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Robert DeBarr Obituary
September 21, 1956 - July 4, 2016
Resident of Saratoga
Robert Edward DeBarr, loving husband to Pam, and the best father to Kelly and Jeffrey, passed away from brain cancer at 59 on July 4, 2016. He was born in San Francisco on September 21, 1956, raised in San Jose, and was a 33 year resident of Saratoga. He attended Queen of Apostles School and graduated from Bellarmine. He received his BA in Finance from San Jose State – "The home of the mighty Spartans," and received his MBA from Golden Gate University while working full time. For 30 years, he worked in various positions in Finance at National Semiconductor, including Corporate Controller and Treasurer. He retired as CFO of Micrel in Oct, 2015.
His passions included traveling, music, and sports. Bob's friends and neighbors meant the world to him. He loved the 49ers and Warriors, but his love for the Giants defined him. He loved coaching Saratoga Little League and NJB, and watching youth, high school and college sports. There was nothing more important to Bob than his wife, children, parents, and siblings.
Bob will be remembered for his integrity, humor, loyalty, and for being a "Top Notch" guy. From Galatians 5:22, "…the fruit of the spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, generosity, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control." Bob exemplified all of these qualities without even trying; it's just who he was.
Bob is survived by his loving wife of 33 years, Pam; his children, Kelly and Jeffrey (Kelsey); his granddaughter, Coralie; his parents, Fran and Bob; his siblings, Diane and Denise (Jim); sister-in-law, Pam; and 8 nieces and nephews. He was preceded in death by his brother, Dan; brother-in-law, Rick; and nephew, Jamie.
A Funeral Mass will be held at 2:00 pm on Friday, July 22 at Queen of Apostles, 4911 Moorpark Ave., San Jose. Burial will follow at Madronia Cemetery, Saratoga. Reception to follow.
In lieu of flowers, please make donations in his memory to Archbishop Mitty High School.
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Alfonso Jim
March 22, 2017
I'm deeply saddened by Bob's untimely departure. Bob is fondly remembered as an affable and caring leader, manager and friend. His demand for the highest standard of professionalism was always delivered with an avuncular charm. His relentless efforts in staff development will be dearly cherished forever.May I belatedly express my deepest condolences to his family and relatives.
Brian McDonald
July 22, 2016
Our Thoughts and prayers are with the entire Debarr family!
Sincerely,
The McDonalds
Lia Punches
July 21, 2016
I'm so sorry to hear this sad news. Bob was such a brave, kind man. Truly one of the nicest persons I've ever met. His office was down the hall from mine at Micrel, and it wasn't hard to see how hard-working and dedicated he was to his job. He always had a smile on, and was so easy to talk to whenever I needed help with something. My condolences to Bob's family. I'm so sorry for your loss.
Marisela Reyes
July 18, 2016
Rest in peace dear friend!
Seamus Moran
July 17, 2016
Every sympathy to Bob's family in your grief. Bob was a wise, kind and thoughtful man. For over twenty years, he volunteered as chair of our credit union, first as National's and more recently as PremierOne, and I knew him in that role. He drew together the financial management, professionalism and kindness to all that a credit union requires, in the most wise manner: he was an inspiration to all. His loss is profound, and we will miss him hugely.
Patricia Sakowski
July 17, 2016
Pam,
My heartfelt sympathy for your loss.Bob was sUchiha a humble,sincere and honest man which was evident throughout his work at NSC. He was my first bosses and my favorite boss. He was my mentor. I remember your wedding and how happy he was to meet the love of his life. He loved you all. His memory will keep him by your side always.
God bleas and rest in peace my friend.
Pat Sakowski
Marisela Reyes
July 13, 2016
My prayers go to the family. I had the pleasure to work with Mr. Debarr at Micrel. I'm honored to have met such an awesome man who left us too soon.
Allie Goetz
July 12, 2016
Dear Pam & Family-
Bob & I worked together at Micrel, where he was liked, admired, & respected. I am so sorry for your loss and will keep you in my prayers.
Respectfully, Allie Goetz
Kathy Vitzthum
July 12, 2016
I had the pleasure and honor of working for Bob at Micrel. He was an amazing, caring person. He spoke about your family with such love. I will continue to keep you all in my prayers. You have my deepest sympathy.
~Kathy Vitzthum
Doyle Slack
July 11, 2016
Dear Pam and family,
I gained a great deal of respect for Bob during our time working together at Micrel. I knew that I could come to him with an issue and we would work it out together, even if we were not initially sharing the same point of view. I will always remember his friendliness and respect. I am so sorry for your loss.
Tom Suchevits
July 10, 2016
Bob, was the Chairman of the Board and Board Member of National Semiconductor, National and Premier One Credit unions for 20+ years. As a volunteer, he helped grow these Credit Unions to their current size with nearly $400 Million in assets. He lead these Boards with the same Integrity, Honesty, Vision, and Customer Focus which he exhibited in his daily life. He will be missed but not forgotten by his numerous friends and his loving family. Tom Suchevits, Friend and Board Member.
Joanne Martin
July 10, 2016
Dear Pam and family,
Bob was a very gracious and caring man. I was honored to be his Administrative Assistant at National Semiconductor for the time I was employed there. Bob always treated me with respect, as he did with others at National. He was highly regarded as a man of dignity, and a man who always greeted you with his wonderful smile and the warmed of his blue eyes that made you feel that you were his friend always.
He will be missed.
God Bless and rest in peace dear friend.
Joanne
Jerry & Pat Stern
July 10, 2016
Bob was a great friend and worked many years with him. He will be greatly missed as he was always a loving & caring person.
Our prayers are with the family.
Mike Hawkins
July 10, 2016
PAm. We are saddened to hear of your loss. our thoughts are with you. MIke and Tiger Hawkins
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