Mr. Alexander Lehner

Mr. Alexander Lehner obituary, Cranford, NJ

Mr. Alexander Lehner

Alexander Lehner Obituary

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Alexander Oscar Lehner beloved husband, brother, father, and grandfather has left his home on earth to be in peace in heaven. You may have known him as the State Department employee, who served our country in Iran and Sierra Leone as a foreign service officer. Or in his second career in communications for Schering Plough. For the great satisfaction he found in his volunteer work visiting our nation's heroes at the Vet Hospital and delivering meals to those in need. And, of course, the tireless labor of love for our church, First Presbyterian Church of Cranford. Or maybe you came to know him through one of his many interests and talents. Flyfishing. Hunting. Hiking. Walking and walking and walking. Cooking (if you ever tasted his steak in red wine reduction, you were lucky). Singing psalms in the church choir and belting show tunes around the house. Writing with wit and wisdom. Sampling good wine with cheese on his patio with neighbors. A man of intellect, class, always gracious and unassuming - he was devoted to God and his family. He listened more than he spoke as a person with patience and stillness. A month ago he spent a four-day family reunion in the Poconos, including chasing his kids and grandkids on a tree-top Zipline obstacle course. So how does his life story end. Simply. On his last day on this earth he went to the gym because exercising made him feel good and when he came home mentioned 3 people he connected with while there. This is what made him a great man, his ability to engage with life and his surroundings so fully each and every day of his existence. In lieu of flowers, you can honor him through donations in his name for the Capital Improvement Fund of the First Presbyterian Church, Cranford. The Funeral service on Thursday 11 am WILL BE LIVE STREAMED. The link will is https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC-1KnEPEZO0Hp7VgHfcaJZg

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December 27, 2022

Martin Quinn posted to the memorial.

August 30, 2022

Randy Williams posted to the memorial.

August 22, 2022

Deborah Le Vitin posted to the memorial.

Martin Quinn

December 27, 2022

He was a great friend to Fred and Terry. Such a kind person. So sorry to hear of his passing

Randy Williams

August 30, 2022

I truly miss my dear friend. He always had kind words and great stories to share whenever I saw him. I truly wish that I had taken him up on his invitations to go hunting and fishing. Truly a man of integrity. My thoughts and prayers are with the family. Peace and Blessings be with you...

Deborah Le Vitin

August 22, 2022

Chris and Family,
What an amazing life and legacy your beloved Father has left! This was such a heartfelt tribute for an exceptional man I never had the pleasure of meeting! My sincerest condolences to you and your family on the loss of of your father. My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this time of sadness and reflection! Sincerely, Deborah Le Vitin Monroe Township, NJ

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Bose Wright

August 17, 2022

What a beautiful obituary. I literally just ran into him last week. My condolences are with you all. So very happy to have been his neighbor. Many fond memories

Fred Fitzgerald

August 17, 2022

I will always remember Alex as the friendly welcoming one who would greet everyone entering through the church door. Participating in the many diverse activities and encouraging others to join as well. Always concerned for others while never voicing complaints. A kind , gentle, caring person; he will be greatly missed.

Fred Fitzgerald, Cranford, NJ

Debbie Kleiber

August 17, 2022

Farewell my Scrabble buddy. I have fond memories of our discussions, solving the world's problems, while battling it out for the final outcome of the game. You were a keen strategist. Hope you find a worthy opponent in Heaven. Debbie Kleiber, 46 Beech St

Gerri Stiner

August 17, 2022

How very sad for all. What a wonderful tribute to him and his many accomplishments, interests and impact on others. I am sorry I never had the privilege of knowing him. Reading this certainly shows how beautifully he lived his life and how many he touched with his caring.

Stephen Lapp

August 16, 2022

Chris & Family,

My condolences to you and your family on loss of of your father. My thoughts are prayers are with you all during this difficult time. God bless!

Stephen Lapp (DCMA Co-Worker to Chris Lehner)

Todd Masternak

August 16, 2022

I am very sorry for the loss of such an impactful man at a time when the world could use a few more like him. God Bless and Rest Peacefully!

Jane Lisa

August 16, 2022

Chris & Family,
We are so heartbroken for your loss. We never met Alexander but your description of him makes us all the more sad for this incredible loss. Please accept are most heartfelt condolences and know that we are praying for courage, peach and comfort for each of your as you mourn his loss.
Love,
Jane & Gary Lisa (Jane - Co-Worker to Chris Lehner)

A close and dear friend whom I will truly miss. A colleague in college and debate team partner, he enjoyed discussing world affairs, the humanities, good food and above all his love and pride for Lydia and his family. From one of our discussions on John D

John Kuchta

August 16, 2022

A close and dear friend whom I will truly miss. A colleague in college and debate team partner, he enjoyed discussing world affairs, the humanities, good food and above all his love and pride for Lydia and his family. From one of our discussions on John Donne's sermon:
".... never send to know for whom the bell tolls; It tolls for thee."

Joyce Delpppolo

August 15, 2022

Alex lived a life and had a family that some only dream of: how blessed you all are The Delpopolo Family sends our loving regards. We are honored to be part of your lives.

Gary and Lynn Stahl

August 15, 2022

A life well-lived. Alex was always helping others in a caring and meaningful manner. He loved his family, church, friends, and country. God Bless!

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