Aaron J Weaver

Aaron J Weaver obituary, Spooner, WI

Aaron J Weaver

Aaron Weaver Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Spooner Funeral Home on Sep. 28, 2024.

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Aaron James Weaver, born April 19, 1989, passed away at age 35 on September 25, 2024, in a tragic car accident due to thick fog near Clear Lake, WI.
Aaron was a loved and loyal son, brother, uncle, grandson and nephew. His ability to love everyone unconditionally was one of his many gifts. He loved his mother, sister, brother, niece and grandparents dearly and told them that every chance he got. Aaron was a self-taught guitarist before he graduated high school in Spooner and was referred to as a guitar wizard. He taught himself how to write and record lead guitar pieces that he tirelessly recorded in our home on our computer along with many songs for the band Seconcide and others. He wrote music from his heart and soul. He loved his family and friends more than anything. Aaron wanted everyone to be happy and that was his wish always. His inner light was so bright that he filled any room he was in, and his smile was infectious. The metal bands that he played in Seconcide, Legerdemain, Entropy, Outfront and the band members he played with meant the world to him. He was able to play for many people in many places. He was a huge influence on all of those he touched and will be greatly missed by all that knew him. He found joy in his job when he cooked for a local restaurant and also in his most recent job caring for others. Aaron was a big fan of video games, cats, metal music, making people laugh and his mother's cooking. Aaron was gentle, kind and larger than life. He will be missed tremendously by all that knew and loved him.
Aaron is survived by his mother and stepfather, Carrie (nee Weaver) and Bill Fulton; sister and brother-in-law, Victoria (nee Weaver) and Andy Schulz; brother, Avery Weaver; grandmother, Victoria Weaver; and nieces, Elizabeth and Ember.
He was preceded in death by his grandfathers, Gary Weaver and Clarence Melton.
A memorial service with a time of sharing will be held at the Spooner Funeral Home on Saturday, October 5, 2024, at 12:00 PM with 2 hours of visitation to follow.
In lieu of flowers memorials may be directed to the family to be used as a tribute to honor Aaron and sent to the Spooner Funeral Home at 306 Rusk St. Spooner, WI 54801 for delivery to the family.
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October 1, 2024

Charlie Trudelle posted to the memorial.

September 28, 2024

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Charlie Trudelle

October 1, 2024

When we were starting Legerdemain we were looking for local talent and Aaron came out to see if he´d be a good fit. I knew we´d click when I saw he had removed seats in his car to fit a half stack. He had been playing half the time I had and in some ways far beyond where I was. Where I was weak in my playing he was strong and vice versa. Then later we found out we were related through the Melton line, so that was hilarious.

We had so much fun writing guitar parts together. He was a natural writer and would laugh when we´d get super excited about riffs he´d just pull out of nowhere. At that time I don´t think he had any clue how great his parts were and just because they were easy for him didn´t equate to poor quality. He really didn´t seem happy until he was writing stuff that would break my fingers to play.

We played together for a few years together and we got pretty close. He was like a brother to me. Life happened, that era made it impossible to be in a band, things fell apart and we went our separate ways. I lost contact with him over the years and never had a chance to reconnect.

In those few short years it feels like we made a lifetime of memories. In that time, he was always there for me when I needed him. He had a unique sort of sense of humor and was always laughing at everything. I could never tell if he was laughing at something or because of something random that went through his head. Sometimes I would give him the, "What you laughing at look?" And he´d reply with the, "Nah you wouldn´t find it as funny as I do." Giggle and head shake.

We really had that connection where we could do a lot of communication by facial expression while we were playing or on stage. Most of the time he would be completely somewhere else in his head while the rest of us were struggling to keep up. He´d look bored but was just somewhere else while his fingers did their business. Writing with him was probably the most fun I´ve ever had playing music. He´ll always be my brother and I´ll always regret not making the time to reconnect and see what kind of guy he grew into. I loved him.

A lot of my digital files from those days ended up corrupted unfortunately but I did find a few. I hope these links work for anyone who wants to see them. They should be linking to files on a google drive. A couple songs and some poor quality video clips but he´s there. I don´t even remember most of which parts he played or I played but anyone who has heard him play can easily recognize his writing whether I´m playing it him and there´s no mistaking his clean parts.

To mom, Bill, and all the rest of the family and friends I am very sorry to hear about all this. He was a rare type of dude and a rare talent and he´ll always be remembered and loved.



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Christian Fredrickson

September 28, 2024

I´m thinking my first time meeting Aaron, or remembering him, was in a class we had together with Mr. Ubbehlode. Aaron would crack some oddball jokes at times that were funny, and I eventually started talking to Aaron about music. Aaron´s passion for guitar always left me with questions about "can you play x" with a sometimes affirmative answer and a sometimes "I don´t have a 12 string guitar you weirdo". I´ll miss Aaron, may he rest in peace.

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