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Cassandra Harris Obituary
Woodbridge - Cassandra Harris, 43, passed away on November 10, at JFK Medical Center, Edison. Born in Rahway, New Jersey, she lived in Woodbridge. Cassandra worked was a security guard for Securitas Security Services in Edison. She was a member of Second Baptist Church in Rahway.
Cassandra is survived by her sons Jahquil McSeed and Eric Michael Jefferson; daughter, Ahzsa Jefferson; sister, Jacqueline Harris; brother, Joseph Harris, II; her parents Joseph Sr. and Consowella Harris and her grandson Wesley.
Visitation will be Friday morning from 9 to 11 AM at Second Baptist Church, 378 East Milton Avenue, Rahway, followed by the funeral service starting at 11 AM. Burial will follow at Rosedale Cemetery, Linden on Saturday morning.
Arrangements are by the Jones Funeral Home, 247 Elm Avenue, Rahway.
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Tonia Lee
November 10, 2024
6 years Kayse I'm still broken you and my mom broke me. Continue to rest, I miss you and love you always in my heart
Ahzsa
November 10, 2024
6 years you been gone and I miss you everyday. I miss how much fun we had and how lucky I was to have you as a mom. You will forever be my best friend. I hope you continue to be proud of me. I love you forever- your mini me, Ahz
Tonia Lee
May 8, 2024
I definitely haven't forgot about you, you're always in my heart.. I really been having a hard time coping, everything that's going on especially the death of my mom.. it's not easy a forever pain, I really need my mom .. I missed your bday, Happy Belated Birthday In Heaven.. I miss you a lot.. it's been so many deaths lately it's heart breaking.. Ive changed so much I don't know if its good or bad, I dont talk too anybody I dont let people get close too my heart anymore I'm not a people's person anymore. I don't like that I have too be like this but I have too protect myself from betrayal and hurt this is the only way... I don't even run into people I changed everything the times I go to the store lately I been shopping online everything delivered if I do go to the store I go out of town where I know I won't run into nobody... That's how my life is now... Well I wish you were here but God needed you so I have no choice but too accept that.. if you just so happen too run into my mom up there give her a big hug and squeeze her cheeks for me plz and tell her I love and miss her.. until next time Kayse continue to rest in peace...
Tonia Lee
November 10, 2023
5 years doesn't seem that long, I miss you Kayse I can honestly say my heart is forever broken. I'll always keep your memory alive we always talk about you. Lots of memories. Keep resting and plz give my momma a hug for me I'm so lost without y'all.. you're forever in my heart
Tonia Lee
April 11, 2023
I missed your bday I'm sorry Happy belated heavenly birthday Kayse, I miss you the only turn up I can do for you is eat a bunch of seafood haven't smoked in 9 years no cigarettes in 11 years and you know I was never a drinker but I enjoyed your jello shots.. today makes 3 years since my mom left me I cried but I'm ok God's got me.. I still haven't made it to the cemetery to be honest I probably will never go I can't do it but I will always blow my horn like crazy when I drive pass and scream I love you Mom and Kayse.. I pray you're resting in God's arms.. I miss you...
Tonia
November 10, 2022
4 years Kayse still feels like yesterday.. I don't have too much to say, I'm completely broken there's no coming back from it you and my mom left me I'm never going to be the same. I'm alive for my daughter that's it.. I miss you girl give my momma some hugs for me please and no I just can't go inside that cemetery I'm sorry... I pray one day... I love you rest well
Tonia Lee
November 8, 2021
Just laying here thinking about u, I'm restless, I don't sleep well at all.. in a couple of days it will be 3 yrs u left us, it still don't seem real.. I haven't made it to the cemetery I feel so bad especially because my mom is there too, I just can't do it.. my mom been gone a year and 6 months I can't get myself to go in that cemetery, when I ride past I blow the horn like crazy and scream y'all name.. I'm definitely not the same person I'm quiet and to myself, walk with my head down I guess that's my way to avoid people idk, I'm no longer a people person I like to be alone.. my heart is broken this is a forever pain.. I miss y'all soooooo much, death sucks and it's so painful, sometimes I sit and think like damn I can't see or speak to them again, can't get a hug nothing.. I do honestly believe that my mom is with me sometimes I smell coffee it be a strong smell it stays for maybe 5 minutes and it goes away.. she always wanted coffee so I would bring it to her when I visit.. it's hard down here I be so miserable I try to stay strong for my daughter but sometimes I just can't.. so much going on I don't have the energy or strength for none of it, I just leave everything to God, I'm no longer strong Tonia.. I don't see people too much everybody is dying it's ridiculous it seems like every week somebody dies they be young too, I'm drained I can't do another funeral got to be very close to my heart... I stopped singing it's no longer my joy, last time I sung was at my mom's funeral the first verse of Precious Lord couldn't do much.. I started feeling like I was a funeral singer because everybody that died put my name in their obituary I did some of them then I couldn't do it anymore, I'm not that strong girl anymore.. I just stop singing all together... I can hear u now lol I know... I can hear my mom too lol. I haven't smoked a cigarette in 10 yrs can u believe it, u would think all this pain I would be a smokey lol no tree for almost 4 yrs now u know that use to make it go away for a few hours lol but I don't smoke or drink I'm the sober one.. I'm proud of myself... I think about ur children all the time I never see them and I'm not sure if Briannah still talks to Jah I don't see her either.. I don't see anybody.. I think this world is full of mourning it feels that way like I never seen so much death back to back smh... Wellll hug everybody for me especially my mom tell her I'm so miserable without her... I miss you Kayse I hate that you're gone my heart is completely broken... I know I just typed u a essay lol these are my thoughts I really believe u see it... Come to my dreams and let me know you're good, love you to pieces, until next time sleep on...
