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James Salter Obituary
Born in Phoenix, Arizona, he was the son of Richard M. Salter and Ann Peterson.
James was a graduate of SHAPE High School in Belgium and attended Coastal Carolina College.
He was a U.S. Army veteran serving in the First Calvary Division at Fort Hood, Texas and was a member of the S.C. Army National Guard.
Surviving, in addition to his father and wife, Susan, of Myrtle Beach and his mother and husband, Rob Peterson of Minnesota, are his sisters, Elaine Wold of Minn., Jennifer and Jessica Salter, both of Myrtle Beach; maternal grandmother, Shirley Tanner of Calif.; paternal grandfather, Richard Salter Sr. of Florida; maternal great-grandmother, Betty Mahar of Minn.; step grandparents, Suzanne and Vicky Ray Jones; stepsisters, Diana Wiederich and Jennifer Peterson of Minn.; and several nieces and nephews.
Memorial services will be held at 6 p.m. Thursday, April 12, 2007 at Goldfinch Funeral Home, Beach Chapel with visitation one hour prior to services.
Sign a guest book at www. goldfinchfuneralhome.com or at MyrtleBeachOnline.com.
Memorials may be made to James Michael Salter Memorial Athletic Scholarship Fund, Coastal Carolina Education Foundation, Coastal Carolina University, PO Box 261954, Conway, SC 29528.
Goldfinch Funeral Home, Beach Chapel is in charge of arrangements.
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Memories and Condolences
for James Salter
Sponsored by Elaine Windorski.
Brian Jones
April 14, 2020
Hey bro looked at the calendar and thought about you. Had a lot of great times as roommates in fort hood. Rip bro
October 2, 2019
Thinking of you. I have a picture of you and Padre on my computer at work and I love seeing it every day. I wish you could've met Eric. He's pretty awesome. Say hi to Buddy for us. Love you!
Richard SALTER
April 9, 2019
I miss you son. Be at peace we are all ok. I love you.
Jessica Salter
April 9, 2019
Can't believe it's been 12 years. I always tell myself I'm not to cry on April 9th. I save it for the day before because I don't want to think of anything but happy memories. Love and miss you.
Dad Salter
February 11, 2019
Thinking of you, son. You had a birthday last week. I love and miss you.
Jessica
September 28, 2018
Love and miss you!
Jessica
June 21, 2016
I know you're not missing a single moment and you will be there the day Dad walks me down the aisle. Love and miss you.
Jessica
January 7, 2016
Think about you all the time. Love and miss you.
Molly
November 30, 2015
James, while cleaning out my dresser I came across your and1 tshirt that u let me wear at the bowling alley cuz I was hot. I couldn't help but smile at the fun times we all had. I miss you and hope you are living it up in heaven man!!
Dad
April 9, 2015
Eight years ago today we lost an angel. Our lives have continued but our hearts have a huge hole that will never be filled. We love and miss you so much James.
Dad
February 8, 2015
Happy Birthday James. We love and miss you.
Dad
April 9, 2014
We hope you were able to welcome Pop and Grandfather into Heaven with you, James. It gave us all a bit of comfort picturing them seeing you and your smile first thing. Please give my Dad a big hug for me and tell him I love him. We don't have a day without your memory, and they are great memories. You will never be forgotten, son. We love and miss you just like it was yesterday. Your sisters are doing well. Thanks for watching over them. You are the best brother in the world. Travis, Ron and Paula send their love, man. You made them part of our family forever. I thank you for that. Keep on looking out for us all. I love you.
Rich Salter
April 9, 2013
Time has not lessened the feeling of loss, James. We love and miss you dearly.
Elaine Windorski
February 8, 2013
Let's all remember this day as the day that a great man was born 30 years ago. We don't know what you would have been today but we know it would have been great. I always wonder what your kids would have looked like and what you would have looked like now. I see you growing up all over again every time I look at Jackson. We love you and miss you so much. Happy Birthday little brother (I guess you aren't so little anymore), Old man :)
Richard Salter
February 7, 2013
It's your birthday again, son. And we all wish you were here so we could tell you how much we love you and how special you are to us. The day instead will be spent remembering the good times we had together. Looking forward to seeing you again, James. We love you.
