1927
2022
Lillian Margret (Nelson) Tokle, 95
December 10, 1927 - December 19, 2022
Lillian Margaret "Aunt Lil" Tokle passed on December 19, 2022, at the age of 95. Born as a first-generation Swede on December 10, 1927, to John B. and Eva (Nadin) Nelson. Lillian was educated in Butte, graduating from Butte High, class of 1945.
Lillian married Robert (Bob) Tokle on December 10, 1949; they were married for 42 years until Bob's passing on February 17, 1991.
Aunt Lil and Uncle Bob enjoyed recreational camping and boating at Harrison Lake for many years until they purchased property at Canyon Ferry in 1976, where she managed a very large vegetable garden for nearly 20 years.
Aunt Lil worked for Metropolitan Life for 35 years until they closed their offices in Butte, she then chose to remain retired so her and Uncle Bob could enjoy spending nearly six months at their place at Canyon Ferry and six months at their Butte home. One of her most cherished times while living at her place at Canyon Ferry was going to garage sales with her dear friends, Mini Ralph, Bev Wolf, Hellen Hall, and sister-in-law, Margie Roeber, and times taking her nieces, nephews, and grandnieces and nephews garage-saling, where she would purchase all kinds of toys for, not only her nieces and nephews, but any child who came to visit. Her eyes would light up just seeing the excitement on their faces and the laughs from all the gag gifts. She had such a kind and loving heart. She also enjoyed all her holiday dinners with Bill and Dee Fisher and family.
Aunt Lil was a piano player and singer. She also was a member in the Barbershop group well known as the Note-A-Belles for nearly 40 years. The Note-A-Belles were often invited to entertain at various venues for Christmas, Easter, and numerous holiday festivities.
Aunt Lil volunteered to play the piano for children at the Head Start program once a week during the school year and for their Christmas programs for many years. It was always a treat to have Aunt Lil play her organ at home for her nieces and nephews.
Aunt Lil enjoyed many pet companions starting with Patches, Trudy, Kim, Toby, Barkly, Sidney, and Lizzy.
Aunt Lil was a pink lady volunteer at Saint James Hospital for 25 years of which she served as many years as their President of the Auxiliary Members.
Lillian was known to almost everyone as Aunt Lil - friends, neighbors, doctors, nurses, mail persons, Veteran Home care staff, all addressed her as Aunt Lil. She will be greatly missed.
Aunt Lil was preceded in death by her parents: John B. and Eva (Nadin) Nelson; sister, Margret; brother, Herbert (Herb); husband, Robert (Bob); sister-in-law, Loraine Nelson Boyd; niece, Gail Boyd and friend, Ray Clark.
During her final days, Aunt Lil lived in the Southwest Montana Veterans' Home where she received loving care from the nursing staff.
She is survived by friends, Diane Sholey and Norm White, numerous nieces, and nephews among whom were her best friends, as were her caregivers, John and Karen Starcevich, Cathy and Ernie Frey, Bill and Dee Fisher, and Josh and Ashley Wold.
Friends may call on January 26, 2023, after 11:30 am in the Duggan Dolan Mortuary Chapel. Funeral Services will be conducted at 12:00 PM (noon).
Interment will follow in Holy Cross Catholic Cemetery.
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Sponsored by Duggan Dolan Mortuary - Butte.
Murv Fanning
January 12, 2023
I remeber Aunt Lil very well Lil and uncle Bob where ones we always visited when we were in Butte after I moved in 1965. Found memories of them in Butte and up at the lake. Mom and Dad always enjoyed going there. Murv and Connie
Larry Boyd
January 9, 2023
Lillian was my Aunt, not by blood but by Love. I sat on her lap when she was twenty and I was one. My mother was related to her because she married Lillian's brother Herbert Nelson, he died in a traffic accident and Mom married my Dad "Dean Boyd".
I realized that she wouldn't live forever so my wife and I made multiple trips through the years to visit her, to share stories and visit gravesites. My home in Butte was at 611 West Silver and according to my Mom I just went everywhere and made friends along the way. I probably will never meet anyone like Aunt Lillian again, but shared so many stories and shared December birthdays mine is December 6, 1947,and hers is December,10 1927, 75 years apart, that is very special to me.
Sincerely,
Larry Boyd
John Moran
January 2, 2023
Aunt Lil Tokle was a life-long friend of the Aggie and Bud Moran family. At age 13 she began to baby sit for Jim, Jon and Jerry and later for Judy and Joe Pat. She and Bob lived in our neighborhood for many years and we were well acquainted with her first dog, Patches. Aunt Lil along with our Mother was a chaperone for some of our teen age houses parties in the 1950's.
Aunt Lil was a true Butte friend.
Our condolences to her family.
The Moran Family
Bob Tokle
January 1, 2023
I have many wonderful memories of Aunt Lillian, from our visits to Butte and the Lake, to when Uncle Bob and Lillian visited us in Missoula, Pullman, and Menonomie, WI. Aunt Lil had a great sense of humor and was fun to be around. She and Uncle Bob always showed great hospitality at the Lake. I was very sorry to hear about Aunt Lil´s passing and know that she will be greatly missed by many.
Carol Tokle Brown
January 1, 2023
I have many fond memories of Aunt Lil. In grade school our family went to visit Aunt Lil and Uncle Bob at their place on Harrison Lake and went boating on Lake Harrison and the newly formed Quake Lake! It was an adventure. In later years Aunt Lil and Uncle Bob hosted family reunions at Canyon Ferry enabling all of our family to get together. I will also remember Aunt Lil as being fun loving and kind. She will be greatly missed.
Carol Brown
Mary Lou Fitzpatrick
December 28, 2022
Lillian and Bob were my parents', John and Mary Lou Fitzpatrick, dear friends. My sister Kate and I used to drop by their house on Granite Street when we would be walking home from town. She was a very lovely lady. I think she was part of the Presbyterian bell ringers, My thoughts and prayers go out to all of her family members and friends. I used to work with one of her dear friends, Rae Clark. We were always going to have lunch but we never had the chance. I'm sure she is having a great reunion with Bob and her family and friends who were already in Heaven to meet her as she went through the pearly gates.
Mariann Matosich
December 27, 2022
The Heavens gained another shining star. You started my "Hope" chest for me and I will never forget that. I miss listening to you sing at the mall. You would let me know when you would be there singing and I went to almost all of them. Such a beautiful friend. Rest in peace Lil
Vicky Struznik
December 26, 2022
She was a sweetheart she will be missed always a smile on her face and loved to chat. I met her delivering meals on wheels. My condolences to her family
Patti (Sullivan) and Frank Ball
December 26, 2022
I always will remember going to Uncle Bob and Aunt Lillian´s house where my mom would tell my brother Kelly and me to "be careful and not break anything" as her house was beautiful
As an adult the many family reunions on the lake. Their hospitality was first rate!
Dana Ralph
December 22, 2022
My heart just hurts, Lil was my second mother. She would call me her "Mini Me". Cathy, Ernie, John and families you were amazing to her. The best kids a mom could ask for!! She was our garage sale and Queen and Queen of CF!! Many many great memories. We just adored her. I'm sure she hot the ground running catching up with everyone!! God Bless!!
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