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Lorel Lu Kay

1926 - 2013

Lorel Lu Kay obituary, 1926-2013, Saratoga, CA

Lorel Kay Obituary

Lorel Lu Kay
April 9, 1926 - January 9, 2013
Resident of Saratoga
Lorel Lu Kay, age 86, died peacefully at her home in the Saratoga Retirement Community on Jan 9, 2013 surrounded by the love of her husband and family who were present. Lorel's life as a spouse, mother, relative and friend was a rich one, full of love offered and love returned.
Born on April 9, 1926 and raised in Los Angeles, Lorel Lu Daus grew up in a happy family with older sister June and parents Paul and Daphne. She went to University High in Los Angeles where her valedictorian speech signaled a theme of enduring importance to her with its title "Science with a Heart." Lorel graduated Magna Cum Laude from UC Berkeley with a degree in Chemistry and then continued her education in the graduate program at University of Michigan. After attending a lecture by Professor Melvin Calvin, Lorel enthusiastically became an integral part of his research team at UC Berkeley. Lorel is a coauthor on the seminal 1954 publication that was cited when Calvin was awarded the Nobel Prize in Chemistry (1961) for his work unlocking the secrets of photosynthesis.
In 1952 Lorel Lu met Eric Kay. Soon after, they married and began a deeply loving partnership of 60 years that was a true love story: they frequently discussed the issues of the day and all could see their affection for one another. Eric and Lorel have 3 children (David, Erica, Andy), 6 grandchildren (Frieda, Owen, Kara, Mckenzie, Joshua, Carly) and 4 great-grandchildren. Nurturing her family was always Lorel's top priority and proudest achievement.
To the end her mind was restless and probing, her creativity multi-faceted, her love for words and puns constant, and her dedication to others unwavering. Lorel Lu was an artist (bronze sculptor- hero of the West Valley College sculpture class, painter, and filmmaker), a writer (poet and story-teller), a scientist, and a humanitarian. Although exceedingly humble throughout her life, Lorel was an inspiration to all who knew her.
A scientist at heart, Lorel's insatiable desire to know how things worked, her love for understanding the process itself, propelled her to be a doer in life not satisfied in being a spectator. In life as with all her endeavors, Lorel embraced the journey. She delighted in the process and was accepting and always grateful for the perfection of whatever resulted.
Private services will be held on February 23rd. In lieu of flowers, which Lorel loved, donations may be made to Mendocino Coast Clinics (www.mendocinocoastclinics.org) or the charity of your choice.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by San Jose Mercury News/San Mateo County Times on Jan. 18, 2013.

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Leslie Kay

January 12, 2025

Lorel was my aunt. She was a constant presence in my family life into adulthood and beyond. She had so many interests and talents and achievements but for me she was that steady, kindly, keen witted aunt who cherished family. I miss her.

Leslie Kay

January 12, 2020

Lorel Lu was my Aunt Lorel and I will never forget what she brought to our extended family. Most who know her that she had many creative outlets that took on an array of manifestations that inspired all of us. In that way she was an early influencer. She made our family open to change and new ways of seeing things and for that I am grateful.

Charlene McAllister

August 10, 2013

Lorel was an inspiration to all of us who were fortunate to know her.

bonnie sarrow

February 5, 2013

Eric...when you & Lorel left Mendocino, you left a huge hole in our fabric. So sorry to hear of Lorel's passing. bonnie

Sandy Glickfeld

February 5, 2013

I am so grateful to have known dear Lorel. I watched her make a quiet and beautiful difference with children wen she volunteered at the Mendocino Grammar School. I treasure my conversations with Loral and Eric and send my deepest love to you, Eric, and to your family.

Ted Platou

January 22, 2013

Elly Mae, husband (Steve), and children are proud to have been blessed by your friendship! Now, it's off to plant some daffodil peace-signs : )

January 19, 2013

Lorel , What grace and wit. I have such fond memories of you from my childhood. You were so kind and hospitable to children. I was a beneficiary of your graciousness.Deb Mclean

Leslie Kay

January 18, 2013

“Tell me, what is it you plan to do
with your one wild and precious life?”
? Mary Oliver--

Lorel Lu Kay got it right.

David Kay

January 18, 2013

The earth laughs in flowers, according to Ralph Waldo Emerson. Your love for them, everlasting, will make me smile at every bloom.

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