Anthony "T.J." Urella

Anthony "T.J." Urella

Anthony Urella Obituary

Published by French & Rising Funeral Home - Goffstown on Jun. 27, 2010.
Anthony "T.J." Urella 46, died June 26, 2010 at his residence surronded by his family, following a courageous battle with cancer. Born in Worcester, MA. he has been a resident of Goffstown since 1976. T.J. had been employed as a HVAC technician with Granite State Plumbing and Heating. He loved the outdoors especially hunting, fishing and camping and was an avid NASCAR fan. He will also be remembered for the tremendous amount of "stuff" he collected.

Members of his family include his wife Debrah L. Urella of Goffstown. Two children Tyler S. Urella and Alicia M Urella both of Goffstown. His father Anthony Urella of FL. and his mother Joyce Urella of Dunbarton. Two brothers Mark S. Urella of Dunbarton and Craig M. Urella of Goffstown. Two sisters Laureen M. Champagne of Bedford and Toni Lynn Flynn of Manchester. Several nieces and nephews.

Calling hours will be Wednesday from 4-6PM at French and Rising Funeral Home 17 South Mast Street Goffstown. Funeral services will follow at 6 PM in the funeral home. In lieu of flowers donations may be made to Urella Trust C/O TD Bank 3 Elm Street, Goffstown, NH 03045. For more information or to sign an online register book go to www.frenchandrising.com

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June 21, 2019

Phyllis Jordan posted to the memorial.

July 13, 2010

Steve Shea posted to the memorial.

July 2, 2010

Eric Descoteaux posted to the memorial.

Phyllis Jordan

June 21, 2019

Forever loved - never forgotten.

Steve Shea

July 13, 2010

Deb and Family,
Very sorry to hear of Tony's passing. I recently learned from his brother Craig that he was seriosly ill and heard of his death on the Wednsday following his passing. My heart goes out to you all and the entire extended Urella family. A special message to Tyler, though I say this now because of the unfortunate circumstance and opportunity, I've always felt it. You have always been one of my favorite past football players because of the heart you showed and example you set when you finished the laps, even when you thought you couldn't. You never let what another said, determine who you were or what you are capable of and that is something I know your parents are proud of ! Be well and strong and reflect often through this hard time, Steve Shea

Eric Descoteaux

July 2, 2010

Dear Deb,Tyler,Alicia

We are so sorry for your loss. TJ had a way of brightening a room just by walking in. We will all miss him very much. We wish we could of made it to the service. Stay strong and know that we are here if you need us.

Love D-Gang Eric,Michele,Jake,Aidan and Summer

Carol Pomelow

July 1, 2010

Dear Tj yesterday was so hard for me to get through I wasn't ready to say good bye. You looked so peaceful. I will miss you greatly. I love you. Until we meet again. Take care. Love you carol.

Carol Fossum

July 1, 2010

We are sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Hugh and Carol Fossum

Beth Bower

July 1, 2010

To Joyce Urella and Family, you have had us praying for Anthony and family for so long that my heart ached when I read that he lost the battle. I will continue to uplift you and the family for peace during this sad time. From Beth Bower

kimm gruden

July 1, 2010

my heart and love goes out to you all!!! tj will be sadly missed!! love kimm

Ray Blondeau

July 1, 2010

My best wishes for all of the Urella family during these difficult times.

Greg & Pam Packard

June 30, 2010

Today we said so long to a truely "GOOD GUY" You left so many memories, I couldn't even begin to list them. I just know they will always be with me. Prayers, love, and my deepest sympathy to the whole Urella Family. TJ, see you on the other side!

Joan Field

June 30, 2010

Dear Joyce & Urella Family,

May you know peace and comfort during this trying time. Just remember, the ones we love are never gone. They live within our hearts forever.

Pam Packard

June 30, 2010

We were neighbors for so long, then life moved us on. Only to catch up quickly when we ran into each other years down the road. You were a genuine friend. Everybody you knew will miss you.
My thoughts and prayers go out to the whole Urella family.

Patty Gale

June 30, 2010

To All Of TJ's Family & Friends,

My heart goes out to all of you, TJ was such a wonderful person who had that specail way to make everyone smile. Please find comfort in knowing that your friends and family are there for you. I know this has been such a difficult time and the strength that all of you have shown can never be measured.

