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Juan C. Espinosa

1963 - 2023

Juan C. Espinosa obituary, 1963-2023, East Haddam, CT

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1963

DIED

2023

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Juan Espinosa Obituary

Juan C. Espinosa
Juan Carlos Espinosa (60), a devoted husband and father, accomplished electrician, former United States Army Ranger, and resident of East Haddam, Connecticut, passed away peacefully on August 25, 2023, at Backus Hospital in Norwich, Connecticut, after an 11-year battle with brain cancer. Juan is survived by his childhood sweetheart and loving, eternally patient wife of 20 years, Melissa Espinosa; his mother, Lucy Espinosa; his mother-in-law Angie Schultz, his twin sons, Hunter Espinosa and Logan Espinosa; his son Lucas Espinosa and his wife Hannah Cole; his daughter Ashley Espinosa and her two children, James and Gabriella; his son David Schwartz and his two children, Eli and Gracelyn; his daughter Savannah Espinosa and her two children, Penelope and Benjamin; his sister Maria Wiegel and her husband Chris; his brother Jorge; his brother Roberto; his best friend Tim Kesten and his wife Katie; his friend, mentor and father figure, Cos Giuffrida; his longtime, close friend Barbara Fouquette; and many cousins, nieces and nephews. He is predeceased by his father Juan Espinosa; his father-in-law Nolan Thayne Schultz; and his son Joshua Schwartz. Juan was a first-generation Cuban-American, born in Miami, Florida on February 2, 1963. He spent most of his childhood in Middletown, Connecticut and enlisted in the United States Army at the age of 17. When asked what role he wanted to serve, he responded "I want to jump out of planes and shoot at people". So began his path to becoming an Army Ranger, ultimately being assigned to the 75th Ranger Regiment, 1st Battalion, Alpha Company, Weapons Platoon, in Savannah, Georgia. On October 25, 1983, while assigned to the 1st Battalion of the 75th Ranger Regiment as an anti-armor recoilless gunner, Juan participated in the airborne assault of Grenada as part of Operation Urgent Fury. Under the fire of anti-aircraft guns, Juan executed a combat jump from a mere 500 feet of altitude, and seized the Point Salinas airfield. After returning from combat, he was awarded the Combat Infantryman Badge. His dedication and unparalleled success as an Army Ranger did not go unnoticed; he was eventually appointed as a Ranger School Instructor and later earned his Master Rated Jumpmaster wings. He would also go on to earn his Expert Infantry Badge and Air Assault Badge. After the Army, Juan became a certified electrician, graduating at the top of his class at the Lincoln Technical Institute. Over the years, he worked hard to perfect his electrical skills and advance his knowledge of the electrical trade. "Good enough" was never acceptable and if the job required additional hours to complete to his standard of quality, he was there to get the work done. He developed a reputation among fellow contractors as a leader and problem solver; his no-nonsense approach to work was well known. Additionally, equipped with a dry but affable sense of humor, he struck a chord with everyone he worked alongside. He was never short of jokes or sarcasm. Juan took pride and great care in everything he did, whether it be his regular work, side jobs he took to ensure there was extra income to support his family or projects around the house. Lawn maintenance was an ongoing battle for perfection; "Don't drive on the grass!". In 2000, Juan was reunited with his childhood girlfriend Melissa. In 2003, they were married in their front yard, surrounded by family and friends, and shortly thereafter had their two boys, Hunter and Logan. Juan was a dedicated father. He took an active role in his children's lives, including assisting with Boy Scouts and coaching the East Haddam Little League. Furthermore, he took pride in pushing his children to always be better. He never pulled his punches, often coming off as a bit harsh. Regardless, his intentions were always from a place of love and care. Juan also loved spending time with his grandchildren. He always went out of his way to entertain them and make them laugh. His wife has frequently compared him to a turtle; a tough outer shell but squishy and lovable beneath the surface. Through the years, Juan acquired a handful of hobbies, often echoing his career in their demand for attention to detail and hard work. He enjoyed building and detailing model cars. He was extremely passionate about baseball and for a time, participated in a company softball league. Most recently he renewed his passion for marksmanship, spending many hours at the gun range honing his skills and an equivalent amount of time at home, cleaning and servicing his firearms. He was also an avid dog lover, raising and training multiple dogs over the years, including Patton, Beethoven, Shadow, and Cobra. Juan was a tough, but loving husband, father, and friend. He worked hard in every endeavor of his life. His mark on this world will not soon be forgotten. Calling hours for the public will be held Thursday, August 31, 2023, from 5 p.m. to 7 p.m. at Biega Funeral Home, 3 Silver Street, Middletown, Connecticut. Casual attire is acceptable; Carhartt shirts are encouraged. A private military funeral will be held in the near future. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations in Juan's name are suggested to the East Haddam Moodus Little League or the East Haddam Parks and Recreation, to be directed towards the East Haddam Dog Park. To share memories or express condolences online, please visit www.biegafuneralhome.com. "Rangers lead the way."

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Published by Middletown Press on Aug. 28, 2023.

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Annmarie Gibney

June 8, 2024

I just found out about Juan’s passing and I send all my condolences to the family. I live in FL now, but I used to work with him and middlesex hospital. He was such a kind and loving man. He would always give me encouraging comments throughout the day. Whenever I saw him around the hospital, he’d always say “what’s up kid? Keep your head held high.” I send all my love to his family and loved ones ❤

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Love and hugs , Patricia Rey

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Michael Olschafskie

September 5, 2023

Sorry for your Loss Jorge, prayers to your Family

Kari Schwartz

August 30, 2023

Missy,
I am so sorry for your loss. I know he is looking down and will always watch over you and the kids. He fought a good fight and now he is with eternal rest and peace.

