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Gerard Whelan Obituary
Leonardo - Gerard J. "Jerry" Whelan, 66, of Leonardo, NJ, passed away on March 28, 2018 surrounded by his loving family. He was born in Limerick, Ireland and at the age of 9 Gerard immigrated with his parents and siblings to Middletown. Gerard was a lifelong plumber and retired from the Township of Middletown Sewerage Authority in 2007. Gerard always put his family first and was the happiest spending time with his five granddaughters that he lovingly referred to as "Grandpa's Girls". Gerard was an example of kindness and generosity, he was a friend to many, and he was truly a happy person.
Surviving are his wife of 45 years, Susan (nee Kane);his daughter and son-in-law, Melissa and Matt Robinson; his son and daughter-in-law, Jerrod and Stephanie Whelan; his 5 granddaughters, Sophia, Adriana, Isabella, Olivia, and Mia; his five sisters, Myra Rooney, Annette Neighbor, Helen Eldridge, Catherine McClelland, Christina Howell; his two brothers, Patrick Whelan, Raymond Whelan; and his many nieces and nephews.
Gerard was preceded in death by his parents, Terence J. and Christina Whelan, Sr., his brother, Terence Whelan, Jr., and his sisters, Dolores Whelan and Bea Keogh.
Visitation will be held Friday, March 30, 2018 from 4-8 pm at John F. Pfleger Funeral Home, 115 Tindall Road, Middletown. Funeral services are scheduled for Saturday, March 31, 2018 at 11 am at the funeral home. Guests are invited to arrive at 10:30 am. Entombment will follow at Mt. Olivet Cemetery, Middletown.
For more information, to send condolences or for directions, please visit www.pflegerfh.com.
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Tara (Rummell) Berson
April 4, 2018
I spent many days in the Whelan household as a child. I always loved listening to Mr. Whelans tales about Ireland and enjoyed his jovial spirit. He didn't have an easy life, but he definitely made the best of it! I will remember him fondly, as will my brother and parents. Sending much love to the family during this difficult time. Please let me know if there's anything you need. xoxo
Cecelia Truax
April 2, 2018
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
D Bauza
March 30, 2018
Jerry you will be missed by many. See you on thanksgiving buddy!!!! We will deep fry one for you !!!
Christina Salvatore-Tonne
March 30, 2018
Jerry was an exceptional friend to my father. My thoughts and prayers are with his family.
Patrick Whelan
March 29, 2018
Gerard, my younger brother was a happy go lucky guy, always in good spirits. Even throughout his illness and painful recovery he found humor, laughter and a healthy outlook on life.
He was always positive and spoke only well of everyone he knew.
We usually met at Dunkin Donuts whenever I came to visit and Gerard would have his two donuts and tea.
He always had an interesting story about local politicians, police and a recent tale about one of his loving granddaughters.
Im going to miss our get togeathers and cherish his parting words love you bro
Geraldine Allegra Donnelly
March 29, 2018
So sorry for your loss our thoughts and prayers
are with you all. Sincerely, Geri Allegra Donnelly and family
Nellie Meyers
March 29, 2018
So very sorry for your beloved loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time. Our deepest sympathy.
March 29, 2018
I am so so sorry for your loss. Mr. Whelan was such a wonderful man. He will be so sorely missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this truly trying time.
Love, Kerri
Thomas Fette
March 29, 2018
Sorry to hear Jerry was a good friend Rip
St. Patrick's Day 2018
March 29, 2018
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