With my deepest sympathy,

Samantha && Kevin

June 29, 2010

i was headedd home tonight..&& as i looked to the sky...there was just ONE star, shining so bright ..it was the only star in the sky && thats when i new, you made it there safe && your in a way better place.you have no pain && you finally get to rest peacefully . tommorows going to be rough, But i will stay strong..nowing your watching overr uss..I Love you Uncle Tj && Miss you so much. You made two beutiful children that will make you soo soo proud. && you could see it in your
eyes you loved your wife soo much!
Aunty Deb , Tyler, Alicia && other family and freinds..I am so sorry for our loss.But god will guide us through this difficult time. My Uncle Tj will truly be missed. Even though it hurts the way it ended up
I'd do it all again
So play it sweet in heaven
Cause thats right where you wanna be...I'll see you on the otherside ..Love you always Aunty Deb Tyler & Alica..I will always be here for you. Dont hesitate ...

AL Tracy

June 29, 2010

So many fond memories with you and our families. So young so strong. "It just aint right"

momp

June 29, 2010

my love tj you are always on my mind i think about you all the time i fall asleep crying for you i wake up crying for you i know you are in a better place and resting well i will take care of your family marcel misses you so rest my love mom and marcel

June 29, 2010

Deb,Tyler,Alicia,

I will miss your husband/father very much and will never forget him. You all know how handsome and sexy I always thought he was.I'm sure he is now in God's loving arms resting in peace.

My very deepest sympathy,
Love,
Pauline D./Grammy

Ursula & Renald Dubreuil

June 29, 2010

Dear Deb and family, It's so hard to express our condolences. Nothing ever seems right to say in times like these. Only know that your family has been in our prayers for a long time and will continue to be. We're so sorry for all of you. TJ was a great guy! He'll truly be missed. May he rest in peace.

Michele Stenman

June 29, 2010

Dear Anthony & Joyce and family,
I am so sorry for your loss. TJ will truly be missed by all. God Bless you during this difficult time.
Love, Michele Urella-Stenman & Family

Laurie Gladysz

June 28, 2010

Debbie I was very sad to hear about your loss God has always been watching over you and your family and now he calls your angel home so that he can now watch over you and your two very beautiful children Tyler and Alicia. It has been so long since I last saw your children it was a pleasure to have them in my Daycare. And to see them with two loving parents.Who adored them both.
TJ is a wonderful father and Husband. And I know he will be very missed by many family members and friends.
Take Care
Laurie Gladysz (Palacios)
Back Mountain Road

Diane Harrises

June 28, 2010

May you rest in peace, TJ! My thoughts are with your family. Know you will be missed!

Paul Danis

June 28, 2010

To the entire family of TJ, our thoughts and prays are with you now and the days and years to come. While I was a closer friend with Mark, I had the pleasure of talking and occasionally hanging out with TJ as well.It was always a pleasure and he will surely be missed. God bless you all

June 28, 2010

TJ will be very missed in our family. I can't remember a time when he was not part of it. I knew when I met him Debbie had picked well. He has always held a special place in my heart. When Andrew met him he was just as impressed. We have some great memories and will never forget TJ. Debbie, Tyler and Alicia - Uncle Andy and I are always just a phone call away. We love you. Aunt Holly and Uncle Andy.

Faye Mudge

June 28, 2010

To the Urella Family, So very sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers. May God's love and peace surround you at this time/Faye Mudge

Sue & Roger Bucker

June 28, 2010

Joyce,
May the love of family and friends carry you through your grief. You are in our prayers.

Richard, Anita, Brittany and Michael Chaput

June 28, 2010

May you rest in peace. Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire family.

Kim Bouchard

June 28, 2010

Dear Urella Family: We are so sorry to hear about TJ, our hearts and prayers go out to you both. So many great times together, memories made. RIP TJ, we will all miss you.... Kevin and Kim Bouchard

Denise Raymond

June 28, 2010

Deat Urella Family,

My thoughts and prayers are with you during this trying time for your family. If you need anything do not hesitate to call or ask.

Always your friend and neighbor,
The Raymond Family

Kayla Cazares

June 28, 2010

Alicia I am so sorry to hear about your Dad. Always remember the great memories you shared with him,and hold onto those forever. I am hear if you need me. Kayla Cazares

Nicole Noonan

June 28, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers go out to the entire family, especially Deb, Alicia, and Tyler. TJ was a great man is with God now for sure. Take care, and we will be here if you need anything at all.
The Noonans

Phyllis Jordan

June 28, 2010

There are times when words are not enough and this is one of them. "T.J." will remain in our hearts and memory forever with effection and our love. He was a courageous young man throughout is battle and now in a better place without pain or suffering. Bless each one of you as you grieve the loss of your loving husband, father, son, brother and friend.
Phyllis

