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Gene Sebastian Obituary

Gene Sebastian, age 87, a lifelong resident of Framingham, died peacefully Saturday, August 1, 2015 at his home in Framingham surrounded by his family and friends. He was the loving husband of 46 years the late Doris E. (Dukes) Sebastian. He was the son of the late Pasqualino A. and Alma (Anderson) Sebastiano. He was a graduate of Framingham High School. During high school, Gene enlisted at the age of 17 into the U.S. Coast Guard. He served as a radio operator and earned the rank of Petty Officer First Class (E5), at the time he was the youngest E5 in the Coast Guard. Gene co-owned, Waban Shoe Repair, along with his brother Albert; a family business established in 1926 until his retirement in 1997. Gene was the face of the company and was known for his outgoing personality and his work ethic. Waban Shoe was featured in Boston Magazine and was several times Bostons Best. He was a collector of classic cars including Thunderbirds and Woodie station wagons and sedans. His cars won numerous Best in Show. He was a member of first chapter of The National Woodie Club and recently received an award from the Yankee Woodie Chapter for outstanding contributions; the award is now named in his honor. He loved having Saturday breakfast at Mels restaurant with the members of the car club, a tradition which has continued for over 40 years. He was an active member of the Sudbury VFW Post 8771 for 10 years and was Junior Commander for 4 years. He worked tirelessly on behalf of fellow veterans and for our wounded warriors. He was also a life member of the Framingham Elks. Gene was a member of St. Anselm Church in Sudbury which he helped maintain the grounds well into his 80s. He played a prominent role in the vigil which allowed St. Anselm to maintain its status as a rectorate. He is survived by his three sons, Stephen J. Sebastian and his wife Ibelle, James M. Sebastian and his wife Eileen and Jack Sebastian and his wife Alissa; five loving grandchildren Stephanie, Nicholas, Timothy, Christopher and Morgan Sebastian. He is also survived by brothers, Albert Sebastian and his wife Eleanor of Framingham, Richard Sebastian and his wife Judy of Framingham, Robert Buck Sebastian and his wife Ann of Chicopee, his sister-in-law Sue Sebastian and many nieces and nephews. He was the brother of the late Guy Sebastian. Relatives and friends are invited to attend his funeral on Friday at 9:00a.m. from the Norton Funeral Home, 53 Beech St., (corner of Union Ave.), Framingham followed by a funeral Mass at 10:00a.m. in St. Anselms Church, 100 Landham Rd. Sudbury. Burial will follow in the family lot in St. Stephen Cemetery in Framingham. Visiting Hours at the funeral home will be Thursday from 4:00-8:00p.m. In lieu of flowers, expressions of sympathy in his memory may be made to the Coast Guard Foundation, 394 Taugwonk Road, Stonington, CT 06378. www.coastguardfoundation.org For directions and online guestbook please visit www. nortonfuneralhome.com.

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Published by MetroWest Daily News on Aug. 4, 2015.

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August 27, 2015

Dear Steve, Jim and Jack: I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your father. I know that he lived his life to its fullest each and every day ... with joy, happiness and kindness to others. Please know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. One of the best things about The Sebastian Family was being their next-door neighbors on Overlook Drive. PEACE and COMFORT to you and your families. Sincerely, Pamela Shanley

August 25, 2015

I have just learned of Gene's passing. Our family, having lived next door to Gene, Doris and their family for many years, knew them to be wonderful people with hearts of gold. The very best neighbors anyone could have! Steve, Jack and Jim, my most sincere sympathy. May Gene and his beloved wife, Doris, rest in eternal peace.
Joan Shanley

August 14, 2015

Our condolences to the Sebastian family. A lot of memories from Waban square and beyond and a lot of history with the family, from fathers to grandfathers. Feel like a piece of history has passed on.
Just read about it in the obits and sorry we were not able to say our last goodbyes.
Myron and Margie Cummins
Cummins Wardrobe Service

David & Doreen Salzman

August 11, 2015

Our deepest condolences to the Sebastian family from David and Doreen Salzman fellow members of the Yankee Wood Chapter of which Gene was a longtime member. He and Doris were very welcoming to us when we first joined the club. He was a true friend and admired by everyone he knew. We will miss him.

Tore Mascioli

August 9, 2015

To the Sebastian Family,
I'm so sorry for your loss and hoping you will find courage, strength, and comfort with friends and family with all the treasured memories of you dad. Remembering all those great days, endless hours playing street hockey. Wish you all the best!

Adam La Reau

August 7, 2015

The Sebastian's, I'm sorry about the loss of such a wonderful man. My prayers go out to your family.

