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Lupe Farmer Obituary

Lupe R. Farmer 08/22/1956 -11/19/2008 Laid to rest with family at bed side on 11/19/08. Joining her late mother, Mary Espinoza, she is surely at peace and happy. As an extremely successful business woman and remarkably strong soul, Lupe's long journey with cancer will always have a lasting impact on those who were closest to her. As a loving mother and sister she is survived by daughter Charmaine, sisters Carmen, Antonia, Esther, and Lucy, and devoted brother Louis, as well as many wonderful nieces and nephews. She will be sadly missed yet always remembered as a fighter. Funeral Service Wednesday, 11/26/08 at 11:00AM, at Lima Family Santa Clara Mortuary, 466 N. Winchester Blvd.. Interment to follow at Santa Clara Mission Cemetery.

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Published by San Jose Mercury News on Nov. 23, 2008.

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Barbara Lawrence

November 25, 2008

Charmaine and Family,
My prayers are with you during this difficult time. I had the pleasure of knowing and calling Lupe my friend. I have never seen anyone be so strong and positive during her struggle with leukemia. She will remain alive in my thoughts, prayers and my heart forever.
Love,

Bill Taylor

November 25, 2008

Louie:

I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. I hope you are able to find peace with the loss eventually.

Bill Taylor
Room 65

Valraie Bibb

November 25, 2008

Louie
Sorry to hear about your sister. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Dan Naylor

November 25, 2008

Louie
I was sorry to hear about the loss of your sister, and know you miss her. I recently lost my mother and know how difficult this is. Please look to your Westmont family during this difficult time for support and kind words when you need them. We appreciate your dedication to faculty and students.

John and Yvette Walsh

November 24, 2008

Charmaine, our thoughts are with you and your family, and of course, your lovely mother, Lupe. I am honored to have met her, she was such a dignified, elegant woman...something her illness could not steal away. Remembering you and Lupe in our minds and in our hearts.

"Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal."

Peace

Cathy Johnsgard

November 24, 2008

Louie
It has been a tough road and you have been their every step of the way. You and your sisters have formed a special bond between you that will be the strength all of you need to get through this difficult time. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Your pal always-
Cathy

Lynn Walton

November 24, 2008

Louie--My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Lynn Walton

James Gaston

November 24, 2008

Louie

I am so sorry to hear of your loss.

- James

Marilyn Barcellos

November 24, 2008

Dear Louie

You have been special to me since day one here at Westmont. I am so so sorry for your loss of your sister. Even though the last few years have been very difficult for you, time will heal, and you can look back on all your wonderful memories of your sister and family. My heart felt thoughts go out to you at this very difficult time. Free hugs in room 8.
Your friend, Marilyn Barcellos

Owen Hege

November 24, 2008

Louie & Family,

I hope the memory of Lupe will make everyone strong forever.

Randi Heinrichsen

November 24, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you Louie. I know your sister was a very special person.

Desa Sredanovich

November 24, 2008

Louie-
My thoughts are with you and your family. I am very sorry to hear about the loss of your sister.

Vicki Falkner

November 24, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family Louie at this most difficult time.

Miriam Shellberg

November 24, 2008

I am praying for the family of Lupe to mourn your loss and gather strength from each other and your fond memories. May each day become easier knowing that your beloved Lupe is with the angels. God bless you all, particularly Louie, who is a blessing to our family here at Westmont High.

Connie DuLany

November 24, 2008

What a gift to know and pray with Lupe and her wonderful family. My thoughts and prayers are with the family

Patrick and Pamela kottinger

November 23, 2008

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well-lived.

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