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James Marcus "Marc" Sholar

1964 - 2024

James Marcus "Marc" Sholar obituary, 1964-2024, Morganton, NC

BORN

1964

DIED

2024

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Sossoman Funeral Home - Morganton

1011 South Sterling Street

Morganton, North Carolina

James Sholar Obituary

James Marcus "Marc" Sholar

October 22, 1964 - June 22, 2024

James Marcus "Marc" Sholar passed on Saturday, June 22, 2024, just nine days after a terminal cancer diagnosis. Marc was born in Asheboro, NC, on October 22, 1964, to Edsel W. Sholar and Peggy Y. Sholar. He graduated from Asheboro High School in 1983 and entered the Merchant Marines for a stint before attending High Point University, where he earned a Bachelor of Science in Home Furnishings. He had a 30-year career as a furniture manufacturer's sales rep for both Stanley Furniture and Universal Furniture.

On December 30, 1994, Marc married the love of his life, Stacey Byrd Sholar, whom he was with for 30 years. They enjoyed traveling together, including treasured trips to New York City, Las Vegas, Santa Barbara, and countless weekends seeing their children. After a brief period in Tampa, FL, they settled in Morganton, NC, where they raised two children, Sarah and Ben. There was nothing Marc was more proud of than his family, which he told them until he was no longer able.

Marc was an incredibly kind, thoughtful, and charismatic individual. He was a fierce protector of his family and friends, and always made sure to tell people how much he loved them. He was the first to laminate a photo of you in the newspaper and leave it in your mailbox. He was a friendly face to all, so much so that his children often chastised him for talking to too many people after Sunday morning service at First Baptist Church of Morganton. He found lots of joy on the golf course and attending Panther's games with his son, going to concerts with his daughter, and grilling burgers and dancing in the kitchen on Saturday nights with his wife.

Marc is survived by his loving and devoted wife, Stacey Byrd Sholar, of nearly 30 years; as well as his two adoring children, Sarah Sholar Rickerman (Josh) and Ben Sholar; dear family friends, Keith and Karen Breedlove; and several nieces, nephews, and cousins whom he loved dearly. He is preceded in death by his mother, Peggy Y. Sholar; father, Edsel W. Sholar; and brother, Gregory Y. Sholar.

The family thanks Dr. Deborah Davis and Dr. Marty Gessner for their endless support during his sickness. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made in Marc's memory to First Baptist Church of Morganton or the Cholangiocarcinoma Foundation.

A celebration of Marc's life will be held at 2 p.m., Friday, June 28, 2024, at First Baptist Church Morganton, with the Rev. Dr. Thomas A. Bland Jr. officiating. The family will greet friends following the service.

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Published by The News Herald on Jun. 27, 2024.

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Bill Cubberley

June 28, 2024

Marc Sholar and I spend many years together at Stanley. He was a great salesman and a wonderful family man. Very untimely death and our thoughts and prayers are with his family.
Respectfully, Paula and Bill Cubberley

Hannah Poe

June 28, 2024

I will always remember Marc smiling, laughing and with his family at church. He was sincere, genuine and caring! He always made others feel cared for. He was a good listener and had a great laugh with a twinkle in his eyes. Marc shared the light and love of Christ. Our thoughts and prayers are with the family, church family and community he so deeply impacted. Love you all!

Crystal Pritchard

June 27, 2024

Stacey, I am sorry to hear of your loss. You are in my thoughts and Prayers. ~ Continually, Crystal Pritchard

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