Love you guys, Adam La Reau

August 6, 2015

Steve, Jack, and Jim ,I met your dad with Steve at a couple of great dinners at Padula's . We had a great night with lots of laughs.. I know how much he will be missed.. Our condolences you and his family. Eddie and Janice Yad

August 6, 2015

You do not know me, however I knew your father from the St. Anselm Vigil and I shared a veteran's day parade with him , which was a total honor. He was a happy, honorable, loving and giving man. The obituary was beautiful. I believe he is very happy with Doris now. With Sympathy, Jeannine Driscoll

Michael Bernfeld

August 6, 2015

Steve, Jim, Jack,
My deepest sympathies to the entire Sebastian family for the loss of your Dad. Great memories of growing up on Overlook Dr and spending time at the Sebastian house with all of you. Wonderful neighbors and great friends!

August 6, 2015

To the Sebastian Family,
Our heartfelt sympathy and prayers on the passing of your Dad. We will miss Gene and his friendly smile. Our prayers for you all.
Barbara & George Lettery

Jeanne MacAllister

August 6, 2015

Jimmy,Eileen, Stephanie and Nick:

Just wanted to express my deepest sympathy to you and your family. Your father was such a warm person to talk to. I enjoyed seeing him at Holidays.

Tom Cataldo

August 6, 2015

Dear Sebastian Family,I am very sorry to hear of Gene's passing.I never knew him but knowing Steve and meeting Jim and Jack it's evident that he was a great man.Sincerely,Tom Cataldo

August 6, 2015

Hi iBelle and Stevie,

We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Our prayers are with you at this time.
Love Joanie, Ralph and Family

rita Reni

August 5, 2015

Our deepest sympathy to the the family, to the children and grandchildren. Gene was on the commitee for our last 2 high school reunion, and always spoke so lovingly of you all. Rita Reni and Joyce Dunlap

Billy Delaney

August 5, 2015

Steve, Jim, and Jack I will never forget your father and the bond that he has created between all of us. The memories of your Father and mother will remain with me forever. He was one heck of a guy. My best to the entire family.

August 4, 2015

Rest in peace Gene, you were a wonderful neighbor and friend many times to me. condolences to your sons. Pat Siff

Denise Tjarks

August 4, 2015

Steve and Ibelle, so sorry to hear about your loss. Although I was not fortunate to meet your father.. after reading his obituary I can see the qualities that he passed on to you! What an amazing man and father. He will be missed on this earth. Thinking of you and your family. Sending thoughts and prayers your way...
Love,

Jon Jancaterino

August 4, 2015

Steve and family,
My deepest condolences to you on your loss. I know how much you all loved and cared for him (and your mom) all his life. Having met him a few times at a local Italian restaurant in Framingham, I always remember his easy smile, laid back disposition, and cheerful attitude. We are all blessed to have a father like him. Will catch up with you on my upcoming trip back east at the end of the month. Much Aloha, Jon

Barry Zimmerman

August 4, 2015

Steve, Jim, Jack,

I am so sorry to hear of Dad's passing. I have so many fond memories, surrounding our childhood, in all of them I have this crystal clear picture of your father fussing over his cars, or cleaning the pool as I head out to the backyard to play whatever sport we had going on that day. The three of you and your families are in my thoughts and prayers.

Robert Greenbaum

August 4, 2015

Steve, Jim and Jack,

Very sorry to hear about your Dad. We have great memories from living across the street. May your find comfort in your memories.

Bob, Heidi, Jessica and Henry Greenbaum

Brian & Annette Burke

August 4, 2015

Dan, Amy, Megan, Jack & Mia LaPlante

August 4, 2015

Our family will miss Gene terribly. He welcomed us as next door neighbors with open arms (and brownies). It's been an honor to be his neighbor for the past 6 years. We will make sure his lawn remains impeccable as it always is. He was truly one of the kindest, most generous human beings we've ever known. Our deepest sympathies to the entire Sebastian family.

Al Dubeshter

August 4, 2015

Steve, Jim & Jack;

Growing up with all of you I have such incredible memories of your wonderful parents and spending so much time playing ping pong, football and those great fishing expeditions with your dad. We wrecked your house and they continued to invite us back. We all learned what loving parents are and I know it taught me how to be a better dad by spending time at your house with all of you and your parents. Mr. Sebastian was the best !! All my Love Al

andrea rubin

August 3, 2015

Jimmy and family, sorry for the loss of your dad, he sounded like an amazing man.. Our thoughts are with you. Andrea and Jerry Rubin

Sue and Tom Crippen

August 3, 2015

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Theresa Bollas

August 3, 2015

Our deepest sympathy is with all of you at this difficult time. We will keep you in our prayers.
The Bollas Family

August 3, 2015

Dear Family,
Hearing of your recent loss woke up so many wonderful
memories of all of you and our next door friendship.
Gene was a special neighbor, husband, father.
Our prayers go out to all of you.
Love,
Beverly & Ron. Skloff

Katie Torode

August 2, 2015

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family... Katie Torode

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