Elaine Salter-Windorski
November 14, 2012
Hey little brother. You know we got some bad news today. I don't understand how this could happen. Just when we thought it was going to start getting a little easier, the pain and agony starts all over. When we got the call today, the pain felt just like the night you were killed. I have to believe that justice will prevail but it's hard to have faith in something that has let you down. I love you sooooooo much and I pray that you will get the justice you deserve.
Jessica Salter
October 26, 2012
I miss you James. You will always be with me.
Brian Jones
April 10, 2012
RIP Salter
Dad
April 9, 2012
We miss you very much, James. Please keep watch over your sisters and keep them safe. I will always love you. Peace, my son.
Elaine Windorski (Salter)
April 8, 2012
I don't want to go to sleep tonight because I don't want tomorrow to come. They say it gets easier, well I think they are full of crap. There isn't a day that goes by that you aren't thought of. They say everything happens for a reason. I haven't quite figured that one out yet. I know you are watching over us and I thank god we have someone like you on our side. 5 years seems like it was yesterday. The memory of that horrible day still haunts me. They make me feel like I'm looking in on someone else's life because there is no way this could happen to us. We miss you so much. My heart aches with every song that makes me think of you, every memory that you aren't here to share. It's still sooo hard to believe that you aren't here. Well til next time, I love you so much and miss you.
Elaine
February 8, 2012
Happy birthday little brother. My heart has been aching all day because another year goes by that I didn't get to celebrate your birthday with you. I wonder all the time what you would be doing now. Would you be married with kids (as bratty as we were)? The world is missing a very special person since you left us. We miss you so much. I love you
Dad
February 8, 2012
Happy Birthday, James! We know you are smiling. We are too. Thank you for watching over us. We love you and miss you. We will be celebrating later and thinking of you and your wonderful smile and loving ways. Peace, my son. Happy Birthday!
"Here is the test to find whether your mission on Earth is finished: if you're alive, it isn't."
Richard Bach
Elaine
April 9, 2011
What else is there to say other than we love you more than anything and miss you so much every single day.
Robb Peterson
April 9, 2011
Four years ago tonight we lost you. Everyday you are thought of in some way. You look over us in more ways than one. When we got the call mom's world fell apart. She misses you more than anyone. You were her hero. Someday we'll see each other again. Until then, keep an eye on all of your family. We love you son.
Rich Salter
April 9, 2011
We lost you four years ago today, James. We miss you every single day. We love you and I hope you are watching from above. Keep a special eye on your sisters. They need their brother's love and protecton. Peace, my son.
Elaine Windorski
February 9, 2011
Well, little brother, I sent a message yesterday but it didn't post. I just wanna wish you a very happy birthday. We all miss you very much. I can't believe another year has come and gone without you here. You would have been 28, an old man :). I love you and miss you more than you will ever know.
Elaine Windorski
February 8, 2011
My Beloved Brother
From day one all we did was fight,
now all I do is fight back my tears.
I wanted to do everything you did,
because I wanted to be just like you.
Now I sit here wondering what to do,
because there's no one to replace you.
I never did tell you all the things I felt,
like how much I really did love you.
I wish we could go back and start over again.
I don't want to be alone. I need my brother,
I need my best friend.
When you think of me
while you’re up in heaven,
Think of how much you meant to me.
It’s sad that you left
without saying goodbye,
But just remember we all love you
as you began to fly.
You did so much for me,
as I didn't do much for you.
I hope you will forgive me,
for all the things I didn't do
You were my brother
and my best friend.
I will always love you
no matter how long it’s been,
since your life came to an end
This is my birthday present to you. We all love you and miss you so much. Happy 28th birthday little brother.
Rich Salter
February 8, 2011
We will remember it is your 28th birthday today, James. We miss you so much and wish you were here so we could give you a big hug and kiss. You know you are always loved and never forgotten. We feel you smiling down on us, son. We love you so much.
