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Alvin Bergsohn Obituary
Every night, it seems, came the clarion call of Michele Bergsohn. It went like this: "Alvin! Make it lower! I'm trying to talk on the phone!"
For in her living room, her 48-year-old husband -- adult credentials: equity trader at Cantor Fitzgerald -- would be cranking up his electric guitar, careering through songs by the Allman Brothers, Elvis Costello or Hot Tuna, while watching sports on TV. Such a multitasker! When the game was over, he would traipse off to the den and catalog his Very Serious comic book collection.
Mr. Bergsohn's mordant view of life -- no expectations, no disappointments -- liberated him to seize each day and squeeze the most fun from it. He worked hard, leaving their home in Baldwin Harbor, on Long Island, before 6:30 a.m., but he returned for family dinner every night. He was a nonpartisan flirt, a rock concert fan, a softball coach for his two boys, Sam, 14, and Harris, 12. That last weekend, he perched on first base, dancing and singing wildly in between shouting out coaching orders.
For someone with no expectations, joy, when it comes, tastes of delighted surprise. At Sam's bar mitzvah, Mr. Bergsohn made a speech that did go on — and on. Forgive him: his face shone with astonishment and pride, love and fulfillment.
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Rick Gordon
September 12, 2024
Alvin, you will remain in our hearts forever!
Janice Magid- Davidson
September 11, 2023
On the anniversary of his death- nice memories of him and his parents. I was married for a brief time to his brother Irv- also deceased.
Joe Fox
September 10, 2023
My name is Joe Fox and I have the solemn honor of reading Alvin's name tomorrow, along with my nephew, Michael Roberts. I would love to speak with a family member so I can learn more about her. I hope someone who sees this can messages me. I will be reading his name at about 9:30 AM. Thank you and God bless them both and all of our loved ones. My number is 917-417-1583
tom walsh
September 11, 2021
Alvin and I worked together before my retirement and he was smart, funny and responsible always.
After 20 years I miss not being able to see or talk with him. God bless him .
Tom Walsh
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Karen Ajamian
September 5, 2021
I did not know Alvin. But I know the family he left behind. They continue to be a living tribute and legacy to his life as a devoted husband and father. Bless him and them, always
Cindy Roe
September 1, 2021
Remembering Alvin on the 20th anniversary of 9/11....
The Kindred Family
November 7, 2018
We send our deep sincere condolences to your family for your loss. May God give the needed help and support as you continue to cope with such a sad loss. Alvin will be sadly missed.
Del Newberry
September 22, 2017
Praying today for Alvin's friends and family. We will never forget that horrible day. Much love from Texas,
August 31, 2016
never out of my mind--your with me every day
Dad
Bill Timken
March 8, 2016
God Bless You Alvin. I have never forgotten you, and I never will.
Barbara Boam
February 6, 2013
I walked a mile for you (mile #174) on 2/6/13 as a dedication to your life
January 16, 2012
To The Family,
9/11 is a day that we would like to forget but in still remains in our minds and hearts. I did not know the deceased but I would like to offer my deepest sympathy to you in the death of Alvin Bergsohn. When death strikes unexpectantly it hurts even more so. Mr. Bergsohn remains in God's memory and will not be forgotten when righteous dead ones are brought back to life with perfect health and not having to worry about the senseless acts of terrorism. Search for God and His strength for He is the only One who brings comfort for a lifetime and gives us the chance of living forever.
Sincerely,
Mr. Terry of NC
mary zaslansky
October 19, 2011
I worked with Alvin at Bache back in the late 70's. A bunch of us would go to lunch and have world class pizza or lasagna or calzones with soda and he would always joke hey do you know that when the soda mixes with the cheese it turns to cement in your stomach? I have a lot of indelible memories of Alvin from those days. Such a loss of a great fellow. Much love , Mary Z
william selby
September 18, 2011
The name of your loved one is featured in my video (A Visit to the WTC MEMORIAL). I thought you might want to take a look. It's a peaceful tribute to those who lost their lives that day. Thank you and God Bless...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UKA1VZsU7Jw
Jimmy Reilly
September 11, 2011
Rest well, Alvin. I'll always remember the fun times with you, Tommy King, Andrea Costa and Eileen (forgot her last name!!!)
Malka Nelson
September 11, 2011
Alvin, you were such a nice guy and great friends with both of my brothers. you are truly missed by all.
