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ALFONSO RODRIGUEZ JR NOV 19, 1980 - OCT 30,2009 Alfonso Rodriguez, Jr. Born in Turlock, CA, he now rejoices in Heaven above. Alfonso fought the fight of his life, against colon cancer. Through his strong faith in the Lord, he never gave up. Alfonso was always a character, before and during his illness. He spent weeks in the hospital, and joked about it daily. Nurses would say, I'll be right back.'' He would respond, I'll be right here.'' And, now, he'll always be right here, in our hearts. You were an amazing husband. Our love for each other was so wonderful. You were my best friend and I was yours. I will miss you dearly. We shared so many memories together as a family. I thank God for all the time He gave us together. Daddy, you're the best. We love you, miss you, and wish you were here. You will never be forgotten. Son, Brother, our hearts ache at having to let you go. No family was ever more proud, even in the mist of your suffering your faith never faltered. You will always live in our hearts. We will always Love and Miss You. Alfonso worked at Intel, in the Bay area for many years before working for Foster Farms as a Refrigeration Mechanic in Livingston, CA. All the employees enjoyed working with him. He was such a people person. He knew everyone, everywhere and anywhere we went. He is survived by his wife, Cassandra Genevie Rodrguez; his son, Alfonso Rodrguez III; his daughters, Nalani Starr Rodrguez and Kirrah Mercedez Rodrguez; his father, Alfonso Rodrguez, Sr.; his mother, Josephine Rodrguez; his brother, Jaime Rodrguez; his sister Jessica Rodrguez-Malagn; his nieces and nephews; and grand- mother, Josefina Rivas. Alfonso was loved dearly by friends and family alike. Our world is better for him having been a part of it. He will be greatly missed and never forgotten. Service will take place at Turlock Memorial Park 425 N. Soderquist Rd. on Friday, November 6 visiting hours are from 3:00-7:00 o'clock with Rosary beginning at 7:00 o'clock in the evening. Sacred Heart Church, in Turlock, will hold a mass for Alfonso on Saturday, November 7 at 8:30 o'clock in the morning. The funeral procession will immediately follow the mass. Burial will be at Turlock Memorial Park. 525 N. Soderquist Rd. After procession a gathering will be held at the Turlock Moose Lodge, 4713 W. Main St., 95381. A trust fund for his children has been set up at Farmers & Merchants Bank in Hilmar, CA if anyone would like to contribute. www.modbee.com/obituaries

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Published by Modesto Bee on Nov. 4, 2009.

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Christina Silva

November 13, 2009

Rodriguez family, I just heard of your loss. My deepest and most sincere condolences. Cassandra your mom was there with water's and necessities when our grandmother was battling cancer and I'm sorry that I myself could'nt do anything. I only heard today. God bless you and your little ones.
Logan Canto's mom Christina

Dionne Bravo

November 11, 2009

I am deeply saddened by the news of Alfonso's passing. I am numb. My thoughts and prayers will always be with you. Take care & God Bless you Cassandra and your beautiful children. I will always be here for you if you ever need anything.
Blessings Forever!
Dionne Bravo (Dr. Eldaly's office)

GLORIA ROSARIO

November 6, 2009

condolence to the family, im so sorry for the lost of your husband i would like to thanks alfons for his hard work during my training in INTEL you were my first trainer,you have a lot of patience and you will always help someone.my prayers are with you.god bless(Gloria Rosario) SAN JOSE CA.

Lorenzo Dusseault

November 6, 2009

Dear Rodriguez Family and Friends,
I just learned of my friend/co-worker's death. I want to extend my deepest sympathies to you all. Alfonso was so well-respected and everyone always had such kind things to say about him. While I don't know his family very well, Alfonso shared things about you often. It was clear you meant so much to him. Please know that his family are in my thoughts and prayers.

"His life earnest, his actions kind,
A willing hand, an active mind,
Anxious to please, loath to offend,
A great co-worker and a faithful friend."

Isidro "Sid" Cortez

November 5, 2009

To all of Alfonso's Jr. family and especially our dear compadre and co-worker Alfonso Sr., we would like to express our deepest sympathy in this time of remebrance and change. Our prayers and thoughts are with all of you!

Ruelle

November 4, 2009

Condolences to his family, friends, and coworkers from a former D2 Intel coworker. God bless.

Denise Cortez

November 4, 2009

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2009

Aaron, Letissha, Aaron Jr. and Roman Arroyo

November 4, 2009

Devoted father, loving husband, loyal son/brother, and dependable friend. This was Alfonso "Ponch" in a nutshell. Without question his family always came first.
His larger than life personality, and his infectious laugh will be missed. His memory will forever be in our hearts.

Mike, Monica, and Olivia Allen

November 4, 2009

Alfonso, "Ponchito", was strong, brave and kind. He was always respectful, caring, and generous. Family meant everything to him, and as part of that family, we loved him for what he meant to us. We will miss him deeply, but remember him happily. He will remain forever in our hearts and prayers.

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