Jay Arthur Peterson, 59
May 20, 1964 - September 12, 2023
ANACONDA - The world has lost an amazing man, Jay Arthur Peterson of Anaconda, MT, passed away unexpectedly on September 12, 2023, with his family by his side.
Jay was born in Butte, MT, May 20, 1964, to William and Shirley (Williams) Peterson.
Jay attended Ramsay School, West Junior High, and graduated from Butte High School in 1982. Jay grew up on the Peterson Ranch with his loving mom, dad, Uncle Art and 12 siblings. Even though Bill and Shirley had a full house they often opened their home to extended family and neighbors. Jay was raised with a strong foundation of love which he passed on so freely to others during his lifetime.
As soon as Jay could, he started learning the ropes of the western lifestyle on the ranch. He could often be seen with a rope in hand, bottling sheep, feeding cows, taking out trail rides at the horse corral, guiding elk hunts, herding cattle, working in the hay fields, and changing pipes. Jay dedicated his life to the Peterson Fairmont ranch and took great pride in his daily work. At a young age, Jay and his brother Hank worked with their dad and uncle to run the ranch.
Shortly after graduating high school, Jay and his life-long friend Elizabeth "Beth" (Seymour) Peterson started dating. They were meant for each other and enjoyed many years doing the things they loved together. Jay and Beth were married on December 20, 1987, and together raised 3 wonderful children, daughter Hailey and sons Justin and Ty. They were later blessed with 3 beautiful grandchildren, Reid, Clayton, and Briar. Jay was the best husband, father, and "Papa" ever. His children and grandchildren were his pride and joy and he loved spending time with them. Jay was incredibly giving and selfless. Even though he was busy with all he had to get done each day on the ranch, you could often see him catching frogs at the pond, teaching the grandkids how to throw a loop, or bringing them on motor bike rides. Jay was a devoted family man with unwavering support for his children in whatever they wanted to pursue; but he was the happiest teaching and working with them on the ranch. He always took time to show them how much the ranch meant to him and make them feel like they were a part of it. Jay had hopes of keeping his legacy a working ranch that would continue for generations to come.
Jay was not only a role model to his children and grandchildren but many of his nephews and nieces looked to him as a father figure. He loved them all as much as they loved him and could make anyone feel special and welcome. Jay had the ability to turn bad situations into positive ones and was a man that many others turned to. Jay was the glue that held everything together. He was "always there" for his family and friends.
Jay continually looked for ways to improve the ranch whether it was the hay crop, the cattle blood line or increasing the cattle herd. Jay was very innovative, talented, and resourceful. Jay was very proud of the custom log home that he and Beth built to raise their family in. Jay could look at a picture of his next project for the ranch and before you knew it, he would have it built. He built several hay bale feeders, horse trailers and numerous farming/irrigation equipment. He seemed to be able to fix (jerry rig) anything, even if missing a few parts.Jay understood the importance of hard work, but he also understood the importance of making it fun. Jay was tough as nails, motivated and self-disciplined, making sure to live each day to the fullest. Jay wore many hats over the years; rancher, roper, farmer, welder, mechanic, hero to many. He loved to train his cow dogs and was never without his cow dog "Pete" by his side. Over the years he had some of the best horses around and could rope and ride with the best.
Jay (Jaybird) was an extraordinarily skilled hunter and somehow always seemed to know where the elk were, which he learned from his dad and uncle Art. He cherished many great memories at hunting camp with friends and family and he passed down his love of the tradition of hunting to his cousins, nephews, and children.
Jay will be remembered for his overwhelming generosity and his "Once in a Lifetime" personality. He could light up a room with his presence, always had a huge smile on his face and his contagious laugh would echo through any crowd. Jay made friends with ease. Jay experienced and accomplished so much in his lifetime, he had many stories to share and was always ready with a good joke. Jay was honest, thoughtful, loving, genuine and led by example. He was an inspiration to us all and truly a "One of a Kind" cowboy.
