Alan Meilinggaard

Alan Meilinggaard, 83, of Greenwich, Connecticut, passed away at home on December 3, 2025, after a courageous battle with cancer. A devoted husband, brother, uncle and friend, Alan will be remembered for his warm smile, gentle nature, and the effortless way he made everyone around him feel comfortable.

Born on June 24, 1942, in Greenwich, Alan spent most of his life surrounded by the familiar streets and neighbors of his beloved Byram community. He carried immense pride in his hometown and cherished its sense of closeness and connection. His grandfather was a builder and developer who made significant contributions in the area, including several buildings in Greenwich that still bear the Meilinggaard name. In fact, after a long and successful career in the banking stationery industry, Alan retired and recently returned to live in the family home that was built by his grandfather. He renewed his commitment to the neighborhood through active involvement in community organizations and by volunteering at New Lebanon Grammar School-the very school where he'd once been a student.

Alan's life was defined by the relationships he nurtured over the years. On March 17, 1985, he married the love of his life, Diane, with whom he shared four decades of devotion, laughter, and partnership. Friends and family often remarked on Alan's quiet joy, his humility, and his deep sense of care for those around him. He had the rare gift of making others feel genuinely seen and appreciated, whether through a kind word, a shared joke, or a reassuring smile.

An avid golfer, Alan could often be found on the course with friends, where his easygoing manner made every round memorable. He was also an enthusiastic supporter of the New York Yankees, a lifelong fandom he celebrated in whimsical ways-including naming his Cairn terrier "Scooter," after the beloved Yankees broadcaster, Phil Rizzuto.

Alan was preceded in death by his parents, Elmer and Katherine Meilinggaard; sisters, Dorothea Meilinggaard and Jane Meilinggaard Festo. Also deeply woven into the community, Elmer Meilinggaard was the Greenwich Tax Collector, up until his death in 1964, and Dorothea worked for the Town of Greenwich for 60 years, retiring as Assistant Town Clerk

He is survived by his wife, Diane, who will forever hold dear the countless memories they made together; and his nephew, David Fluegel and wife, Cheri. Plans for a celebration of life will be announced at a later date.

As Diane reflects, "Alan was the kindest man I ever knew." His life was one of quiet strength, steadfast love, and simple joy-a life that touched countless hearts and left an enduring mark on everyone fortunate enough to know him.