Malka (Schipper)
Nancy Kisseloff
September 11, 2011
Thinking of you and your family not just today but always. The kisseloffs
Leslie Singer
September 11, 2011
My memories of Alvin are too numerous to mention here, but growing up in the same building, and then in the same 2 family house in Staten Island made us feel like family. Alvin was the closest thing to a brother I ever had, by default, His parents were like my parents, and his sister - my sister.
So I honor his memory and wish you all happy memories of him
Irwin Hahn
September 10, 2011
Thinking about you today, Alvin, my kindergarten buddy.
Gina Giordano
September 11, 2010
Thinking of Alvin today. We had a lot of laughs at work, on the NYSE and when he went up to the desk at Canter.My condolences to his family.
Kristal L. Rosebrook
January 22, 2010
God Bless
Frank Caruso
September 22, 2009
I worked with Alvin many years ago on the floor of the NYSE. He was a top notch guy. My condolences to his family.
stacy ticsay
September 11, 2009
thinking of alvin today & missing him much
Todd Ellenberg
June 3, 2008
I remember hearing about Alvin from Michelle many years ago when we were friends at SUNY-Binghamton and in the years thereafter.
My heartfelt condolences to Michelle, the family, and all the others he touched.
Doug Abraham
March 29, 2008
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well-lived.
james barnes
September 15, 2007
I graduated Bowne HS in 1972 with you Michelle-- Zapken back then--we were in a few classes together. I never knew Alvin or saw you after June 72 at Colden Aud. graduation (unless you were at the 20th reunion--I was)but your loss is one to all us Bownies. It was Cheryl F. who first told me a few years ago.
Rick Gordon
May 16, 2007
Alvin,
When we saw each other for the first time in 30 years at the 1998 ENY reunion, it was like we never missed a beat. Although we didn't keep in contact my memories of you will always be of a good soul that deserved a much better fate in life. My thoughts and prayers will remain forever with you and your family. Rest in peace, my friend.
Kristine
October 17, 2006
As I stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
PATRICE BERGSOHN
September 4, 2006
ALVIN WAS A GREAT PERSON AND HAD A LOVING HEART. ALOTHOUGH I BARELY KNEW HIM AS AN UNCLE HE IS WITH ME EVERY DAY. I LOVE HIM GREATLY AND HIS FAMILY WITH ALL MY HEART.
LOVE ALWAYS,
PATRICE BERGSOHN
P Tabbernor
August 23, 2006
In memory....
One last time..
John Henry Sears
March 2, 2005
The heart of the 'Bomber's' will alway's be missed... "My Friend"
'Big Al'... John Spider
Marta del C. de la Puente
September 11, 2002
"No expectations, no disappointments" You lived in the NOW. I'm sure you taught others the same idea. You just engraved it in my soul. My heart goes out to Michele, Sam & Harris. Nothing I can say would erase their pain. However, as years go by, I'm sure your philosophy would lessen the pain and, there WILL come a day when you will be able to smile after someone said:" Remember when he...?" God bless all four of you.
Marta
Ginny Dixon
May 3, 2002
To the Bergsohn Family,
I have enclosed a picture of the Hollywood Florida Memorial Wall. I added your son's name yesterday. I am deeply honored to have done so and hope that you find some sort of peace from such a senseless act robbing us of so many far too soon. May God Gless you and your family.
Ginny Dixon
Denis, Sara & Max Sackett
March 18, 2002
Can we ever again hear a crack of the bat, hear the words "Play Ball", listen to a Hot Tuna or Dead song, or see a father admiring his children, without thinking of Alvin. Our lives were fuller because we knew Alvin, and now sadder because he is gone, but never, ever will he be forgotten.
LYNNE ITZKOWITZ-WESHNER
March 17, 2002
DEAR ALVIN,
I GREW UP KNOWING YOU AS IRA'S LITTLE SISTER....BUT I CAN REMEMBER YOU JUST LIKE YESTERDAY, AS THE SWEETEST BOY IN EAST NEW YORK! MY HEART GOES OUT TO YOUR WIFE AND KIDS, YOUR MOM AND DAD AND RENEE.
MAY GOD REST YOUR SOUL!!
Lisa Scott-Porazzo
March 11, 2002
I would like to say how sorry i am to his friends and family. I worked with Alvin when he worked for Dean Witter. When i was pregnant he was very good to me. He was always there to help me. I was on bed rest alot so when i came back he would always come over and make sure i and the baby were ok. And always ask if i needed anything. When i found out that my baby was sick inside of me he said nice things to me to make me feel better. As i was leaving Dean Witter, Morgan Stanely took over i kept in touch with my boss and she told me where everyone went. When all this happened my boss, told me where Alivn had moved to. Again my thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends. God Bless.