Tim & Chris Azotea

June 28, 2010

RIP our wonderful Brother In Law!!!We are so lucky to have had you in our lives..You will be missed so much!!!
Just know Tim & I will be there for your family anytime night or day!!! You will forever be in our hearts Thank you for all the good times we shared that will never be forgotten.
We Love You Always & Forever. We miss You so much already!!!

kelly joyce

June 28, 2010

TJ, I had memories of high school days and hanging out in Hermsdorf when we were younger and remember when you came into John Browns! you will be missed. to his family, so sorry for your loss

Chris & Tim Azotea

June 28, 2010

T.J. I just dont where to start you have been part of our lives for such along time we are just so lost with out you around we miss you so much!! The only good in all of this is that you are now resting comfortably. We are going to miss all the good times we've had with you. I'm so glad we were there with all the way to the end I'm so proud to call you my brother in law. You will always be in our hearts forever & always. Just Rest In Peace knowing whenever your family needs us we will be there for them any time of night or day!!! Tim misses you so bad!!!! We love you so much!!!!! Until we meet again RIP our Wonderful Brother!!!!

Melissa Fox

June 28, 2010

TJ we are so sad you had to leave us way to early, but we know now you are no longer suffering! You are an amazing Father, husband, and friend!! Thank you for being apart of our lives, they were a whole lot brighter because of you! you will forever be held close to our hearts! We will miss you, and Deb till the day you meet again he will be above watching over you and the kids, protecting you and will make sure you are never alone! We love you! Love Matthew & Melissa

Ann Tracy

June 28, 2010

Deb, Tyler and Alicia, your Dad and husband and my dear friend will be missed and never forgotten. He was always there for me when I needed help with ANYTHINIG and ready and eager to lend a helping hand. He was one of the greatest men I have ever met and I know his spirit will live forever through all of you. I remember when we met, at football practice...he had just cut off his long, curly locks and I inquired about his hair...after that, coffee and long and deep conversations and a wonderful friendship that developed from there on. He is gone, never to be forgotten for his kindness, generosity and friendship. I will be there for you all through this difficult and sad time and hope that you will find comfort in knowing how much peopled loved him. Rest in Peace TJ, your friendship has had a profound impact on my life and sooooo many others. I love you.

Sean & Stephanie Parsons

June 28, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort. Sean, Stephanie, Tyler & Dylan

J Tabor

June 27, 2010

T.J. was a great man and left a positive mark in this world. Our thoughts are with the whole Urella family. The Tabors

Carol Pomelow

June 27, 2010

To my dearest brother in law you have been a part of my life for so long. You have been a great addition to our family. I will miss dearly and love you lots. Sorry for your pain. Now may you rest in peace. Just remember I will always be here for you wife and children. I will guide them like you would have. Say hello to dad for me. Ps not to much parting up there.

FONDA ROCKHOLD

June 27, 2010

YOU WILL BE MISSED MY FRIEND. REST IN PEACE

Lisa Harmon

June 27, 2010

All the memories I have of T.J., were him always happy.My prayers go out to his family, and after a long battle he's gone home..You may not be able to see him, but he will always be with us, til the day we see him again.Rest in peace T.J. you will never be forgotten, Love you, Aunt Lisa

June 27, 2010

TJ thanks for all the great memories we have had together we will hold them close to our hearts and think of you often. The camping trips to Dolly Copp,Fires in the back yard in the middle of the winter,The crazy Yankee swaps & NYE parties, OH and can't forget those trips on the boat to Novia Scotia. We love you and will miss you dearly.
Rosie, Gene, Aaron, Colby, & Alexis

Tony Lenda

June 27, 2010

TJ, or "Tone" as we laughingly called each other, was a good friend in high school. I left NH in my mid twenties and lost contact with him, and now realize the importance of maintaining contact with old friends. I missed his marriage, the birth and raising of his children, and I'm sure many other happy events in his life. For that, I am sad. I wish to extend my condolences to his wife, children, and family. May God carry you all through this time of mourning :)

Cathy Tanguay

June 27, 2010

Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you. He will always be by your side step by step.

Love Cathy & Bobby

starr pitt

June 27, 2010

so sorry to hear of your loss ,we loved TJ,and will always have great memories of times spent with him..we love you Debbie. uncle Gary & Aunt Starr.

Jennifer Mudge Bohl

June 27, 2010

May you rest in peace my friend. Your friends and family will take care of the rest

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