Jennie Peterson
November 17, 2010
Thinking about you! Miss you! xoxoxox
Jennie Peterson
November 17, 2010
Thinking about you...Miss you!!! xoxox
Jessica Salter
November 13, 2010
I love you so much James. I'm reminded of you all of the time and I can't get enough. You'll always be in our hearts. God I miss you big brother. I know dad thinks about you all the time. I missed you so much when we were all in the mountains celebrating birthdays. I wanted you there so bad, but I know you had a toast with us. Keep watching out for everyone. The oak tree we planted (that Buddy just loves to water) reminds me of when we lived in Belgium. Scrawny but still strong. I still remember hugging you for the first time. I came down stairs to see my big brother's Salter chin and big ol' grin. I remember wrapping my arms all the way around you and thinking, wow I can fit my arms all the way around haha. The Salters will continue to share our memories and laugh and cry. I know you see and hear everything. Tons of love from your baby sister.
Elaine
February 16, 2010
Hey little brother. I know it's a little late but wanted to wish you a happy birthday. You know mom and I celebrated, just like we will every year. I hope you liked our toast. I miss you very much. We all do. I wish things could be different but I guess they are what they are. I'm living life, just trying to get through it. Love you and see you again someday.
Rich Salter
February 8, 2010
You would have been 27 today, son. You were on all of our minds and in our hearts all day. You know we love and miss you so much.
Rich Salter
April 9, 2009
James,
It has been two years now since we lost you. We miss you terribly. The trial is finally over. We, as humans, have done what we are supposed to do when the worst happens in our lives. It does not change much, but at least we do not have the uncertainty hanging over our heads any longer. It gives us a chance to try to move forward a little bit. Before the trial it was like being stuck in a place where all we knew was constant pain. The hope was that with an end to the legal process there would be some sort of relief from the pain. I think it lets us concentrate on the main source of pain which is the loss of having you with us. We can now focus on putting our lives back together, or at least a little bit at a time.
The oak tree we planted last year in your memory is starting to show signs of its potential. We look at it every day and think of how you were also a young life with a hopeful future. How we were going to watch you become a solid, strong person that would bring good things for others. Now we watch that little tree, envisioning what it will look like when it reaches maturity and is a solid oak that provides shade from the hot sun on a hot summer day. Or gives some birds a place of shelter to start their own little family. Or how it will shed some acorns for hungry deer and squirrels that are searching for food in the fall.
It’s hard to explain how life is for us now that you are gone. We struggle to find peace in a world that is very complicated. There are a lot of things going on in our world that we cannot control or understand. But one thing that never changes is how much love is felt towards our family members. The loved ones that are still here struggling through the pain and uncertainty. The family that has gone on before us to a place where there is nothing but beauty and love are always part of us…who we were, who we are, and who we will be. You will always be a part of us. We love and miss you, son.
Rich Salter
March 14, 2009
We heard your voice this week James. Loud and clear. We have done our best to get you the respect you deserve. Our thoughts of you will no longer be clouded with the impeding pain of the trial. Just the good old times from here on out, James. We will always love and miss you, son. Rest in peace, my angel.
Jessica Salter
February 8, 2009
Happy Birthday!
You never missed a single birthday, or christmas. We miss you so much. March will be difficult for all of us, but you deserve to be respected. Oh goodness, holding my tongue is not going to be pleasant. Until i see you.
I love you big brother.
Rich Salter
February 8, 2009
You would have been a 26 year old man today, James. I am sure good things would have been in store for you. You are missed by all of us. We love you, son.
Elaine Wold
January 13, 2009
One down, three to go. Love you little Brother.
Elaine Wold
December 25, 2008
Merry Christmas Little Brother-
Another Christmas without you, it just wasn't the same. The kids had fun which makes it a little easier but we all miss you so much. There was never a year that we didn't at least talk on the phone on Christmas. When you came home, those were definitely the best. I'm so glad we were able to spend that last Christmas together. We all have great memories of that time we spent together. We miss you so much. Love you and Merry Christmas
Elaine Wold
December 13, 2008
James-
Christmas is right around the corner. Another year that is going to be very hard to put on that smiling face and pretend that everything is ok, for the kids. They all miss you so much, we all do. I finally picked a wedding date. It's something I've been putting off because I don't want to face the happiest day of my life without you. Instead of it being my happiest day, it will probably be one of the saddest. You should be there. I know that you will be but it's still not the same. Nothing is the same since you've been gone. Music isn't the same, life just isn't the same. Someday soon I will visit the place that you were so violently taken from us. It's going to be hard but I need to see it. I miss you so much, it's hard to go on but I know I have to and do right by my kids for you, so they never ever forget how much their uncle James loved them and that you are watching over all of us every day. Love you little brother.