Judi Elkin - Davis
February 13, 2002
I too grew up in ENY. I will never forget the skinny kid with the mop of curls & glasses. I never met the family but my heart goes out to all of you. My son has been in The Marine Corp. 7 yrs now. He re-upped the week of Sept. 11th. He was 10 yrs. old when we moved, but he's a New Yorker at heart. Please take solace in the fact that my stepson is also in The Marine Corp. & going Special Forces on Feb 22, 2002.
Marty Stark
February 8, 2002
In my mind, Alvin will always remain that smiling, friendly, young child I knew growing up in the projects on Wortman Ave in Brooklyn, in the 1950's & 60's.
We all lived in the same tall apartment building, hundreds of us kids, and hung out in the same playground downstairs which we called the Circle. Although he was a few years younger than me, I can still remember him well. The thing that struck me about him, even back then, was his gentleness. Alot of the kids had an edge to them and could be very nasty, but not Alvin. He was one of the few kids who was liked by everyone. He was just a nice person, period.
Unfortunately, I never got to know him as an adult, but what a fine adult he turned out to be. His death comes as both a shock and a tragedy.
Ultimately, a person's life is measured not by its length, but by its richness. We can all rejoice in the richness of Alvin's life---a life well lived.
My condolences to his wife, children, sister Renee, and his parents. I hope this message brings you some measure of comfort.
Teresa Jahn
January 8, 2002
We are very sorry for your loss of Alvin. May his zest for life and his love live on in you. Our hearts cry with you.
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
Howard Weiner
December 11, 2001
I was his next door neighbor long ago in a legendary place shrouded in mist called the Linden Projects of ENY. I remember him well, his shining face, that special freedom we all felt throwing a softball in the George Gerswhin JHS playgrond, laughing, laughing until there was no end to our joy. Has it been three months already, or three seconds, or a hundred years, there is no limit to this kind of pain.
My heart goes out to his family, his Mom and Dad, Renee,...there are no words...only the empty ache in our hearts.
May Alvin's memory be for a blessing.
IRENE
December 7, 2001
GOD BLESS ALVIN BERGSOHN AND MAY HE
REST IN PEACE.GOD BLESS HIS FAMILY
AND FRIENDS..GOD BLESS AMERICA AND
MAY WE NEVER FORGET 9/11/01
Marilyn & Jerry Ginsberg
December 3, 2001
The world is a little less better place with Alvins passing. We share your grief.
SHIRLEY & IRWIN HOROWITZ
December 1, 2001
We can remember at Alvin's BarMitzva how proud Kenny & Janet stood and their faces beamed.
We grieve with you.
RICHARD JAFFE
December 1, 2001
MY DEEPEST SYMPATHY, I HADN'T SEEN OR SPOKEN TO ALVIN IN A LONG TIME, BUT THOSE E.N.Y. CONNECTIONS ARE NEVER BROKEN.
RICHARD (JOE) JAFFE
Catherine & Michael Rosa
November 30, 2001
We still can't believe that Alvin is no longer with us. We grew up together (30+ years ago)in ENY. Although we havent seen each other in years, the pain is still there. Our thoughts and prayers are with Michelle and the boys and of course, Alvin's parents and my dearest friend Renee. Renee, I will be here for you always. Love you.
kenneth & Janet Begsohn
November 30, 2001
How can words discribe this beautiful son. How can we not see his face everytime we close our eyes. There won't be a day in our lives that he won't be with us. A very special kind of guy, he never had or met a person he didn't like.There wasn't anything he wouldn't do for anyone. I know his friends from all over the country know that these words are true. Our heart is broken.........We miss you Alv... We love you, we don't have enough tears,
Mom and Dad
Al & Irene Pallais
November 30, 2001
We didn't know you personally, but your father and mother gave us a glimpse of the fine man you became.
Renee Hoffman
November 30, 2001
I love you Alvin. Wherever you are, you are with me. In my heart and in my head. I will always hear you call me on the phone and say "Hey, Renee, it's your brother" in the quiet and gentle way. And with the deepest of pain, we will go on because there are beautiful children we both have. To my sister-in-law, Michele, I love you and I love those boys. Sammy and Harris are so special. Thank you for making Alvin a very happy man and a proud father. I'm proud to have been known in the neighborhood as "Alvin's Little Sister". And that is what I will always be.
