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for Tom Chilcote
Ellen Freeman-Garcia
September 12, 2009
To the Chilcote Family,
I wanted to say how very sorry about the loss of Tom. I fnally talked to him 7 years. I thought it was great and how he talked about Christmas at his home with his wife. He said they celebrated Christmas in a big way and told me to check out his website. My god I never saw so many lights in my life. I also remember racing down Almaden Expressway laughing our butts off. My god those roads are going to miss that man
Uncle Phil Chilcote
September 9, 2009
Dear Linda, CJ, and Tommy, please accept our condolences at the passing of Tom. When he was younger, I always enjoyed his enthusiasm for life. All of the Chilcote boys shared the same zest, but Tom was also a kind soul, a smart and genuine genius and most importantly, a loving family man. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Bob Marx
September 4, 2009
Dear Chilcote Family,
Although we have never met, the friendship you have extended to our son and nephew, Mike Barrie, is deeply appreciated. Mike has so often spoken of Tom Jr. and the closeness of his family. We pray that that love and closeness will only increase in the days and months ahead. God bless you, and may Tom Sr. rest in God's loving embrace. Sylvia Fugatt and Bob Marx
Julie Harris
September 4, 2009
Linda, CJ, and Tommy, My prayers are with you . Tom was one of the most amazing men ive ever met. A great husband, dad, grandfather, and friend. Bless you all.
Lynne Thompson (Hale)
September 4, 2009
I was deeply saddened to hear about the death of Tom. I know this is a difficult time. You are in my thoughts and prayers. I didn't know Tom well, but Craig never spoke of his Dad without great pride and love. This is a great tribute to a father and a man. I'll always remember how proud Craig was of the massive Christmas-light display that his Dad and the boys strung on the house. Craig couldn't wait to have us drive by and see them. And what a marvelous display! I know how much your family will miss Tom, but you will always have a wealth of memories. May God bless you and your family during this difficult time.
September 3, 2009
To the Chilcote Family:
Our sincerest condolences. Unfortunately our family will be unable to attend the services tomorrow. Our prayers will be with you as you set your angel free.
With all our love,
The Parker Family
Greg Bowers
September 3, 2009
I don't know quite what to say. I have known Tom and his family for almost 30 years. I never got the chance to know Tom really well, but the times we did talk, is was like we knew each other forever. I never saw Tom in a bad mood, ever. I always enjoyed talking to him when he came by Northaire to pick up parts, or just to say hello. We had a lot in common, almost the same age, the HVAC trade, fast cars, great families, and more. I think that whoever Tom knew, he was probably their best friend. He was that kind of person. He will be greatly missed, and forever remembered.
Bonnie Patrick
September 2, 2009
Linda, Tommy and CJ, we are so sorry for the lose of such a great guy. Tom was a good friend to our kids, lots of great memories. One that stands out in my mind is when Tom put out David's birthday cake with the fire extinguisher.
Our thoughts, prayers and love to the family.
Al and Bonnie Patrick
Lou, Toni & Sean Kovacs
September 2, 2009
Dear Linda, Tommy and C.J.
When Tommy called us on Sunday, we were in shock. We can’t even begin to imagine the loss you must feel. We wish there were words to express our deepest sympathy. We are so glad that we did get together in February. Tom looked so good then and it seemed like he was cancer free. We will always remember Tom-he was a wonderful man, husband, father and friend. We hope you find comfort in knowing that the lives he touched have been enriched by knowing him. Our hearts go out to you and all your family. Please let us know if ever there is anything you need.
With Fondest Remembrances, Love and Prayers
Jeremy Duarte
September 2, 2009
I am at a lose for words....... Tom was a great man and may he rest in piece. He will always be someone who I looked up to when it came to building cars. The RedZone Performance Family will keep Tom in our prayers and hearts.
Christine Soliday
September 1, 2009
I didn't know Tom as well as I would have liked. I do know however, that he was devoted to his family and dearly loved by them. Any conversation with his wife Linda always included how special he was, how special and loved he made her and everyone else feel. And how much he loved to laugh.