David Anderson
September 20, 2008
Salt Dog,
Not a single day goes by that I don't think about you and the things that you, Ryan and I should be doing right now. I wish we could be sharing all of our experiences together, but I know that you're watching over us and making sure that we keep ourselves in line. :) I miss you buddy, but I know that I'll see you soon...everytime I pray I know that you're there with me...I love you kid, I can't wait until we can meet again. :)
Elaine Wold
September 19, 2008
Hey Little Brother-
Your nieces just turned 1 and 2 last week. I wish you could be here to enjoy them with us. I wish Jayme, who I named after you, could meet her uncle James. I really believe that you saved her life. Jackson and Haylee talk about you all the time. They miss you very much. We all do. I wish the pain would go away but if the pain goes away does that mean that we are forgetting. I don't have to think about that though because I can't imagine the pain will ever go away. There isn't a day that goes by that I don't think about you. Mom and I talk about you every morning. I hope you are proud of the things we are doing. I'm going to school to get my bachelor's degree, I took two foreign exchange students(it's very fun) and I'm trying to help those that are in need. There isn't a song that I hear that doesn't remind me of you in some way or another. I'm terrified of dying, I always have been but it's a little less scary knowing that I will be with you again someday. I miss you so much. I see your friends and I can't help but want to cry because I remember all the fun you had with them. My birthday is Tuesday and just like I did last year I will read the last birthday card you sent me and wait for the phone to ring thinking that it's you calling to wish me a Happy Birthday. I know it's crazy but you never missed a year, it's a little hard to get used to. I miss you little brother everyday with every heart beat. Justice will prevail soon.
Jessica Salter
June 18, 2008
Big brother,
Life has changed so much, but I still feel your presence. Love you James.
Rich Salter
April 9, 2008
James,
It has been a year now since we lost you, but it seems like a day/hour/minute/second. The pain is still as strong, my soul is just a little number. I could not speak at your memorial a year ago. It was not that I was not extremely proud of you and your many accomplishments. I could not find the words to explain how proud I was to be your father. I could not get past the pain to verbalize how much I love you and how bad I will feel for the rest of my life because I won’t be able to help you through life’s trails to become the great man you were destined to become. I felt totally responsible for your death because I failed to accomplish my main mission which is to ensure the safety, health, and happiness of my family. I still have not come to terms with these deep feelings of guilt, pain, sadness, loss, anger and remorse. What does make it a little easier is remembering all of the good times we had together. So here goes a shot at trying to memorialize you, my son, James Michael Salter.
We talk about you all of the time. We remember happy moments that make us smile for a minute. Your smile. The way you could eat like a horse. The way you always wanted to please others. Did I mention how you liked to eat? Disneyland when you were a small boy at Grandma and Grandpa Terhune’s house. The look you gave me when that visit had to end. One of the happiest events in my life was when you came to live with us in Belgium. I had always been afraid to hope that day would come. It was like you had always lived with us. Watching you play baseball, basketball, and tennis were what we did as a family. You always gave 100%. You would motivate your teammates through your obvious enthusiasm for the game. Helping you get ready for the prom. You strutted around like a peacock, but did not forget to include your younger sisters in the moment. The grin you had while holding your beautiful date is memorable. When you graduated high school I wept openly. Not from relief, but from pride and the knowledge that good things were going to come for you and your future. Just like the 100% you gave at sports, you did not hold anything back when celebrating that night in Belgium. Flying back to the states the next morning was probably the longest day of your life. Watching you graduate from Basic Training at Ft. Benning with your grandfather was something I will never forget. The dinner at Hooters afterwards and the ensuing road trip is something me and my dad always mention when we see each other. Your visit in Okinawa was very special for me. We got to spend time together snorkeling and exploring the island. You sleeping on the couch with Buddy in the crook of your arm. Worrying about you deploying to Iraq, and relieved when you ETS’d from the Army to start your college experience. Coming to Myrtle Beach to live with us while you attended CCU and worked at Costco. When I see your friends, classmates and coworkers, they let me know how much you are missed by them. You touched many lives while you were here, and you made a difference.
