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Annmarie Gibney
June 8, 2024
I just found out about Juan’s passing and I send all my condolences to the family. I live in FL now, but I used to work with him and middlesex hospital. He was such a kind and loving man. He would always give me encouraging comments throughout the day. Whenever I saw him around the hospital, he’d always say “what’s up kid? Keep your head held high.” I send all my love to his family and loved ones ❤
Michael Olschafskie
September 5, 2023
Sorry for your Loss Jorge, prayers to your Family
Kari Schwartz
August 30, 2023
Missy,
I am so sorry for your loss. I know he is looking down and will always watch over you and the kids. He fought a good fight and now he is with eternal rest and peace.
Rich Dziura
August 30, 2023
Dear Melissa and family,
I am so sorry to hear of Juan's passing. I loved him so; I loved your description of him as a turtle with a hard shell but squishy and loveable under the hard suface . He was like that , a tough exterior but so filled with love for those around him. Others may not have seen it so readily but Juan was filled with love and concern for those around him, especially you and the boys. I loved to see him relate to me of his conversations with you, he had so much pride and thought of you so highly that when he told me of the final descisons made which mostly were your decisions, I could see the love in his eyes as he related how you felt about things.
I am so sory that I cannot be there for tomorrow's calling hours. Unfotunately, I am now unable travel alone and I cannot drive so I won't be able to attend the celebration of Juan's great life tomorrow. May God bless you and your family as you struggle to live without him but believe as I do that Juan's heart of love will bring him to a place of eternal love and peace.
Lois
August 29, 2023
To Juan's family - I am so sad to hear of Juan's passing. I met him years ago in the hallways of Middlesex Hospital and we became work friends, sharing in the stories of our twins and their shenanigans whenever we crossed paths. There are so many things I knew about Juan that are mentioned in his obit, but so many that I didn't and wish I had. He was a good man and I am honored to have known him. Rest easy, Juan. I'm going to miss you.
John Thayer
August 28, 2023
Like most in Weapons Platoon A/1/75th Juan was like the rest of those guys - harder than woodpecker lips!!! The Infantry Platoons looked on in awe with what they carried on their backs and the things that they did in support of us. Juan was a fantastic guy and a great time was had every time he was around. I am going to miss him at the 40th Anniversary of Grenada at Hunter Army Airfield and Savannah, GA. I know that he will come up in conversation and shots will be poured and drank in his honor - as will same be done for our lost brothers. Rest in Peace Brother. RLTW!!!
Rene Boucher
August 28, 2023
Finding it difficult to process our loss of Juan. While those close to him of more recent in his daily life will grieve as they experience the void of his absence, in my daily experience with him at work spanning several years, it´s my belief that Juan´s greatest wish, and expectation, would be that those of whom he interacted in whatever capacity will be able to live their lives to their full potential.
I only briefly met both Hunter and Logan, and unfortunately was never able to meet Melissa, but I know your dad was always so proud of you, and Melissa, he adored you. My heart breaks for you and wishes you any comfort you can find.
Mary
August 28, 2023
Rest in peace cousin. Enjoyed our visits when kids to your house with your parents and siblings. We had fun. We are sorry we weren't in touch as adults but i have the greatest memories from 42 hillside avenue. Love to all your family. So happy you had a wonderful life and a great family. Mary
Ken Parish
August 28, 2023
Rest in Peace Ranger BrotherUntil ValhallaRLTW
Tim &Katie Kesten
August 27, 2023
Please hold his family in your heart with peace so they can rest from there journey.
Tim & Katie Kesten
August 27, 2023
Melissa, Lucy, & all of the family, especially the kids,
Our hearts are broken with you. May you find peace that he is no longer in pain. You all fought the long battle alongside him and gave him strength. Hold him in your heart with pride. May he rest in eternal peace.
Lynn Raicik
August 27, 2023
Melissa and family,
We are so very sorry for your loss. We have such precious memories of Juan, neighbor extraordinaire, kind and compassionate, witty, protective, smart, handy, thoughtful, and kind. Since we moved away in 2016, we have often recalled the days of living close by, seeing Ashley and Lucas grow up, getting to know Josh and David, celebrating the birth of the twins Hunter and Logan, and of course the doggie romance between Patton and Naya. In realizing the value of caring neighbors and how important it is to raising families, we are so grateful to have your family as part of our East Haddam memories. We are confident Juan will continue to "lead you and the children" through your journeys in life. Love, Lynn, Barry, Max and Simone Octigan oxox
Jane Rademacher
August 27, 2023
Rest in peace Ranger ❤.
RLTW.
William Boylan
August 27, 2023
My complements to the author of Juan's obit. It is very well written and detailed. It reminded me of many things I'd forgotten about him and taught many things I did not know. (“Don’t drive on the grass!” I think I've actually heard him say that.)
I remember the assault on Grenada and knew Juan participated in it. (Youngers might not know that Clint Eastwood made a movie about Operation Urgent Fury called Heartbreak Ridge.) The operation was the result of a request from 6 Carribean nations for US intervention. President Reagan was concerned about the 600 American medical students attending St. George's University School of Medicine, on the island. He feared another Iran Hostage situation and authorized the assault.
No question, Jaun was a patriot. Because of his valor and that of many other American (and Carribean) military personnel, after 3-4 days of combat, the American students were rendered safe, the people of Grenada were free and there was stability in the Carribean. An interim government was established, and elections were held in December 1984.
Juan's passing is heartbreaking to so many. My heart goes out to them, especially Ma and Mellissa. No parent should have to bury a child and no wife, a husband so young.
Far better men than I have died much younger, and Juan was one of them. Rest in peace, Brother.
"Huck" & Amy Henderson
August 27, 2023
Much love and many prayers.
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