Tonia
March 26, 2021
Hey Kayse, I was thinking of u today and I know u have a birthday coming so I'm going to say it now Happy Birthday In Heaven.. my mind may be all over the place when ur birthday comes my mom memorial is coming up it been a year it's crazy because it still feels like yesterday then her birthday is coming then there is mother's day I know I'm going to be a mess. I've been a mess all day.. my heart is broken... So many bad things is going on I don't know how to handle it because I don't have the energy to handle it... sometimes I just can't move... All this is painful a pain that will never go away and it's not getting better... I just try to pray but sometimes I can't even do that... I just try to stay strong for my daughter difficult task but I'm doing my best... I miss u girl everybody is dying y'all death really changed me I'm quiet can u believe it yea me I'm quiet don't have much to say I stay to myself don't want to see or talk to people just stay to myself.. Can u hug my mom for me and tell her it's from me.. I love and miss u girl always in my heart...
TONIA LEE
January 23, 2021
Was thinking about u heavy today. Girl some days I'm just a mess the bad outweigh the good.. I can hardly function sometimes.. I'm lost I'm so broken.. I try to be strong for my daughter but sometimes I just can't.. I miss u and my mom I don't think this pain will ever go away I'm hurt for life.. I can't even give a fake smile... you're always in my heart give my mommy a big hug for me plz..
TONIA LEE
November 11, 2020
It's been 2 yrs smh still seems like yesterday.. these deaths is killing me I can't handle it today makes 7 months my mom left me.. Kayse I been a mess it's hard for me to accept the fact I'm never gonna hear or see y'all again.. it's just unbelievable wishing it was all a bad dream... I miss u girl plz give my mom a hug and tell her I'm so lost without her... Continue to rest..
TONIA LEE
September 4, 2020
Hey Dee Dee I haven't been on ur guest book in a while.. lost my mom been heartbroken.. She's buried up there with u and u know how I feel about cemeteries but I have to come now just waiting for them to put her tombstone on her grave and I'll be visiting ur grave as well.. miss u down here, it's so painful everybody is dying .. you're always in my heart. Give my mom a big hug for me and tell her it's from me...
LATONIA LEE
March 31, 2020
❤❤❤❤
Tonia Lee
March 31, 2020
Today u would've been 45... Happy Heavenly Birthday.. I miss u, always thinking about u, forever mourn u... Continue to rest with God... Always in my heart...
Tonia Lee
January 25, 2020
Just thinking about u Happy New Year with Jesus.. Dank and I was talking about u the other day, honestly Kayse we can't believe you're gone, seem so unreal like I can't wake up from this dream.. I know I have no other choice but to accept it but it's not easy... I still can't get myself to ur grave I just can't do it..Always in my heart never forgotten..
Tee Lee
November 10, 2019
Today makes a year u left us.. still so unbelievable.. I miss u sooo much..
Tee LEE
October 28, 2019
Sitting here just thinking about u.. wishing u were here, wanting to talk to u, wishing we can hook up get a drink or something... I miss u like crazy girl.. still can't get myself to go to the cemetery I just can't do it... you're always in my heart.. keep resting with God..
Tee Lee
May 12, 2019
Happy Mother's Day in heaven... Watch over ur kids..I know today is not an easy day.. we miss u down here..love u sleep well sis..
Tonia
March 31, 2019
Today u would've been 44, I stop turning up a while ago however I will make it my business to have 1 jello shot wish u were here to make them.. I'm getting better I really had a hard time accepting ur death, I know ur with Jesus... I'm still having a hard time going to the cemetery to visit one day I hope... you're in my heart I miss u Happy heavenly birthday never will forget u always in my heary..
Monique
December 6, 2018
My deepest and sincerest condolences to the family! Cassandra was the homie! We've had plenty of laughs @ Spirit Delivery! I can't believe she's gone so soon. Rest in power babygirl.
Tee Lee
November 28, 2018
My heart is broken Dee Dee.. I just can't believe you're gone.. I cry all the time, I try not to think but that's impossible.. I'm coming to put some flowers on your grave soon, u know me I'm dragging.. we always talking about u.. I told the girls so much we pretty much did it all especially when we were teenager's good and bad, and then came our children we grew up life changed for the good.. I miss u.. watch over your children watch over all of us.. I love u to pieces girl always in my heart..
JIM CARR
November 18, 2018
I HAD THE HONOR OF WORKING WITH CASSANDRA AT SPIRIT DELIVERY BEST BUY PERTH AMBOY RESPECTED HER FOR KNOWLEDGE AND FRIENDSHIP WELL LIKED BY EVERYONE THIS IS SAD WILL FOREVER BE MISSED TO HER FAMILY CONDOLENCES FROM THE CARR FAMILY
Tee Lee
November 16, 2018
I miss u
Jessie Muhammad
November 15, 2018
To the Family of C. Harris. Sorry for your loss, I will miss her her as well. Her friend from Macys, Woodbridge. Jessie. God look over this family and keep them safe.
Sharon Jones
November 15, 2018
RIP Sandra... You always kept us laughing... You will be missed...
Lashell Eaton
November 15, 2018
Kayse I hope you know how much i will miss you. Im thankful for all the memories we had. I get up everyday thinking it was a bad dream. I am beyond hurt from your passing. You mean so much to me. I will miss you terribly. Love you Kayse
Tonya Lee
November 15, 2018
I'm really going to miss u alot Kayse this is unbelievable.. I love u to pieces and I will never forget u..
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