Jay leaves behind many close friends including Ross and Chris Swanson, Bob Swanson and Swanson family, Kenny Blume and Blume family, nephew Sam Reynolds, Brian Kimpton and many more. We apologize if we forgot to mention anyone by name.Jay was respected by those he worked with and was an active member of the Sparrow Grazing association, spreading his interest in improving it for all.
Jay, our lives will never be the same without you. We will never understand why you had to leave so soon, but we will forever cherish the time we had with you and know you are smiling and tracking the "Big Bulls" up in heaven.
Jay was preceded in death by his father Bill, uncle Art, father-in-law, Joseph Seymour.
Jay is survived by his wife of almost 36 years, Beth, daughter Hailey Peterson, grandsons Reid & Clayton. son Justin (Bailey) Peterson, son Ty Peterson, granddaughter Briar. Mother Shirley Peterson, Hank (Maggie) Peterson, Connie (Dale) King, Ellen (Wayne) Allen, Laurie (Mike) Gurnett, Billie (Scott) Reynolds, Vickie Buckley, Susan (Clint) LaRue, Holly Christensen, Judy (Sam) Davis, Lisa (Russ) Scherman, Gayle Peterson, Jenny Peterson. Nephews, Nieces and Greats; Garrett (Ashley) Graham, Sloan Gurnett, Libby (Dalton) Jhett, Etta Tamcke, Katie (Brandon) Sidney, Sara and Shea Whitaker, Sam (Melissa) Gus, Pete, Clyde, Ike, Tilly Reynolds, Jake and Jared Buckley, Jessie (Pierce) Myla Pendleton, Levi (Kileigh) Claire, Henry, Leah Knott, Jeremy (Jamie) Anthony, Avery Knott, Cassie (Ryan) Ella, Joey Fallang, Emily Peterson, Abby (Chris) Wrenley, Thea Brown, Rusty, Rowan, Collins Christensen, Carly Christensen, Kyle (Echo) Davis, Lexi (Will) Poell, Mami (Kaleb) Scherman, Nate Scherman. Mother-in-law Jean Seymour and family, Karen (Rich) Barnett, Travis (Kelly) Kaleb, Jake, Emma Barnett, Patti (Shane) Kailee, Jax Anderson, Missy (Joe) Bayes, Levi, Paige Jordan, Mandy (Jeremiah) Noah, Addy, Tate Stifle; Brad (Connie) Seymour, Allison Seymour, Danny, Aiden Lee Seymour, Paula (Zeb) Zoolkoski, Laura (Kyle) Tompson; Jack (Brenda) Seymour; Becky Jensen, Jennifer Rognstad, Robbie, Faith, Madi, Gabe; Tina (Mike) Chris, Jacob, Kaleb Ogburn, Sarah Jensen; Cindy (John) Kmetz, Joseph (Stacey) Kmetz, Michael Kmetz, Kevin (Lauren) Kmetz, JeanMarie Kmetz; Scott Seymour, Barry (Amanda) Riley, Evangeline Butori, Autumn (Todd) Butori.
Memorials in honor of Jay are suggested to the Tri-County Fair, P.O. Box 149, Deer Lodge, MT 59722.
A Celebration of Life Service for Jay will be held at 3pm on Saturday, October 7, 2023, at the Peterson Fairmont Barn, 1800 Shirley Way, Anaconda, MT 59711.
Please visit longfellowfinneganriddle.com to offer the family condolences or to share a memory of Jay.
Longfellow Finnegan Riddle Funeral Home and Cremation Services has been privileged to care for Jay and his family.
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Dan Pitman
October 14, 2023
My thoughts are with the Peterson family. Jay was always kind and generous to me. I recall a happy, quick to smile guy with an infectious laugh. I smile when I think of my memories with him. So sad to hear of his passing.
Cori Fitz
October 5, 2023
I am truly heartbroken to hear about the passing of Jay. My deepest condolences to you and your family during this incredibly difficult time. Please give Shirley a HUG for me. Sending love and strength your way.