Rich Dziura

August 30, 2023

Dear Melissa and family,
I am so sorry to hear of Juan's passing. I loved him so; I loved your description of him as a turtle with a hard shell but squishy and loveable under the hard suface . He was like that , a tough exterior but so filled with love for those around him. Others may not have seen it so readily but Juan was filled with love and concern for those around him, especially you and the boys. I loved to see him relate to me of his conversations with you, he had so much pride and thought of you so highly that when he told me of the final descisons made which mostly were your decisions, I could see the love in his eyes as he related how you felt about things.
I am so sory that I cannot be there for tomorrow's calling hours. Unfotunately, I am now unable travel alone and I cannot drive so I won't be able to attend the celebration of Juan's great life tomorrow. May God bless you and your family as you struggle to live without him but believe as I do that Juan's heart of love will bring him to a place of eternal love and peace.

Lois

August 29, 2023

To Juan's family - I am so sad to hear of Juan's passing. I met him years ago in the hallways of Middlesex Hospital and we became work friends, sharing in the stories of our twins and their shenanigans whenever we crossed paths. There are so many things I knew about Juan that are mentioned in his obit, but so many that I didn't and wish I had. He was a good man and I am honored to have known him. Rest easy, Juan. I'm going to miss you.

John Thayer

August 28, 2023

Like most in Weapons Platoon A/1/75th Juan was like the rest of those guys - harder than woodpecker lips!!! The Infantry Platoons looked on in awe with what they carried on their backs and the things that they did in support of us. Juan was a fantastic guy and a great time was had every time he was around. I am going to miss him at the 40th Anniversary of Grenada at Hunter Army Airfield and Savannah, GA. I know that he will come up in conversation and shots will be poured and drank in his honor - as will same be done for our lost brothers. Rest in Peace Brother. RLTW!!!

Rene Boucher

August 28, 2023

Finding it difficult to process our loss of Juan. While those close to him of more recent in his daily life will grieve as they experience the void of his absence, in my daily experience with him at work spanning several years, it´s my belief that Juan´s greatest wish, and expectation, would be that those of whom he interacted in whatever capacity will be able to live their lives to their full potential.
I only briefly met both Hunter and Logan, and unfortunately was never able to meet Melissa, but I know your dad was always so proud of you, and Melissa, he adored you. My heart breaks for you and wishes you any comfort you can find.

Mary

August 28, 2023

Rest in peace cousin. Enjoyed our visits when kids to your house with your parents and siblings. We had fun. We are sorry we weren't in touch as adults but i have the greatest memories from 42 hillside avenue. Love to all your family. So happy you had a wonderful life and a great family. Mary

Ken Parish

August 28, 2023

Rest in Peace Ranger BrotherUntil ValhallaRLTW

Tim &Katie Kesten

August 27, 2023

Please hold his family in your heart with peace so they can rest from there journey.

Tim & Katie Kesten

August 27, 2023

Melissa, Lucy, & all of the family, especially the kids,
Our hearts are broken with you. May you find peace that he is no longer in pain. You all fought the long battle alongside him and gave him strength. Hold him in your heart with pride. May he rest in eternal peace.

Lynn Raicik

August 27, 2023

Melissa and family,
We are so very sorry for your loss. We have such precious memories of Juan, neighbor extraordinaire, kind and compassionate, witty, protective, smart, handy, thoughtful, and kind. Since we moved away in 2016, we have often recalled the days of living close by, seeing Ashley and Lucas grow up, getting to know Josh and David, celebrating the birth of the twins Hunter and Logan, and of course the doggie romance between Patton and Naya. In realizing the value of caring neighbors and how important it is to raising families, we are so grateful to have your family as part of our East Haddam memories. We are confident Juan will continue to "lead you and the children" through your journeys in life. Love, Lynn, Barry, Max and Simone Octigan oxox

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Jennifer Hallock

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Jane Rademacher

August 27, 2023

Rest in peace Ranger ❤.
RLTW.

William Boylan

August 27, 2023

My complements to the author of Juan's obit. It is very well written and detailed. It reminded me of many things I'd forgotten about him and taught many things I did not know. (“Don’t drive on the grass!” I think I've actually heard him say that.)

I remember the assault on Grenada and knew Juan participated in it. (Youngers might not know that Clint Eastwood made a movie about Operation Urgent Fury called Heartbreak Ridge.) The operation was the result of a request from 6 Carribean nations for US intervention. President Reagan was concerned about the 600 American medical students attending St. George's University School of Medicine, on the island. He feared another Iran Hostage situation and authorized the assault.

No question, Jaun was a patriot. Because of his valor and that of many other American (and Carribean) military personnel, after 3-4 days of combat, the American students were rendered safe, the people of Grenada were free and there was stability in the Carribean. An interim government was established, and elections were held in December 1984.

Juan's passing is heartbreaking to so many. My heart goes out to them, especially Ma and Mellissa. No parent should have to bury a child and no wife, a husband so young.

Far better men than I have died much younger, and Juan was one of them. Rest in peace, Brother.

"Huck" & Amy Henderson

August 27, 2023

Much love and many prayers.

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