These words are a pitiful attempt by me to share some of the many great moments you brought to my life. I had to try, though, and I hope those that knew you may be reminded of your love and how you touched them and made them special. I hope and pray to see you again in a place where it does not hurt any longer. Where you can give me a hug and tell me it was not my fault. Where I can hug you and tell you how sorry I am. I hope and pray there is such a place where I can tell you I love you again, son.
jennifer salter
February 10, 2008
hey, brother. i guess i just wanted you to know that me and jess celebrated yesterday. i think about you every single day and it eats me alive that you don't get to be here now to see your little sisters as best friends finally. i only wish that you could know the person i am almost one year later. i wish you could be here to say things like you think i'm cool or that you're proud. i wish you would take me to the mall or play outside with me again or call me at four o'clock in the morning just because you had a bad feeling. i see you in just about everything from songs to looking in the mirror at the big head we both share. i don't believe in heaven and i know you don't either, but that's because the main thing we shared is we are both dreamers. both looking for our escape because this world isn't for our kind. i hope where ever you are, they have wi-fi and you can see this. i love you, james. i'll never be able to say goodbye, but i'll continue to think about you and live through you because you meant so much to me. i hope to see you soon.
love always,
jennifer
Rich Salter
February 8, 2008
You would be 25 today, James. They say it gets better with time. I hope so. You are dearly missed. I will always love you and keep you close in my heart. God bless you, son.
Jessica Salter
January 22, 2008
It feels like it was yesterday. Dad misses you so much, we all do. I think of you everyday, and I will until I see you again. I love you so much big brother.
Elaine Wold
November 24, 2007
Little brother you have not gone forgotten. With a personality like yours no one will ever forget you. God how I wish your new niece could meet you but me and mom know you were watching over us during her delivery. I miss you every single day. I wish you were here with us during these holidays. I thank god every day that we got to spend one last Christmas together. Justice will prevail, we just have to have faith. We all miss you so much. Thank you for everything that you have taught us and given us in your short life.
Jennie Peterson
June 25, 2007
James, i cannot stop thinking about you..and everything that has happened..im sitting here going thru this guest book, everyone who cares about you, misses you and loves you...im thinking about why this happened, i have no answers.. only God knows.. you were taken away at such a young age...life is not fair, i will never stop thinking about you..I LOVE YOU and i MISS YOU everyday......
SFC De Los Santos
April 27, 2007
MSG Salter and Family
No amount of words can express how deeply sorry I feel for your lost. I hope that you can find comfort in knowing that James was received in Heaven with open arms as so many times you received in your home.
Barbara Teston
April 26, 2007
MSG Salter, Words can not express how sorry I was to hear of your loss. Just know that we are all praying that you and your family will get through this trying time.
Johnson Nguyen
April 25, 2007
MSG Salter and Family,
I am deeply sorry to hear about your loss. May God help you in your time of need.
Marcus Dandridge
April 22, 2007
My Deepest Condolones. May his grace and mercy be with you during these tough times.
Charlie Garcia
April 19, 2007
Farewell my brother. It's been a long time since the days back in Kingsville man. We made some good memories up there, you, Travis, and I. You guys are the only reason I survived. Y'all were my friends when I had no one to turn to, and you were the older one that kept everything in check. For the last 2 years I've tried searchin for you online, just to see how you've been...it's heartbreaking that the only reason I found you was due to this tragedy. We shall meet again my brother...we shall meet again. My prayers go out to you and your family.
Steven Smith
April 19, 2007
I can't begin to appreciate the pain you are all feeling right now, but I can tell you, even though I did not really know your son, I have two, and I sincerely wish you all the closeness and love it will take to live with this. We all do the best we can at any given moment and often feel we are in charge, there is so much more at play in our lives. Your son is finding that out right now.
If I can do anything, call me.
