Alfonso "Al" Sollecito

Alfonso "Al" Sollecito obituary, Holmdel, NJ

Alfonso "Al" Sollecito

Alfonso Sollecito Obituary

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Alfonso "Al" Sollecito was born on July 26, 1934, in Brooklyn, New York. He was predeceased by his parents, Mary and Vincent, and his six siblings. He is survived by his beloved wife of 66 years, Millie (nee Livoti); his 4 children, Mary Lynn (Luke), Lucia (Keith), Vincent, and Madelyn (Paul); 11 grandchildren, John (Sage), Al (Samantha), Philip (Megan), David, Kerry (Robert), Will, Michael, Alex, Nicholas, Alfonso James "AJ", and Matthew; and 6 great grandchildren.

Mentored by his father, Al became a master cabinetmaker. Using his craft, he started a custom home building company that still exists today. Al had a passion for sports as he enjoyed playing golf and rooting for his beloved New York Yankees. Ultimately, nothing was more important to him in life than his family to whom he will always be remembered as their true patriarch.

Visitation will be Friday, January 30, 2026, from 4 to 8 pm at the Holmdel Funeral Home, 26 S. Holmdel Road, Holmdel, New Jersey.

Please join the family in a Celebration of Al's Life on February 28, 2026, at 12 noon at Eagle Oaks Country Club, 20 Shore Oaks Drive, Farmingdale, New Jersey.

In lieu of flowers the family asks with gratitude contributions be made to the Tunnel to Towers Foundation at www.t2t.org.
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26 S Holmdel Road, Holmdel, NJ 07733

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