Don Schultz
October 3, 2023
Our Family was blessed when we moved from Butte to Gregson in 1966 and became neighbors with the Petersons. Our Families became friends and we share many wonderful memories. Even though our Family´s time living at Gregson was 4 short years Jay and his Family have become lifelong friends since those days. In spite of his large Family and many responsibilities Jay always extended his friendship. Jay became the man that anyone would admire. I will cherish his friendship until my last day.
One story I "think" I should tell and hope it puts a smile on your faces: As a kid I had a bad habit of teasing others. One day I was teasing Jay (who was about 5 yrs old) and he had enough. So I got everything I deserved when before I knew it a rock hit me in the head. That was an amazing throw as He was about 40 ft away. So I knew I crossed the line and apologized. Years later I asked Jay if he remembered that day and of course he did. I told him that day made a difference in me and was better because of it. But I also told him that there was one thing I regretted. When he asked me what was it, I told him that he should have had a few more rocks.
We shared a hearty laugh.
I really loved Jay and will sorely miss him.
My sincerest condolences for his Family.
Don Schultz Jr. (Donnie to some)
Kathy Cash Arnold
October 3, 2023
So sorry for you loss, Holly. What a wonderful life cut short, my thoughts are with you and your family in this sad time.
Larry Rupp
September 27, 2023
Deeply saddened by your lose. Not sure how to express my feelings. I hope to help in any way possible.
Susan Sholey Beck
September 25, 2023
I am so very for your loss Beth and family. Although it's been been years, I grew up in Buxton and went to Ramsay with you all just in different grades. Still feel like family in a way.....prayers, strength and healing. Keep all your best memories in your heart and take care always Susan Beck (Sholey)
Cathy West Trottier
September 23, 2023
I am sorry to hear of the passing of Jay. I have fun memories of Jay from West Jr High and Butte High. My deepest sympathy to Beth and the Peterson family.
Carole & Reno Peterson
September 22, 2023
Our thoughts and prayers are with family and friends of Jay Peterson! May all of you cherish the wonderful memories of Jay! Love and hugs to all!
Erin and Joko Stajcar
September 22, 2023
So so sorry for your loss. your family is in our thoughts and prayers.
Shirley Willoughby (Dunks)
September 22, 2023
My sincere condolences to the Peterson family. May your wonderful memories of Jay help to sustain you through this difficult time.
Mike Harvey
September 19, 2023
My condolences go out to the Peterson family. I knew Jay long ago and he was the nicest person to be around. I will remember the twinkle in his eye and the big smile on his face. He will be missed by all. I am shocked at his passing. Very very sorry.
Sean Milligan
September 19, 2023
It is with great sadness when I heard of the passing of Jay. I have fond memories with Jay especially in shop classes at Butte High. My heart goes out to Beth and the rest of the Peterson family.
Bo Maiuri
September 19, 2023
My Condolences to the entire Peterson family over this news.I was saddened to hear of his passing. Jay was a great family man, rancher, Elk Hunter, Cattleman, and true Montana. My thoughts and prayers to all.
Dale King
September 18, 2023
Couldn't asked for a better brother-in-law.
Margie Willhite
September 18, 2023
Beth, I'm so very sorry for your loss. I remember when you and Jay came to West Jr. High from Ramsay for our Freshman year. You were both so darn cute! We all enjoyed meeting you both. Love to you all.
Sheila Buckley
September 18, 2023
Jay and his wife came to my father's funeral. God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Chance merrill
September 17, 2023
I was fortunate enough to spend a day with Jay with up at Sparrow not long ago. Jay cared deeply for his wife and children. I noticed this throughout the past few years of knowing Jay cause he talked a lot about them. I throughly enjoyed the day I had with Jay and will always remember riding in the side by side with him watching elk blow through the willows. My thoughts and prayers go out to Beth and the kids. - chance merrill
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