Angela Whatley
April 19, 2007
Rich and Family,
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your son. Words cannot express the hurt in my heart that I am feeling. As parents, we never imagine that we will loose our children first. Rich, I did not get the pleasure of meeting your son, but I can tell that he was a wonderful young man. You spoke about him at work as you did about all of your children in a proud way. May you find peace and strength. Just know that your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Keri, Chris, Alexia, and Zachary Reams
April 19, 2007
We are completely stunned to hear the news. You lose touch and then begin to regret the time that has gone by and wasted. I can never understand why we lose thos we care so much about and who have so much to offer that is good. My family extends our deepest heartfelt sympathy to the Salter family.
Elaine Wold
April 18, 2007
Little Brother- I miss you so much I can hardly stand it. There are so many people that miss you. I know that you are in a better place now, free from stress and fear. This still doesn't make any sense but it will soon, I have faith. You are the best brother that anyone could ever ask for. Jackson and Haylee keep reminding me of things that you did with them when you were here for Christmas. It's makes me sad to hear it, but it also makes me very happy to know that they have good memories to remember you. We watched a slide show that Jessica did and it was wonderful. Now anytime I want to see you, all I have to do is put in a disk. It really sucks that I can't call you but I know that you can hear me when I talk to you. We all miss you very much. Please watch over everyone that loves you. We will always be thinking about you, every minute of every day of our lives. Love you little brother.
Tjada Brown
April 17, 2007
As a parent we are surprise to hear the kind things that are said about our children ,But don't be it just shows the hard work did not all go to waste .May God keep you and your family .
Buck Walker
April 17, 2007
Rich,
My heart goes out to you. My family will be praying for Our Lord to comfort you and your family and give you His peace.
Much love,
Joy Cecil
April 17, 2007
My prayers reach out to the family and friends of James. You have reached eternal happiness and may you walk in that light forever. Say hello to my brother for me and continue to protect Rae, even from up above. Rest peacefully
Sherman and Sandra Tate
April 16, 2007
Hello my friend. We were very grieved to hear of your sadness. The bible says in Ecc 3:1-4 To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven: A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant, and a time to pluck up that which is planted; A time to kill, and a time to heal; a time to break down, and a time to build up; A time to weep, and a time to laugh; a time to mourn, and a time to dance. Yes, it is a time of sorrow, but also a time of happiness to reflect back on all of the good times that you both shared together. Your son is not gone, he is only sleep for now, and one day he will rise to join you in the sky where you both shall live for an eternally. There will be no more sorrow or tears to shed, it will be rejoicing for ever more. Our prayers are continually with you. Your brother/sister in Christ. The Tate Family
LYNDIA & MARTY ARBASETTI
April 16, 2007
TO THE SALTER FAMILY
PLEASE ACCEPT OUR DEEPEST SYMPATHY AND SORROW FOR YOUR LOSS. LYNDIA AND I HAVE YOU IN OUR HEARTS AND PRAYERS.
ryan thomas
April 16, 2007
Salty, I'm really saddened by the news of your son's passing. May God grant you and your family comfort and peace in this hour of sorrow. My family will remember you all in our prayers.
Please let me know if there is anything that I can do. God bless...
Ryan Thomas (WAAF, Germany)
Frank & Terry Ramlochan
April 15, 2007
You will be missed.We were really glad to have met you. May you walk with angels in eternity
pat shupe
April 15, 2007
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Matthew Nilson
April 14, 2007
Rich,
It's been along time since Oki, but I know how much your son meant to you. My deepest sympathies go out to you and your family during this time of sorrow. My prayers are with you.
Sincerely,
Travis Galloway
April 14, 2007
I am gonna miss you brother! You are my best freind. We had the best times when we were with eachother. I will never forget all the fun we had. I learned so much from you and looked up to you James. You will always be in my heart. I love you man.
Kelly Gilbert
April 13, 2007
To James' family and Rachel,
Though James is gone, he will live on in your hearts and minds forever. Never forget and he will never truly leave you.
Jack Stumme
April 13, 2007
Dear Salters, Cindy and I are very sorry to hear about the loss of your son James. May God sustain you with His strength, peace, and hope that comes through His Son, Jesus. Our hearts and prayers are with you.
