ARTHUR HAMILTON "Art, AH, Sol" COMER

Hey dad,
I wish you were here, missing you so much. I could really do with one our our hugs right now and a chat.
Crazy the other day 9/11 was 16 years since you found out by your chest xray you had melanoma tumors in multiple places.
How things hit so hard and still do. . . love you with my whole being. 12/11/25
Debbie

Happy Fathers Day Dad.

This year was so much harder than the past few years. I really don't know why, but being at the Fathers Day memorial at Forest Lawn, visiting you and of course Scott, yep, heart wrenching.

So I thought it was funny to share this part of a photo which was taken on your 60th birthday. I hope you and Scott enjoyed your special day together and maybe joking around and having a beer like this.
Not sure what was happening here, but love this photo of your both.

I Love you beyond words, our 15th fathers day only to have you in our memories and 2nd fathers day Scott is not here.
We miss you both so much x x x x Always forever and ever Debbie x x x x

Dearest Dad,
I know as I type this you will not read it, it's not possible but how I wish you could more than I can explain.
The past few months in particular have been an emotional ride for many reasons, and of course September is always a hard month and this one will be no exception.
I know we are all grateful for the time we had with you, mum and the life she had with you, me a week off 46 years all the way to down to your first great grandson Jockey who only knew you for nearly 8 months.
Yes we are blessed, but ripped off for all the moments you have missed since the day you grew your wings.
I'm feeling fragile right now and so wish you were here so I could talk to you about everything, to get one of your nice big hugs, just to be with you.
I would trade anything to have you here, although there is some comfort in knowing you are in a place of perfect joy, surpassing all earthly desires.
The gut wrenching devastation of Scott being taken away, has been beyond comprehension and only that you are together gives me any kind of quietness in my waking thoughts.
I love you dad, my heart aches I miss you so terribly.
Always your adoring daughter, Debbie xxxxxx aka Freddy Frog

Happy 85th Birthday Dad.
It's so hard to believe 15 years have past since we celebrated your special day with you.
I miss you everyday, but not to be able to celebrate with you is really hard. Forever loved, forever missed, always in my heart and memories.
Love you xoxo

The best of times holidaying

Hey dad, well it's been a minute.

I miss you so much, everything is really hard, there's so much happening.

I wish we could go back in time, before you got f...ing cancer. When we were all here.

Today it's been 14 & 1/2 years since you were taken from us.

I can't comprehend that time, some days it feels closer than that and other days it seems forever since you were here.

I am missing Scott so terribly too, it has been so unfair.

I believe he is with you and that does help a little, but what I would give to see you both again.

Dad, I love you, I miss you, I've felt so broken since you've been gone.

Could I just ask you both to watch over us.

Big love, big hugs to you both, forever and always your adoring daughter

Debbie x x aka Freddy Frog

Dad . . . I miss you, I really really miss you. Love you always and forever x x x x

Hello my dearest dad.
I can only take comfort in the knowledge Scott is with you. As you can see we are all so so deeply shattered by what has happened. I pray that you came, wrapped your arms around Scott and took him with you. I love you both so so much, now we have two angels to watch over us. Please give Scott a huge hug and tell him like you he will be forever loved and forever missed. Your adoring daughter

Hey dad,

Another Fathers day has come and we can't celebrate with you,
or do any of the things that we used to do.
No baked dinner or dessert like you always loved,
no presents, or kisses and no nice big hug.
So today I will go visit where you were laid,
and put fresh flowers upon your grave.

Time doesn't heal, it just changes how we live and have to live without you.

Happy Fathers Day Dad.
I will never meet anyone like you, you were not perfect BUT you were and will always be our perfect man.
Missing you yesterday, today and every tomorrow.
Love you for all eternity

Your adoring daughter x x x x x x x x x x x x x

Its been 12 years and 7 days since we said goodbye
Another birthday has come and just about gone
Although my heart will be forever broken that you are no longer here
Im grateful for the life you gave me.
I hope you like the orange Gerberas
I love you, always and forever your adoring daughter xxx

Another Christmas over Dad,
but sadder than before.

This Christmas will be the last at home, we will be there never more.

I missed you and your Santa ways
that you did each year.

I missed that silly grin you made,
and my eyes streamed done with tears.

Mum wasn't there for the last Christmas, lockdown kept her out.

No family celebrations today, which you were always about.

So, so much has changed Dad, but I know that you know.

And soon our lovely family home, we will not be able to go.

I truly miss you dad, my rock, my hero and my friend.
The pain is still so present and real, my broken heart wont mend.

I hope you enjoyed Christmas up in heaven, however you celebrated this day

Unrealistic I know, but my wish would have been for you pop down to say g'day.