Ann White
November 27, 2001
The Alvin Bergsohn Memorial Scholarship has been established by the Baldwin Royals baseball team and will be presented at the Baldwin Varsity Awards Banquet in June of 2002. Alvin was very active with the Royals and his son ,Sam, is a member of the team.An account has been opened at North Fork Bank in Baldwin, N.Y. Contributions to the fund should be made payable to "The Royals Scholarship Fund" and can be mailed to 202 Juanita Avenue, Freeport N.Y. 11520
Anita BERSON
November 13, 2001
Dear Michelle, The world can be a small place. How could I know that I would find you because of this tragedy, your tragedy. Ellen Lewin and I extand our sincerest sympathy to you and your family. We remember when you met Alvin, were engaged, got married and were expecting your first child...a long long time ago at the dawn of the micro-computer era, at Morris Decision Systems. We are thinking of you, and hope that our thoughts and sympathy will comfort you in some way. Anita Berson
Karalynn Maurer
October 29, 2001
Unfortunately I never had the pleasure of meeting Alvin, however, he worked with my boyfriend, Matthew Burke at cantor Fitzgerald. Matt always spoke so highly of Alvin. They sat next to each other and would kid around with each other all day long. I pray they are up there together laughing right now.
To his family I know how devastating this is and you are in my prayers. God Bless!!!
Robin Onifather
October 26, 2001
I want to say so much but the pain is still so raw. I, we, miss Alvin every day. I spend time with Michele and the boys, and not an event or activity goes by where he is not missed. We will all be ok, and we will survive, but don't think for one minute that we(I) don't miss his warm hugs, sarcastic comments, unassuming attitude, or great lips(lol). Al we had the best of times, with great memories. I hope you're in a better place now Rock on. Oh yeah! Al, did you see MIchele, and I at the McCartney show? We rocked all night for you!love you! Robin
Nancy Greg and Paige Kasick
October 26, 2001
What do you say when you've lost a "childhood" friend. We were lucky to have Alvin in our lives for the past 25+ years and he will be in our hearts and souls forever. There have been too many good times to write here but the East New York/Flushing crowd will never forget him. We will always be here for Michele and the boys and his spirit, smile and hugs are a part of us forever. We Love You.
yvonne mcnally
October 22, 2001
our thoughts are with all the victims families for now and forever
from the mcnally family
scotland
leslie miller
October 11, 2001
There are no words to describe the sadness, but please find comfort in knowing you are not alone, and God cries too.
Dione Sackman
October 6, 2001
I am very sorry for your loss.
Kathie Klos
September 28, 2001
May God bless you in this terrable time of sorrow.. rest assured all will be made right some day.
J & M Lee
September 25, 2001
We’ve known Alvin for about 20 years or so. He was one of several friends that started as acquaintances, friends of friends and such. We were part of one of those intersecting “circle of friends”. He liked to ski and because of that we got to know each other better. We must have skied Steamboat, Killington, Okemo, and maybe half a dozen other ski areas that we can remember.
Our wives happened to go to the same high school, moved in different circles, but knew of each other – small world huh? We’ll remember those parties, the barbecues, and the concerts. They gave us our first Hagstrom’s map when we moved to Boston – you know the kind with 50 pages and every single street in town. Now my wife doesn’t drive anywhere without one. We gave their boys a wooden night-light with carved animals on it – the same night-light that we leave on each night for our girls.
We’ll miss his loud raspy voice, talking about his boys, bragging about what trails he’s skied, giving his opinion on the market, telling stories about being on The Floor, and stretching the truth about his golf score. Alvin was a great dad – he was so proud of his boys and the way they could play baseball and ski. He was a wonderful husband – who wouldn’t be with someone like his wife at his side. Most of all, he was a great guy and a good friend to a lot of people – Yo Alvin!
Barbara Bolin
September 23, 2001
My thoughts and prayers go out to you all.May God bless you all.Alvin may you rest in peace.
Spencer Weisberg
September 20, 2001
As my friend Jim Lee mentioned on page one i too knew Alvin on and off for 20 years but not as well and most of the Stony Brook croud. he was always fun to be with and sometime when he took out his guitar I tought I was hangoing out with Jorma!!!!
Rest in pease Alvin
Spencer Weisberg
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