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Nancy O'Neill Obituary

Nancy Catherine O'Neill Born February 23, 1923; Passed December 24, 2008. Beloved wife of Richard O'Neill MD and loving mother of Richard Jr, Kevin, Kerry and Barry. She was grandmother to Hayley, Sean and Catherine O'Neill, and mother-in-law to Regina and Barbara. Nancy died peacefully in her sleep at her home in San Jose, California. Nancy was a graduate of the University of California at Berkeley and a registered nurse. She was very involved with local charities especially the O'Connor Hospital Guild where she served as a past President. She was also an active member of P.E.O., TO KOLAN and Good Group. She also was a volunteer teacher in the San Jose Unified School District. Nancy enjoyed life and her many close friends. She was an avid gardener and tennis player. Nancy and Richard were married for sixty years. They met in 1941 in Yosemite National Park when she was a hostess at Curry Village and he was a clerk at Degnan's Market. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to O'Connor Hospital Pediatrics. A celebration Mass will be held for Nancy on Friday, December 26th, at 9:30 AM, at St. Christopher's Church, 2278 Booksin Avenue, San Jose.

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Published by San Jose Mercury News on Dec. 25, 2008.

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Debra Pappani-Goodman

January 5, 2009

Such a fun house to spend time
in ! What a gift to be cared for by
Dr. O'Neill since 2 years old,
and then spend the growing up
years in the presence of Mrs.O'Neill.
This woman spread warmth and such good mentoring to so many
teens. She enriched my teen years with trips to the YWCA,
overnighters with chocolate chip
cookies, and a strong support
during my years of hospital stays
in my 20's. What a truly lovely
lady !! I will miss her presence !
Debra Pappani-Goodman

Rayna K Bramer Galati

December 28, 2008

Dear Kerry and Dr. O'Neill and Family,

I was sorry to hear about your Mom. She was always so gracious and wonderful to me and I loved spending time in your home.

You are all in my prayers.

Pete Anello

December 26, 2008

Hey Kevin, Dr O'Neill, and the rest of the family. Our thoughts are with you. I thank you so much for your generosity and welcoming me (and the rest of "the gang") into your family & home when we were growing up. I will never forget the pool table, ping pong table, juke box, and swimming pool. Those were the days....Your mom was the best.

Larry and Anna Marie Terry

December 26, 2008

Our prayers and thoughts are with you Dick, and your wonderfulf family.
Larry and Anna Marie

The Freschi's

December 26, 2008

All of our sympathy to the O'Neills. We, like all of our neighborhood, loved Nancy. She will be dearly missed.

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