John 11:25
Molly Wade
April 13, 2007
Don't mourn his death...celebrate his life! James you will be greatly missed! My deepest sympathy to the family! My prays are with you all. Just remember, he didn't die on April 9, he was reborn into a life of peace, love and happiness!He's at peace with the Lord now! In true Ralphie fashion..." Thas was up!"
Julia and Jessica Nytes
April 13, 2007
James was a positive person with energy and enthusiasm for life. He was also a special person with a good soul. We wish we could have spent more time with him while he was here. James, his family, and his friends are in our thoughts and prayers.
Judy M
April 13, 2007
To the Salter Family:
When I heard James was gone, I was so sadden. James was a very nice young man with a good heart and a great smile. You have my deepest sympathy. I will miss James and his hugs.
LUCINDA SMITH
April 13, 2007
I'M VERY SORRY ABOUT YOUR LOSS, I REALLY DON'T KNOW WHAT TO SAY. BUT I KNOW ONE THING HE'S IN A BETTER PLACE NOW.HE'S GONE HOME TO BE WITH THE LORD.I KNOW IT'S HARD TO UNDERSTAND.I WILL KEEP YOU AND YOUR FAMILY IN MY PRAYS AND MY GOD HELP YOU THROUGH AT THIS VERY MOMENT.GOD LOVES YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.GOD LOVES HIS ANGELS TO.AMEN TAKE CARE WILL BE PRAYING FOR YOU......
David Thomas
April 13, 2007
I am sorry I didn't get a chance to know him personally. I got to see him through my wife's eyes and through eyes of his family members that love him. He touched many lives and from the other posts I have read here from around the our great country. He was the embodiment of what every American should strive to be which is not just a person to served his country but he made his life a part of this great country. I see that he has left a part of that love in everyone he has ever met. He radiated love, compassion, and understanding of other people because I see it in those he met and knew. He now lives on in all of you who were lucky to have ever got to meet and know a great person such as him.
Robin Thomas
April 13, 2007
Our deepest sympathies to your family. James was a wonderful person. I remember whenever he came back to Costco, he could never greet me with a hand shake. He always had to give me a hug. That is just the type of person he was.
Rick Wainright
April 12, 2007
Officer Salter and family:
The service today magnified what I already knew about James. He affected so many lives in a positive way. It was heartwarming seeing coworkers, classmates, military comrades, friends, and family gathered to say goodbye. It was a wonderful tribute. You raised a fine young man and seeing you accept his flag with such pride caused my heart to soar. God bless your family and thank you for your and James' service to our country. The world is a better place for him having been in it. We will miss him dearly.
SSG Tyler Todd
April 12, 2007
I will always remember SPC Salter because I had to always tell him " put that basketball away and get back to work". On behalf of the full time staff and the members oc Co C 111th SIG BN in Myrtle Beach we send our sympathy. He will be truly missed. But I think the girls are gonna miss him more. God bless.....SSG's Todd
Ken and Nora Messick
April 12, 2007
Please accept our deepest sympathies. Our thoughts are prayers are with you.
B BTRY 178th FA
Jessie Harbeck (Aunt Charlottes grandaughter)
April 12, 2007
James,
We have got all of my grade and 1-6 grade at St. Thomas praying for you and the family. Although I didnt know you as well as I shouldv'e I love you to death and I regret not ever coming to visit you and Richie. I love you now and forever. You will be in our prayers. And the school's prayers...We all are praying that you were a stong Christian with the Lord and that you loved him. Well, I know that you were a great soldier and a great kid...thank you for everything. I hope to see you in heaven my dear cousin. I love you. I agree with my mom "Rest in Peace in the arms of the Lord."
Michele Salter
April 12, 2007
James,
I am comforted by the knowledge that Mom - your Grandmother - was there to meet you as you walk your new path. Give peace to your father, mothers and sisters. I love you and I will talk with you tonight - and every night.
Love, Aunt Michele
Debbie Harbeck (Aunt Charlotte's daughter)
April 12, 2007
James, you will always be my "Sweet Baby James". That is what I called you when you were living with us in Phoenix. I remember how excited you were when we took you to your first Professional Football game. You will be missed by many and forever loved by all. Rest in Peace in the arms of our Lord. I love you
Laura Vaden
April 12, 2007
we all miss you more than you can imagine. your all i think about every second of every day. i'll never forget you, you'll always be in my heart. RIP, i know your watching over us from heaven.