He will be sorely missed, good kind generous people are so rare.
Shirley Orensteen (Chilcote)
September 1, 2009
Dear Chilcote Family, to me, he will always be Tommy. When ever he stopped in at Northaire, he would always come into the office and we would talk(a Chilcote trait). The last time, we hugged. He was a great kid and a wonderful man. But I guess the Lord had other plans for him. My deepest condolences to all of you for this tremendous loss.
Bob Chilcote
September 1, 2009
We were the y's. He was Tommy and I was Bobby. We have the same dorky laugh, same dorky humor. He was my older brother who took me to car shows, drag races, crusing and the movies. I remember listening to Benny and the Jets in his '67 Chevelle (before the '70) burning out down 1st street. I'll miss you Tom, I wish we had more time to play like the old times.
Patty Ruffo
September 1, 2009
Linda, CJ, and Tommy
Our hearts are broken for you as well as for ourselves. Words cannot fully express what a loss Tom is to our family. Over the years we have laughed and cried together. Mostly laughed though because of Tom. He always kept us going! He was just that kind of guy. Our hearts are heavy but our minds are full of wonderful memories of Tom.
We are here for all of you.
We love you.
The Ruffo Gang
Patty Ruffo
September 1, 2009
Al, Donna, Mike, and Bobby
Our hearts are broken for you.
Thank you for bringing this wonderful guy into the world and sharing him with us all for all these years.
You raised him to be an incredible human being full of love, compassion, and humor. Love to you all from
the Ruffo Family
Colleen Casey
September 1, 2009
Dear Linda, CJ, Tommy & family -
My heartfelt condolences to you during this time. My memories of Tom will always have him smiling his big grin at all the Ruffo family events! God bless you all. With all my love, Colleen
The Sepulveda's
September 1, 2009
Linda, CJ and Tommy, Our hearts are broken for you, we loved Tom very much! He was a very special person and friend...a one of a kind. We will keep you in our prayers. All our love, David, Shannon, Haley and Hannah
Melissa Mazzei (Parker)
September 1, 2009
We are all at a complete loss for words. Condolences from our family to yours. We are deeply saddened by this loss and will never forget to "Pull my Stick." With Lots of Love, Robert, Kathy, and Melissa (Mazzei)
Priscilla Chilcote
September 1, 2009
The first time I met Tom was when he was 11 years old. He was a really sweet kid and he grew into a very nice young man. Always a smile and always pleasant. A truly special guy that I am glad to have known. I have read many of the condolences sent for this wonderful man and it shows that he was loved by many and will be sorely missed. My thoughts and prayers are with his family.
September 1, 2009
Dear Linda, Tommy and C.J.
We share in your sorrow and although we are far away - know that you are not far from us in our thoughts and prayers. Love from, Craig and Cheryll Franks
Amy Reynolds
September 1, 2009
Linda, Tommy and CJ, I can't tell you enough how much your family has meant to me over the years. Although we have drifted in age, I'll never forget the first time I was welcomed into your home and the many times after that. All the times I got to spend with your family, enjoying Christmas (and the many lights), family picnics, movie nights and so on, will forever be special memories to me. Tom Sr. was one of the most welcoming, funny, awesome guys I have ever met and he will be greatly missed by all who had the honor of knowing him. My love is with you all.
Chris Reynolds
September 1, 2009
Dearest Linda, Tommy and CJ,
My heart aches for all of you in the loss of your husband and father. Tom was a wonderful man, and will be greatly missed by all who knew him. I will never forget how thrilled he was to get Amy's Gremlin. I am so thankful that through our children I was able to know your family, and to know the love that you all shared. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this devastating time.
Dawn Sacco
September 1, 2009
My condolences to the Chilcote Family. It's been many years since I've seen Tom but I remember him from "back in the day" when he still worked for his Dad. I was happy to hear from Bob that Tom had opened his own fabrication shop since I knew show cars was a passion of his.
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