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Clayton Coleman Obituary

CLAYTON T. COLEMAN AUG 18, 1929 - NOV 20, 2008 Clayton Thurston Coleman, age 79, of Oakdale, CA, passed away at Memorial Medical Center in Modesto on November 20, 2008 after suffering a heart attack. Clayton was born to Dewey and Marie Coleman on August 18, 1929 in Riverbank, CA. He moved to Oakdale at the age of two where he resided his entire life. Clayton graduated from Oakdale High School in 1947 and attended College of Pacific in Stockton. He served in the U.S. Air Force during the Korean War. He was a self-employed dairyman for 15 years before becoming a salesman for the A.L. Gilbert Company where he worked for more than 30 years. Clayton was a 16-year member of the Oakdale School Board, a more than 50-year member of the Potluck Group'', and a member of the Oakdale Supper Club, among other affiliations. Family was so very important to Clayton. He cherished and loved his wife, children and grandchildren, his sister, and his extended Dutch family. His friends were countless and he drew them together with the numerous vacations, bus trips and events he planned. Always the entertainer, Clayton was a good cook who planned dinners at home and at the family cabin. A nice glass of wine and a good meal shared with those he loved brought him much joy. He always thought of others before himself and was generous in reaching out to those he knew who were alone, ill, or who had lost loved ones. He taught his children by his example the importance of a strong work ethic, responsibility and honesty. He will be lovingly remembered and sorely missed. He is survived by his loving wife of 52 years, Aty (Dykzeul) Coleman; his four children: Marc (Veronica) Coleman of Hilmar, Jeff (Lori) Coleman of Turlock, Kelly (Tom) Kisabeth of Napa, and Carrie (David) Dollar of El Dorado Hills; eight grand- children; and his sister, Betty Clark of Sacramento. Recitation of the Rosary will be held at 6 p.m. on Fri., November 28th at St. Mary's Catholic Church, Oak and Olive Streets in Oakdale. A Mass of Christian Burial will also be held at St. Mary's Catholic Church at 9 a.m. on Sat., November 29th. Oakdale Memorial Chapel is in charge of arrangements. Memorial contributions may be sent to the American Heart Assn., 1710 Gilbreth Road, Burlingame, CA 94010 or St. Mary's Helping Hand, P.O. Box 970, Oakdale, CA 95361.www.modbee.com/obituaries

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Published by Modesto Bee from Nov. 25 to Nov. 28, 2008.

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Margareth Dykzeul

November 29, 2008

I am so sorry to hear about the loss of Uncle Clayton. I remember him most fondly during the Easter holidays when we were visiting Oma and Opa. May these and other fond memories bring you peace during these times of sorry. Love Margareth

marge scheuber

November 28, 2008

We were saddened to hear of the sudden passing of Clayton Coleman.
He led a full and rewarding life. We will keep him and his loving family in our thoughts and prayers. John and Marge Scheuber

Michael Brennan

November 28, 2008

Your smile and laughter will be sorely missed, Clayton. Love and prayers to Aty and the kids.

Harold fogarty

November 26, 2008

We were sorry to read of Clayton's passing on mod.bee. Our thoughts and prayers are with him and his family.

Karen (Morris) Wong and Family

November 26, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers go out to your entire family. Clayton will be greatly missed. I will always have fond memories of the potluck group (including many New Year's celebrations) and all it's wonderful members. It was great feeling while growing up to know my parents had such a close knit group of friends. (From Lindy and Margie's daughter)

MICHELE LEVERETT

November 26, 2008

Our hearts go out to the Coleman family. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Clayton will be missed by us very much! He was a good man!


Michele Leverett on behalf of the entire A.L. Gilbert Company

Mel and Charlotte Echelberger

November 25, 2008

Aty, Marc, Jeff, Kelly, and Carrie, Our thoughts, and prayers are with you, and your families at this time of sorry.

Bill & Fran Scheuber

November 25, 2008

Jeff & Lori and Family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you ,may God keep you strong in this very sad time in your lives.
Uncle Bill & Auntie Fran.

Herbie Royse

November 25, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort. I was a friend since forever. Clayton was very instrumental in helping my father when he had problems with the the High School Board prior to Clayton's service on the board. I always looked forward to our lunchtime chats at the H-B when I visited the U.S. from my retirement home in Mexico. God Bless.

Leroy, Kelli, Sierra & Steel Rocha

November 25, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you now and always.

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