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Robert Paul Wayman

1945 - 2022

Robert Paul Wayman obituary, 1945-2022, Los Altos, CA

BORN

1945

DIED

2022

Robert Wayman Obituary

Robert "Bob" Paul Wayman, who was known by many and loved by all, passed away Friday, July 22, 2022, in Los Altos, CA. Born July 5, 1945 in Chicago, Bob was the youngest of three children born to Dorothy and Lowell Wayman. Starting at a young age, Bob dedicated himself to learning and service. He collected coins, stamps, and fossils; built model train sets; and worked hard to become an Eagle Scout.

After earning a bachelor's degree and MBA from Northwestern University, he enjoyed a long and highly successful career at the iconic Silicon Valley company, Hewlett-Packard (HP). In 1969—three years after HP introduced its first computer—he began as a cost accountant at their Loveland, CO office, before moving to headquarters in Palo Alto. He rose through the ranks and became the Chief Financial Officer (CFO) in 1984, a position he held for 22 years spanning four CEOs, one of whom dubbed him "Mr. GQ." He also served on HP's Board of Directors.

For a brief stint in 2005, HP's Board turned to Bob and appointed him interim CEO. He then returned to his CFO role until he retired in late 2006 after 37 years with the company. During his career, he earned a distinguished reputation as a corporate leader, finance executive, and mentor to countless people and was awarded the CEO of the Year Lifetime Achievement Award from the San Francisco Business Times.

Along the way, he lent his talents as a Board member to a diverse set of companies and was a member of the Advisory Board to Northwestern University's Kellogg Graduate School of Management. He also gave back to the community in immeasurable ways. Among many philanthropic pursuits, he was a founder of Cultural Initiatives Silicon Valley and a Board member—and early supporter—of the V Foundation for Cancer Research, a nonprofit he actively supported for decades.

His family expanded over the years. Early on, he married his high school sweetheart, Roxanne Durec, and began a family with Jennifer, Allison, and Grant. Later, he married Susan Humphrey, where the family grew to include Kirsten and Clay. In his free time, he enjoyed skiing in Tahoe and Colorado, growing tomatoes in his garden, and socializing with friends.

In recent years, Bob split time between California and Hawaii. Bob's family expanded again to include his loving wife, Kim. Together, they settled in the quaint town of Puako, where he enjoyed running, trimming trees, and watching Gunsmoke and spectacular sunsets. He is remembered by his family and friends for his boundless kindness and generosity, humble nature, high standard, and strong work ethic—and, of course, his deep and natural tan, even in the winter months. As family members jokingly reminded him, he was much more than "just a numbers guy."

Of all his accomplishments, Bob was always most proud of his children and their families. He is survived by his wife, Kim; his siblings, Don and Diane; and his children, Jennifer, Allison, Grant, Clay, and Kirsten, along with more than 20 grandchildren.

A Celebration of Life is planned at the Los Altos Golf and Country Club on August 10 from 3-6 pm with a program at 4 pm. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the V Foundation.

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Published by Mercury News on Aug. 1, 2022.

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Cece Lytle

July 28, 2024

Always in my heart, I miss you.

Cecilia Claudio

December 12, 2023

Miss you a lot, still can´t believe you are gone, and I won´t see you again.
May you be at peace, bye for now.
C. Claudio

Charles Malsbury, Kelowna, BC, Canada

August 19, 2022

I was fortunate to know Bob throughout our school years, from kindergarten through university. We were fraternity brothers at Northwestern, and Bob was the best man at my wedding. I have many fond memories of times we spent together in those early days. We did a science fair project together in elementary school, double-dated in high school, and canoed with our explorer scout troop in the Boundary Waters area in Canada. Bob was a natural leader even in those days. During canoe trips, he was often the one reading the map, charting our course. His discipline and work ethic were apparent early on. He set a good example for me in that regard.

The last time I saw him was many years ago at his home in Los Altos Hills while I was attending a scientific meeting at Stanford. I regret that we didn´t keep in contact after that, but our busy lives went in different directions. I´ve thought about him many times since then, and will always remember him as a good friend.

Sherri Thill (Williams)

August 8, 2022

So sorry to hear of Bob´s passing. I would love to hear from cousins Don and Diane.

Katheryn Young

August 8, 2022

I directly supported Bob shortly after I graduated from business school. We worked together on Plan, Board of Directors meetings, and Management Reporting. He was always patient and took time out of his busy day to thoroughly explain to a young employee what we were working on and what he needed. I learned so much. I will never forget his kindness and brilliance.

Nann and Craig Pettey

August 5, 2022

We are the parents of Adam Pettey. Adam is the ex husband of Kirsten.

We were saddened to hear about Bob´s passing. Every time we had the pleasure to be around Bob he was
so gracious and kind. It was pleasant cto be in his company. Our deepest sympathy to Bob´s family. The world lost a true gentleman.

Bob McCleary

August 4, 2022

I joined HP in 1966 retired 2002. I remember when Bob hire in and became HP´s CFO. I had the opportunity to meet Bob and have interactions with Bob on occasional financial issues. Wonderful man, smart, kind and delightful to work with. Fond memories of Bob and his passion for his family and work. My sincere sympathy for the family and dear friends. Bob McCleary.

Caryn Slane

August 2, 2022

I joined HP as a student in 1997 and remember well Bob's time as CFO and interim CEO. He was a great leader and while I never met him in person he still made an impression and positive impact on my career. My heartfelt condolences to the family on Bob's passing. May you comfort one another with fond memories. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Cecilia Claudio

August 2, 2022

Bye for now, till we meet again.

My sympathy to all your family, you were deeply loved.

Brooke and Scott Hill

August 1, 2022

What a beautiful summary of Bob´s life.
Bob, we will think of you with every sunset we watch in Puako.
Kim and family, we are so sorry for your loss and hope your memories of Bob comfort you.

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