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Harry Ingram Obituary

Harry Ingram MORGANTON Harry A. Ingram, 79, of Morganton, died on Saturday, June 4, 2011 at his residence with his family at his side. Born in Rutherford County on May 26, 1932, he was the son of the late Harry Allen Ingram and Meredith Almedia Lancaster Ingram. Harry was a U.S. Air Force combat veteran of the Korean War. He was a member of Salem United Methodist Church where he had served as music director, treasurer, interpreter for the deaf, and was active in the choir. Harry loved his family, fishing, gardening, livermush, Duke Blue Devils Basketball, and a good political debate. A tremendously talented musician, he performed in many bands over a period spanning 50+ years. He was a graduate of Lenoir-Rhyne College and received his master's degree from Appalachian State University. He enjoyed 20 years of retirement from the N.C. Division of Vocational Rehabilitation. Harry is survived by his wife, Doris Whitener Ingram of the home; a daughter, Kristin Ingram of Houston, Texas; a brother, Jim Ingram and wife, Vivian, of King; a sister, LaVerne Simpson and husband, Ralph, of Camden, S.C.; brothers-in-law, Gary Whitener and Wynn Whitener and wife, Lora, all of Morganton; close and loving nephews, Zane and Cameron Whitener of Morganton; a number of other nieces and nephews; and a canine companion, Coco. In addition to his parents, Harry was preceded in death by a daughter, Shelley Rose. The funeral will be held at 4 p.m. on Tuesday, June 7, 2011 at Salem United Methodist Church with Rev. Mark Comforti officiating. Burial will follow in the church cemetery with military honors provided by the N.C. National Guard. The family will receive friends in the church parlor from 2 until 4 p.m. prior to the service. Memorial contributions may be made to Salem United Methodist Church, 1206 Salem Road, Morganton, NC 28655. Sossoman Funeral Home and Crematory Center is assisting the family with the arrangements. Condolences may be made online at www. sossomanfuneralservice.com. NC 71007
Published by The News Herald on Jun. 6, 2011.

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Mary Spink

March 13, 2019

He was a fine gentleman

Bob Philbeck

June 30, 2011

Doris, I just learned about Harry's passing, and wanted express my sympathies. My wife Susie passed away in April, so I know your feelings of loss. Harry was a fine person who served our people well. He had a full, rich life to which you contibuted much enjoyment.

Cathy Williams

June 10, 2011

Doris, I am so sorry to hear about your loss of Harry. I enjoyed the time I worked with him when I was secretary at Salem UMC. You and your family are in my prayers. Cathy Williams

Libby (Norman) and Mike Young

June 6, 2011

May you find comfort in the pleasant memories of days gone by. We are former students of Harry's brother, (Coach) Jim Ingram, from "Salem High." We wish to express our deepest condonences to the family.
Sincerely,

June 6, 2011

Doris, we are so sorry about your loss of Harry. We will all miss him and his take on life. Your family is
in our prayers. Love to you all. Jean and Tom

Mary Miller

June 6, 2011

Doris

I am so sorry to hear about Harry. I enjoyed our Sunday School Class together. He will be missed. You are in my thoughts and prayers

June 6, 2011

Doris, I am so sorry to learn of your loss of Harry. I lost my second wife on April 19, so I know what you are going through. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Frank Sell

Ethel Austin

June 6, 2011

So sorry to hear of the loss of a wonderful man. Your family is in my prayers

Henry Dowling

June 6, 2011

Doris, you and the family are on my mind.
Harry and I always had fish tales to swap and I had great respect for his guidance and leadership. This verse has helped me over time and was used daily by my Dad in his last days here; Isa. 41:10.

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