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Lyle F. Hensley

1939 - 2023

Lyle F. Hensley obituary, 1939-2023, Hickman, CA

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1939

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2023

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Lyle Hensley Obituary

Lyle F. Hensley
December 20, 1939 - April 14, 2023
Hickman, California - It is with the greatest of sadness that his family announces the death of Lyle Hensley. Lyle passed away peacefully in his sleep at home after a long battle with heart failure.
The fifth of 7 children, Lyle was born to Harmon and Esther Hensley in McAllen Texas. At the age of 3 , his family moved from Texas to El Cajon, California . A few years later they settled in Hickman , California. Lyle started 1st grade and went to school without shoes. He was the first in his family to graduate high school. Graduating from Hughson High School in 1957.
July 4th he went on a blind date with the love of his life Sharon Sharp, but by the time they picked up all their friends, Sharon had to be home, she had an early curfew. But it was love at first sight. Lyle called the next day and they married 10 months later. Sharon was his soulmate as he was hers. They began their adventurous marriage that would take them to Nevada, Arizona, Oregon and then back to California - to be near family.
Lyle worked many jobs, but paving would become the defining career of his life. After learning the trade from his brother Ben, and with help from their brother Earl, Lyle and Jim started Hensley Brothers Paving in 1966. The business was started on a shoestring budget, but the Hensley work ethic became the driving force behind the company's success . Lyle "retired " from paving at the end 2004, but his presence was always welcomed at the shop. The company's work was always a source of pride.
Above all, Lyle was a fun-loving family man. He was a hunter, fisherman, water skier and rock hound. He was the source of information on so many subjects. He took his family on too many adventures to list. A true outdoorsman, he loved camping . Special places in heart were Dodge Meadows, the Willamette River, June Lake and Quartzsite. They boondocked in Quartzsite for many years before they bought a lot in Rainbow Acres. Along with old friends , they met so many new friends that have the same fun personalities. He made the most out of the time he spent with people and made everyone feel valued and welcomed in his presence. He was loved by all who knew him. Our lives are forever changed in his absence.
Lyle was preceded in death by his parents, brothers Earl E. , Benjamin M. , Jimmie H. And Danny L. and his sisters -Mary Ellen Inman and Diane Thompson.
He is survived by his loving wife of nearly 65 years Sharon , his daughters Brenda Neitz (Lewis), Karen Nelson (Mark) , sons Tim Hensley (Tina) and Mark Hensley. He leaves behind 9 grandchildren and 15 great grandchildren .

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Published by Modesto Bee on May 13, 2023.

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Deanna Miramontes

September 7, 2024

I am very sad to learn of my uncle Lyle’s passing and regret that we didn’t stay in touch after my mom, his sister Diane, died. I will always appreciate good gentle Marie and kindness, and the way he cared for my mom. RIP Uncle Lyle, I’m sure mom and the rest of the family were happy to greet you in heaven.

Hailey Lemings

May 15, 2024

Hey papa! It has been a little over a year since you passed and we all miss you so much! Grandma is doing as good as she can. You know how she is, she has her times where your absence is felt stronger than others. But that is one strong lady!
Papa I have these two boys and I just wish they could know you. But papa Ronald is such a sweet little boy. He gives his great grandma hugs and kisses. He loves his great grandma. He has this smile that lights up the room and I wish you could have seen it! And Fredrick he is just 7 months old but he had such a big attitude. And the biggest brown eyes. This one looks like me, only in his eyes but he has my eyes.
Anyways papa we love and miss you so much!

ed cathcart

May 24, 2023

He was known and respected many years in business and personally. Ed Cathcart

Jerry Hensley

May 15, 2023

Lyle was my 2nd cousin but was close to my age. I enjoyed knowing him and being around him. He was a great father and husband. We enjoyed visiting his family in Modesto, and Quartsite. He always BBQ'd some great steaks. We will miss his phone calls and his great personality. We have great memories of Lyle and his family.

Cole Lemings

May 15, 2023

You are missed by so many papa. Ronald Lyle will definitely know where his name comes from and how special it is to be named after such a great man.

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