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Kelly Grover Obituary

Kelly Grover, 42, beloved mother, wife, daughter, sister, and friend, passed away on Wednesday, May 16, 2012. A memorial service will be held at 2:00 p.m. on Friday, May 18, 2012, at Stonegate Fellowship, with Pastor Mike Goeke officiating. Cherished memories of her remarkable life will remain with her husband, David Grover; her three daughters, Riley, Colby and Landry; her parents, H.L. "Dusty" and Barbara Rhodes, all of Midland; her sister, Leslie Rhodes, of Lubbock; her father- and mother-in-law, Arden and Rosalind Redfern Grover, of Midland; her brothers-in-law, Arden "Tex" Grover, Jr. and Jeff Grover; her sister-in-law, Rosson Grover; her nephew, Kapps Killingstad; and her niece, Rosalind Killingstad, all of Dallas. Kelly was a 1987 graduate of Lee High School in Midland, and a 1993 graduate of Texas Tech University. She married the love of her life, David, on April 30, 1997, in Carmel, California. Kelly loved the Lord her entire life. One of her greatest pleasures was sharing her faith with her precious girls and the people who God sent to Kelly for encouragement. She earnestly believed in God's ability to perform miracles in each of our lives and especially hers. And, she had the clarity to see miracles others might miss. Certainly, she knew that the greatest miracles God ever sent were her three radiant daughters, whose lights will always shine to the glory of God and their momma. Kelly and David's home was and will continue to be the "fun" house; the house where all the kids play. Kelly was the quintessential "Kool-Aid Mom," opening her heart and her home to her daughters' friends, their moms, and anyone else who needed a shoulder or a smile. It abounded with patience, love, laughter, happy dogs, and a pantry full of after-school snacks and a driveway arrayed with scooters and soccer balls. Throughout her life, Kelly was a loyal, caring and true friend. In the past several months, her friendship was repaid many times through the selfless devotion of her closest friends and the support she and her family received from the families, faculty and administration of Trinity School, and the greater Midland community as a whole. The Grover and Rhodes families wish to thank Sally Agar, Manisha and Anand Cholia, Christine Foreman, Degan Fricker, Caroline Hinson, and Jane Shepperd, particularly for their love and support for Kelly and her family. In remembrance of Kelly, the family suggests memorials be made to the Kelly Rhodes Grover Endowment Fund at Midland Memorial Hospital or to a charity of your choice. Arrangements are under the direction of Nalley-Pickle & Welch Funeral Home & Crematory of Midland. Online condolences can be made at www.npwelch.com.

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Published by Midland Reporter-Telegram from May 18 to May 19, 2012.

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Bryce Kurfees

May 30, 2012

David: heart broken and praying for you and your family. I lost my mom when she was 51 so I feel for you and your family and friends. She obviously was remarkable and a blessing to all.

Brooke Wiliiams

May 26, 2012

David: I am greatly saddened by the news of Kelly's death, only a few days following our conversation suggested by L.E., my fraternity brother. It was evident from that conversation that Kelly was a person of enormous character, strength, courage, and faith. Her loss is an irreplaceable subtraction from your family's life, but I hope, in time, joy and sunshine will return to you all. It is clear Kelly through her faith will have fond favor with the Lord. God Bless.

Corey Ellis

May 26, 2012

I am so sorry for your loss. Kelly was a special lady that could always light up a room. May God be with you all thru this trying time.

May 25, 2012

Mr. Grover and the Rhodes family I am so sorry for your loss. Kelly was a wonderful person and will be greatly missed! God bless you!

Tracy Franklin Watts

May 21, 2012

David, So sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my prayers.

Jason Gregory

May 19, 2012

Condolences and prayers to all her family.

Jimmie McCarthy

May 19, 2012

So sorry to hear about Kelly. We were friends in high school! May the Lord bless your family!

Teri Shipkey

May 18, 2012

Note to David and the girls: I envelope you with the love of family and friends surrounding you as well as the light that the Lord will surround you with. Your Mom and wife taught us all so much. I am blessed to have known her. As your teacher (girls), please know that I am always here for you. May you find comfort in this difficult time. Much love to you all.

Teri Shipkey

May 18, 2012

Note to Kelly: Happy Birthday in heaven, my friend. You loved life to the fullest and gave everything to your family and friends. Your faith was unbelievable and a true example to us all. Your spirit will be with us forever living in our memories of you and the gracious and loving children you and David created. May you find comfort in the Lord's arms.

Mike Little

May 18, 2012

Condolences and strength to you all.

Jayme Ohlmann Davis

May 18, 2012

Such a loving lady ! I use to babysit her girls . She was truly a genuine person she will greatly be missed . Praying for her family -

Carrie Adams

May 18, 2012

Beautiful spirit, faithful heart and always full of fun and laughter. I treasure my memories of her. She will be so dearly missed. I pray that God will give each of you all the comfort and strength you need today and always.

Jewell Crowley

May 18, 2012

I have heard precious stories of your family from a mutual friend, who loves your family dearly. I promise to keep praying for each of you during this sorrow; for strength, love, wearyness to find rest, and seasons of Blessings. Sending each of you a "Big Family Hug". Ephesians 1

Ed Jackson

May 18, 2012

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

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