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Joseph Panetta Obituary

It is with much sadness that we share the passing of Joseph Carmelo Panetta, husband, brother and uncle, on March 19, 2023. He died peacefully in his sleep. Joe was born on October 21, 1957 in Monterey California, along with his twin brother John, to Joseph and Anna Panetta, who preceded him in death. He is survived by his wife Julie, sister Joanna (Anastacio) Medina, his twin brother John Panetta, his uncle, Leon E. Panetta (Sylvia) as well as his nieces Anna Medina (Chad), Brittnie and Gianna Panetta and nephew, Stephen Medina.Joe lived his entire life on the Monterey Peninsula except for the years away at college in Santa Clara, California. He attended Monte Vista Elementary, San Carlos School, Walter Colton Junior High and graduated from Monterey High School in 1976. Joe then attended Monterey Peninsula College for two years earning an Associate Degree in 1978 followed by two years at Santa Clara University, graduating with a Bachelor's Degree in Political Science in 1980. Joe returned to Monterey, working at the Naval Postgraduate School from 1980 to 1986. He worked his way up from busboy to Food and Beverage Manager. In 1983, Joe married Julie DeStefano at San Carlos Cathedral with a reception at the Naval Postgraduate School.Due to his family's deep devotion to the law, his father practicing Criminal Defense Law on the peninsula for over 50 years, Joe transferred his focus to law by becoming a police officer. From 1986 to 2002 he served his hometown as a police officer for the Monterey Police Department. He loved many aspects of being a police officer, but he most enjoyed and was proud of his time of walking the beat in Monterey, meeting and engaging with people in the community. He definitely believed in helping people and using the spirit of the law in aiding people who he came into contact with. Joe was a lifetime fan of the San Francisco 49ers and San Francisco Giants.Private service to be held at Mission Mortuary. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made to his favorite charity, St. Jude Children's Research Hospital.

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Published by Monterey Herald on Apr. 19, 2023.

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JOHNNY

April 6, 2025

MISS YA BUDDY!

Diane Haris

March 29, 2025

So very sorry. Prayers

JOHNNY GRAY

January 17, 2024

MISS YA BUDDY!

Diane Harris

January 16, 2024

So very sorry to hear of his passing.

Henry Rhee

May 8, 2023

My deepest condolences.

Keith Ciavaglia

May 7, 2023

I knew Joe 12 years and used to see him at Chukchansi resort & casino. I would be playing roulette and he would come over to the table and talk to me. Sorry to hear he has passed. I had been trying to call him for the past month and had a feeling something was wrong. Sending condolences and prayers to the family. Joe will be missed.
From Keith Ciavaglia

Eric Coyne

May 6, 2023

Joseph was a great guy. The twins were among the first people I met when I was assigned to their mother's class at Monte Vista Elementary. Joe was always the serious one of the bunch:) Funny, I did not see him for years, until I was visiting family on the Peninsula in February and we reconnected while walking past his house. I adored his mom; she was a great teacher! Through Joe I met his uncle Leon early in his political career, and later in life, my connection to Joe and John allowed me to interview Leon when he was Chief of Staff in the WH.... One of the very rare news interviews Leon gave in those days. Julie, we never met, but I am sorry for your loss. Man, the stories I could tell about growing up with Joe and John... and teasing their mother in class! I made the mistake of sitting between the twins for awhile when we were all students in their mother's class. (Hint: when the stuff hit the fan, it was always better to sit closer to Joe than John.... lol! Mrs. Panetta: no slack given...:) Joanna, I am sorry I never met you. Your family made a big impression on me. Best wishes to all of you.

JOHNNY GRAY

April 23, 2023

MY CONDOLENCES TO THE PANETTA FAMILY! GOINT TO MISS YOU MY FRIEND!

ML Carter

April 22, 2023

My condolences to the family and to John his twin.
Knew the twins from high school, but got to know
more during his time on Monterey police force.
Sorry for your loss. Praying for the family.

The Andrada family

April 20, 2023

Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.

Kellye Valnizza

April 20, 2023

So sorry to hear about Joe's passing. We went to high school together. Sending prayers and condolences to his family.

Alicia

April 20, 2023

So sorry to hear of Joe's passing. I used to work with Julie years ago. Prayers are with you and the family

Alicia Lewis

Rob Cadle

April 20, 2023

say it aint so! I knew Joe at Monterey High and Joe knew my late brother (MHS '76)I used to see Joe at the Monterey aquarium. We'd shoot the breeze in the restaurant there. His mom was my 6th grade teacher at monte vista. Sad times . my condolences to all

Lora Jacobus Gilman

April 20, 2023

So sorry to hear of Joe´s passing. I knew both he and John from our time at San Carlos. RIP Joe.
Lora Jacobus Gilman

Micheal McClure

April 20, 2023

So Sorry to hear about Joe's passing. My sincere condolences to the entire Panetta family. Always liked being around Joseph.
God bless, Micheal McClure

Tim Dahlberg

April 19, 2023

Joe Panetta was one of the nicest human beings I´ve had the pleasure of knowing. Met him as a fellow student at MPC, when my sister worked as a volunteer for his Uncle Leon´s campaign. As a MPD officer I would see him frequently. Monterey and the world has lost a truly decent man.

Joan Ouye

April 19, 2023

To Joseph Panetta Family,
Deepest condolences are with you at this difficult time.
Love and prayers are with you,
Joan Ouye & Family

Michelle Phillips Hazdovac

April 18, 2023

Very sorry to hear of Joe´s passing. Much love to you, Julie, and to all the Panetta family.

Mission Mortuary, Inc.

April 19, 2023

Offering our deepest condolences during this difficult time.

Carmen Scardina

April 13, 2023

My Condolences to the Joseph Panetta family and friends.

Carmen Scardina

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