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Joseph Abate Obituary

Mr. Joseph Abate Jr

AGE: 90 • East Millstone

Joseph Abate Jr. passed away on Monday March 14, 2016 surrounded by his family at his home in East Millstone at the age of 90. Joseph was born in Twin Rocks, PA but lived most of his life in the East Millstone section of Franklin Township. He served our country faithfully during World War II in the United States Army in combat in the Philippines, New Guinea, Japan and Australia. He was a very proud veteran and spoke with true honor for our country he loved very much and always loved to see the American Flag flying. He was a long time parishioner of Saint Joseph Church in Millstone Borough, New Jersey. He was also a member of the Millstone Valley Volunteer Fire Department. Mr. Abate worked for over 43 years at ER Squibb & Sons in New Brunswick. In his spare time Joseph also enjoyed playing baseball, softball, bowling and golfing with E. R. Squibb & Sons company teams. He was a New York Yankee baseball fan. Mr. Abate had a wonderful sense of humor and was known to always have a good joke ready to share. He worked hard to keep a nice lawn and a fruitful garden which supplied much of the neighborhood with fresh vegetables. Mr. Abate was an ever present fixture at his sons' service station, The Millstone Getty and was always willing to help out in any capacity necessary. He was a loving husband, caring father, an adoring grandfather and great grandfather. He treasured spending time with his family.

He was pre deceased by his father Joseph Abate, his mother Antonia Abate and his loving wife Marie of 67 years marriage who passed away in August of 2015. He was also pre deceased by his brothers, Frank, Anthony, Sam, Nicholas and Angelo. He is survived by his children, Joseph C. Abate and his wife Marie of Somerset, Kathleen Grbac of East Millstone, and Gail Presutti and her husband Anthony also of Somerset, a brother Felix Abate of North Brunswick, his grandchildren, James Grbac of Hamilton, Joseph C. Abate Jr. of Commack Long Island, Eileen Koob of Somerset and Jennifer Abate of Manhattan New York and great grandchildren Derek Grbac and John Koob, many nieces and nephews and his caregiver Tom Makgolane.

Friends and family may visit from 4-8 PM at the funeral home on Wednesday. A funeral service will begin at 10:30 AM please arrive any time after 10 on Thursday at the Gleason Funeral Home 1360 Hamilton Street in Somerset. Interment will follow at Cedar Hill Cemetery in East Millstone. In lieu of flowers please consider a contribution to the Visiting Nurse Association of Somerset Hills, 200 Mount Airy Road, Basking Ridge NJ 07902.

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Published by Home News Tribune from Mar. 15 to Mar. 16, 2016.

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April 1, 2016

Gail,Tony and family,

Sorry for your lost, Joe and I always enjoyed telling jokes to each other at the deli. Our prayers are with you.


Jeff and Joanne Tallmadge

Susanne Heins

March 18, 2016

I am so sorry for your loss. I truly loved Joe and no one let me know. I surely would have been there. He was a special caring man & I will miss him as we all will. Prayers for family & friends, Sue Heins

John & Pat Spies

March 17, 2016

Joe, Kathy, Gail and all the grandchildren:
Praying for your great loss of a wonderful gentle friendly man.. We will always remember your dad/granddad for his friendly greeting especially at the great Getty gas station in East Millstone.
Blessings, John & Pat Spies

Henry Wierzbowski

March 16, 2016

Joey Abate and family sorry for your loss ,my sincere condolences .
May he and your mom rest in peace together again forever ! May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

March 16, 2016

You will always carry him in your heart. Your parents are now together again. May they rest in peace.
Linda Potts

Fred Mueller

March 16, 2016

My deepest sympathy. We have lost a good man. It was always a delight when Joe would be at the Getty station. Every time I saw him we swapped jokes. What a special, kindhearted person. Our savior has welcomed him.

Debbie & Butch Peterson

March 16, 2016

Dear Kathy and family, So sorry to hear of your Dad's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of sorrow.

Michael White

March 16, 2016

I met Joe when I was a young man at E. R. Squibb, he was a great gentleman and I will forever remember him, he will be sorely missed.

Barbara ten Broeke

March 15, 2016

Joe, Kathy and Gail, So sorry to learn your Dad has passed away. A good, soft spoken gentleman. He and your Mom were such a delightful couple. And a credit to the community. You must be proud.
Sincerely, Barbara ten Broeke

Barbara Blahut, Longwill

March 15, 2016

The Abate Family, I am sorry to hear of your loss at this time, may you be comforted during this time of grief. I'm the daughter of Lillian and Michael Blahut and I grew up in East Millstone in the 1950's. I have a lot of fun memories of Joe, bringing us fresh veggies from his garden and I remember the fun times at the Fireman's Picnic every year. My dad was a charter member and my Mom was in the Auxilary. Joe and Marie were dear friends of our family! Keep all those happy memories!!

John Nalepka

March 15, 2016

RIP JOE ABATE...You were always a very kind and happy man. I appreciate your service to our country and community also. My regards to the family

Christine Woodbury

March 15, 2016

Gail, Joe and Kathy - so sorry for the loss of your father. My sons remember him giving them rides on his tractor around the yard 17 years ago! He was a wonderful man

Christine Woodbury

March 15, 2016

Gail, Joe and Kathy - so sorry for the loss of your dad. My sons still remember him giving them rides on his tractor around the yard 17 years ago! He was a wonderful man.

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