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Pamela Rainey-Ayres Obituary

Pamela Lynn Rainey-Ayres

AGE: 33 • Branchburg

Pamela Lynn Rainey-Ayres, a resident of Branchburg, NJ died unexpectedly in her home on March 17, 2016. She was born on August 27, 1982 and grew up in Hillsborough, New Jersey.

She was one of four children to David and Nancy Rainey, a caring sister to David Rainey, Kate Rainey, and Jessica Doyle, a devoted wife to Nathan Ayres, and a loving mother to two beautiful sons, Nathan Ayres and London Ayres.

Pamela graduated from Hillsborough High School in 2000 and spent most of her time playing sports, traveling, and enjoying time with family and friends. She is known to many people for being spontaneous, funny, and lovingly enthusiastic. She had a natural ability to make people laugh and could turn anyone's bad day into a forgotten memory with her funny jokes, and her bright and caring personality. She loved her family and friends more than anything in the world and she will be greatly missed by all.

Above all things, Pamela was the greatest mother to Nathan and London. She devoted her whole life and well-being to loving and providing for her children, putting their needs above her own, and giving them all of her heart, mind, body, and soul. Pamela fulfilled her dream of falling in love and raising a family with the one true love of her life, Nathan Ayres.

Visiting for Pamela will take place on Thursday, March 24, 2016 from 2-4pm and 7-9pm. The funeral service will take place on Friday, March 25, 2016 at 10am. Services will be at the Hillsborough Funeral Home, 796 Route 206, Hillsborough, NJ and she will be laid to rest at Neshanic Reformed Cemetery in Hillsborough, NJ

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Published by Courier News on Mar. 20, 2016.

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Peter Roman

March 14, 2020

Your Missed, XFL is going to Epic soon and the Giants still are the Best Team Ever. Hahaha, my question to you is do they keep Dak?? Miss you tons my friend!!! C you again

Pete Roman

March 14, 2019

Its Crazy bc today I wear my OBJ Jersey and I know you would hit me up to bust my balls about the trade. I still get a certain way just with the thought of U and not physically being here. I miss You tons Kidd but Heaven got the Coolest Cowboy Fan I Know!!!! See you eventually Kiddo and we can pick up where we left. Love You #HeavenDefinetlyGotaAngel

Pete Roman

December 4, 2017

Saddened, We chatted unexpectedly and had some fun chats about how the Giants Rule and Cowboys are Horrible! Fell out of touch to only find out through FB we can't do it again . Heaven definitely gained a Angel

Peter Walsh

April 27, 2016

Oh dear Pam,

You were my absolute favorite person at Merck. I loved the warmth you brought with your big smile, and the kindness you showed me, and my colleagues, every time I we walked into 2 West.

I know that Nathan will miss you so very much as he loved you dearly, and I am sure the two boys will miss mommy so very much.

May God bless you Pam, and may you forever watch over your lovely family from above. Heaven is a better place with your presence, but we will miss you dearly here on earth.

Love always,

Peter Walsh

March 24, 2016

To the Rainey Family.

Prayers and thoughts go out to each and every one of you. God keep you all and help you heal as you endure this loss. It is not easy but remember the good times and it will help to keep her with you always.
Deepest regrets, Mary and Jack Taormina

Tracey Milhouse

March 24, 2016

To Nathan and the Ayres and Rainey families,

My sincerest condolences to you all. Such a beautiful person gone too soon.

My thoughts and prayers are with you in this most difficult time.

God Bless
Tracey Milhouse and Family

Gerhardt and Lynn Kaniper

March 24, 2016

Dave , Nancy, and the Rainey family.
Our prayers and heart felt condolences are with the Rainey family. The world has lost an angel.

Liz Wutke

March 23, 2016

Nancy and Dave, so sorry for the loss of your beautiful daughter. May she rest in peace.

Nancy and Tony Baron

March 23, 2016

Dave and Nancy,
Our hearts go out to you and your family and the Ayres family as well. No one will understand why some are taken so early and unexpectedly. We are sorry for your loss of such a happy and caring daughter, something no parent should endure. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Nimisha Patel

March 23, 2016

Jess, I cannot full express how sorry I am for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Sheryl Cummings

March 22, 2016

I am so sorry for your loss. May the love of friends and family comfort you during this time.

Laurie Schnell (Winfield)

March 22, 2016

I still remember our fun times growing up together and I will cherish each memory. Dave, Nancy, Jess and Katie I am so sorry for your loss. Pam will be truly missed.

Dyann Jacques

March 21, 2016

I'm so sorry Dave and Nancy.......love dyann

cindy simmons

March 21, 2016

Jess, I'm very sorry for the loss of your dear sister.
My thoughts and prayers go out to you & your family during this difficult time, I wish you peace as you remember Pam's special life.

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