Brittany S
April 12, 2007
James you will always be missed and remembered by many. My prayers go out to you and your family. R.I.P.
ROBIN DOSS
April 12, 2007
I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. MY SON WAS IN THE GUARDS AT FORT HOOD AS WELL. I WILL KEEP YOU IN MY PRAYERS
Mindi Weekley
April 12, 2007
Susan, Rich, and family,
I am so sorry you all are having to go through this. Many love and prayers to you all.
Nickie Grant
April 12, 2007
James...you truely touched all of our lives which will never be the same now with out you. All the good times we shared will never be forgotten. Your bright smile, kind words, and a big hugs will be missed the most. You are an angel above us now, watch over us, and know that you will always be in our hearts. We love you!
Lynn Kennedy
April 12, 2007
I am so very sorry to hear of the loss of your beloved son James. My deepest condolence to you and your family. May God help you find the strength to get through the coming days. God Bless
allen tripp
April 12, 2007
We send our deepest heart felt sympathy.May god bless you and help the family heal!Our soldier is gone but not forgotten!! From all in the 151st Signal Bn. 228Bde.
Linda Bowser
April 12, 2007
So sad to read this.
May God be with you and your family!
Emily Afuola
April 12, 2007
To the Salter Family: I am so very sorry to hear the loss of your son, please except my deepest sympathies. I am a Blue Star Mother from NJ & do understand how horrific this is for you & your family. May the peace of our Lord be with you all as you walk down this path.
Emily Afuola
Blue Star Mothers of America - NJ
Uncle Mike and Aunt Charlotte Salter
April 12, 2007
You will never know the joy you brought to our lives. Our memories will live on forever. Putting sand in your eyes at bedtime, tickling your back, the loving good night kisses and hugs, the fishing trips in the motorhome, and the summers in Phoenix.
One of your great accomplishments in your short life that has touch our hearts is that you grew up with "unconditional love" for everyone.
You will always have a place in our hearts.
Our thoughts and prayers are with your entire family and friends.
Jessica Jones(Lyke)
April 12, 2007
It breaks my heart to read this. I remember when you first moved to Shape.What a great guy to have been taken from us. You will be missed by everyone. Many prayers for your family. God Bless
Judy Brown
April 12, 2007
We don't know each other, but as the mother of three sons, my heart breaks for you. Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
John Salter
April 12, 2007
Cousin Richard,
We are so saddened by this. Haven't seen you in over 25 years, and never got a chance to meet James. But family will always be family. Time and geography cannot weaken that bond. Please know all of you are in our hearts and thoughts.
Heather Warner
April 12, 2007
J- You helped me out during one of the hardest times in my life and I will always remember and love you for it.. You will be missed.. My visits back to the beach will have one less smiling face now. It is too bad so many people did not get to see how fabulous you truly are. Sleep Peacefully.
sam morriss
April 11, 2007
robb and ann;
were so sorry about what happened to james..he was not only a good friend of oure son jim,but oure entirely family..ill never forget the times i talked sports with james....may god bless you and youre family during these difficult
times...god bless you james....
Robert Salter
April 11, 2007
I was deeply saddened to hear of James's passing. I remember him as a baby, barely older than a newborn. I remember him as a fine, young man, pleasant and helpful at every turn. I only wish that I could have known him better. James, I love you and miss you. To his parents and siblings I express my deepest sympathies.
Thomas Hucks
April 11, 2007
I am so sorry to hear of your loss,
Just like my little brother that was murdered in Myrtle Beach,on May
21,2006.He was only 18,and was going to celebrate his 19th Birthday on June 27th.My brother is
in Heaven with your loved one,and I
bet they wouldn't come back,if they
could.I plan to meet my brother again in heaven,I'm ready to go,
whenever the Lord calls my name.
My condolences are with you,your
friends andfamily.
[email protected]
Peter, Dawn, Scott, Jack and Hunter Salter
April 11, 2007
Our family is praying for yours.
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