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Joseph Nehila Obituary

Joseph Carl Nehila, Sr.

AGE: 74 • Parlin

Joseph Carl Nehila, Sr., age 74, of the Parlin section of Sayreville passed away Saturday, April 21, 2012 in Lady Lake, Florida. Born in Perth Amboy, New Jersey, Joe was a 1956 graduate of St. Mary's High School, South Amboy, New Jersey, and a 1960 graduate of Seton Hall University. Upon completing his college education, Joe began his career in accounting with Mack Trucks Inc. of New Jersey in which time he earned his CPA. Following Mack Trucks Joe moved onto Arthur Young and practiced public accounting, remaining with the firm until he was hired by the Archdiocese of Newark in 1978 as Director of Financial Affairs. Directly owning to his exceptional efforts while Director, the Most Reverend Peter Leo Gerety, D.D., Archbishop of Newark, upon approval of the Vatican Offices of Pope John Paul II, named Joe Chancellor of the Archdiocese of Newark. This post, normally reserved for ordained Catholics, making Joe the first non-Priest to hold this title in America. Joe was also recognized for his professional and personal dedication and was conferred The Pontifical Equestrian Order of St. Gregory the Great. The order is bestowed on Catholic's in recognition of their tireless personal service to the Church and the Holy Sea in Rome. A wonderful father and husband, Joe and his wife, Florence, were married April 30, 1960. They raised their family in Parlin, New Jersey, where Joe was an avid collector of baseball cards, an accomplished painter and wood carver. Upon retirement Joe and Florence moved to Lady Lake, Florida. He was dedicated to his grandchildren, the New York Giants and his beloved New York Yankees. He was a member of the New Jersey Society of Public Accountants and numerous Boards of Directors.

Joe was predeceased by his father, Joseph John Nehila; mother, Paula Scimeca Nehila and his brother, Robert Nehila. He is survived by his wife, Florence Fitzmaurice Nehila; loving children, Joseph C. Nehila Jr. and his wife Heather, Patrick T. Nehila, Therese Marie and her husband, Gregory Dwyer, Jeanne Marie and her husband Paul Ortiz and Richard B. Nehila; his grandchildren, Joseph III, Kelsey, Ryan, Taylor, Ashley, Nichole, Samantha, Michael, Allyson, Connor, Stephen, Sean, Hayden, and Mackenzie: great grandchildren, Ella and Callum; sister, Paulette Russell as well as his numerous nephews, nieces, cousins, extended relatives and friends.

Funeral services will be held Saturday, 8:30am from the Carmen F. Spezzi Funeral Home, 15 Cherry Lane, Parlin followed by a 9am Mass at Our Lady of Victories R. C. Church in Sayreville with private cremation to follow. Calling hours at the funeral home will be Friday from 2pm to 4pm and 7pm to 9pm. In lieu of flowers, please make donations in his memory to Derek Jeter's Turn 2 Foundation, Inc., 215 Park Avenue South, Suite 1905, New York, NY 10003 or Saint Jude's Children's Research Hospital, 501 St Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105. Letters of condolence may be sent to the family at www.spezzifuneralhome.com

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Published by Home News Tribune on Apr. 26, 2012.

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Bill Mullis

April 20, 2020

I collect quotes. Joe once said to me, Here I am having built all these financial models to save this organization and who am I? Im just some little fat kid who grew up under the Outerbridge Crossing in Perth Amboy!

You were much more than that, Joe. Among many other things, you gave us - the so-called Class of 1979 - a lot of leash to perform our tasks under your guidance to better the business mechanisms of the organization. You were the leader, the mentor, the caretaker. You led the way! Thank you.

Rest in Eternal Peace. You are well-remembered.

Bill Mullis

April 30, 2012

You were the mentor, teacher, mediator, architect, planner, a true leader, clearing the paths for others to follow. You set the guide and gave us lotsa leash to operate alongside you. You had many contemporaries, Joe, but few, if any, peers. Once again you are leading the way for those of us who remain behind to follow you at some later date. It was an honor to serve with you. It was great to know you and thanq for your support and caring. Godspeed, Joe... and see you later.

Richard Bielecki

April 27, 2012

My condolences at your loss of Joe. I knew Joe and remember him from a short time I worked for him on an audit while he was at Arthur Young.

Michael Hurley

April 26, 2012

Joe was a tough minded decison maker with a big heart. Always known by people in the Archdiocese as "Mr.Nehila", Joe garnered the respect and admiration of those who were privileged to work with him or for him. As one colleague put it, "God's business office has lost a great man".
I will always remember my personal and professional association with Joe.
Rest in Peace Joe.

April 26, 2012

Flo andfamily,
Prayers and sympathy on the death of Joe, your husband and dad. Have many fond memories of our days at OLV..May he rest in peace and may our Blessed Mother be your source of consolation at this great loss.
Sr. Nadine

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