolences during this difficult time.

Christy Azevedo

August 5, 2008

Silvin, what's our new word? I love and miss you so much. I promised you in the hospital that Mama will never be alone and I swear by that now. Remember if you win big on that slot machine up there, I get half. I love you and remember when you get mad just say it.

Nicole Silva

August 5, 2008

He will be missed

Teresa Flores

August 5, 2008

John will be missed at National Semiconductor. He was a hard working man and we greatly appreciated him.

My sincerest condolences to all of his family.

May God Bless you and your family always.

Cidalia Cunha

August 5, 2008

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

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