Love and miss you dad.
Merry Heavenly Christmas

Standing on the platform
Watching you go

It's like no other pain
I've ever known

To love someone so much
To have no control

I think I'm lost without you
I just feel crushed without you

Dad, so much has changed and is changing as i'm sure you are aware. Todays news just made it all really real. Of course we have things to organise and all to be worked out and finalised but it's a biggy. I am in a whirlwind of emotion right now, I cant even get to sleep. I hope and pray you will give me the strength I need for the weeks to come with so much happening for me. But also of course for us all regarding home. I miss you so much and in my heart know if you were here this all would not be happening. I hope heaven is beautiful and peaceful, because you certainly deserve all that and more, but how much i wish you were here is beyond measure. Please keep looking over us all and send us your strength and guidance. I love you and miss you more than I can even understand sometimes. Forever and always in my mind and heart, your adoring daughter x x x x x x x x x x x x x

11 Years

10th of September 11 years to the date & day,

While you were still here, you always proved to everyone how much you loved your family.

Words are not enough to tell you how much I miss you. I love you. I'm heartbroken without you.

The pain of losing you is still so heavy to bear.
It seems like only yesterday when I visited home and you were there.

We laughed and smiled together, we disagreed too, but that was what was amazing, having a dad like you.

All my childhood memories, and my adult memories too
Have so much meaning for me, because they all included you

Time does not get easier

I truly and deeply love and miss you everyday.

Forever and Always your adoring daughter

Happy Birthday dad, another year we don't get to share your birthday with you. I hope you are having a blast with all those family and friends who also earnt their wings. I will raise a glass tonight and send you cheers. Miss you like crazy each and everyday. Sending kisses to you and a huge hug, my never ending love for you Dad. Always your adoring daughter x x x x x x x x x x x

Dearest Dad,

I believe you watch down on us all, you are with us and you help guide us when we need it.
My prayers and hope which I have shared with you the past 2 weeks for mum has proven to be positive.
Her health has improved so much, I am so grateful.

I pray and hope that mum can continue her healing journey and you can be by her side to encourage and help her do what needs to be done.

I miss you EVERY DAY dad,I know this situation would not be what it is if you had been here.

Please be with mum and please give me the strength I need.

I love you Dad, I miss you so terribly.

Always your adoring daughter xoxo

Dad . . .

Today marks 10 long and somewhat shorts years since we said our goodbyes. As the day comes to an end as I reflect on your last 9 months here with us, I am still so heartbroken, still shattered and somedays I wake with the realisation I really can't just see you.
I hope and pray you are with me, guiding me in my daily life. If only I could see you again, to talk to you, to have you hug me and tell me everything is going to be ok, and things will get better. You were always my rock. I love you Dad, from the deepest part of my heart. Always and forever your adoring daughter xo xo xo xo xo xo xo xo xo xo

My dearest Dad,

Today is FATHERS DAY, I can not tell you how much you are missed. Ten years ago today we celebrated your last Fathers Day with us. It was beyond heartbreaking. You were in my thoughts all day, A lit candle at lunch, and a round of cheers in your memory then a visit to Forest Lawn to leave beautiful flowers. Tonight we drive there again, the lights I put up where flashing. I put these there yesterday to shine light during the up coming days. Flickers of tiny solar lights, because the ritual of lighting a candle (little lights) is to pay tribute to a life 'passed' Keeping a light burning in remembrance signifies that the memory still lives on and burns bright.
Tonight I felt a jolt run through me - 10 years, 10 years you have been gone, its hard to take in. Where that time has gone I dont know !!!! I so desperately wish I could just pick up the phone or pop over. I miss you each and everyday and would wish nothing more than to see you again. Love you for all eternity, your adoring daughter xoxoxo

When the days are not friendly,
and the nights even worse
When i'm hanging by a thread,
and life is a curse


When i'm longing for your guidance, your advice and your care
But I wake each day, and know you're not there

I look up above, I talk to you too, but at the end of the day, I never see you

I wish upon a star, each night in the sky
I feel so alone, I just sit and cry

I miss you my dad, more than words can say
morning, noon and night, yes everyday

.... I pray you are looking over me ....
and of course all our family. Love you!!

xo xo xo xo xo xo xo xo xo xo xo xo xo

When the days are not friendly,
and the nights even worse
When i'm hanging by a thread,
and life is a curse


When i'm longing for your guidance, your advice and your care
But I wake each day, and know you're not there

I look up above, I talk to you too, but at the end of the day, I never see you

I wish upon a star, each night in the sky
I feel so alone, I just sit and cry

I miss you my dad, more than words can say
morning, noon and night, yes everyday

.... I pray you are looking over me ....
and of course all our family. Love you!!

xo xo xo xo xo xo xo xo xo xo xo xo xo

My darling Dad,
Today we should have been celebrating your 80th Birthday with you here.
But that was not in the plans, it was 10 years ago we last celebrated with you. Your 70th Birthday, unable to fathom how 10 years can go by so quickly and yet seem so long ago all at the same time.

Remembering your special day with balloons, flowers, Happy Birthday sign, a big 80, Banana Cake, Cherry Ripe and Coloured Pop Corn, a few of your favourites.

You are deeply and sadly missed everyday, but today was just that much harder. I hope you were celebrating this milestone with loved ones you are with now .

Always and forever your adoring daughter, freddy frog ..... Debbie

Love you Dad xoxoxo HAPPY HEAVENLY BIRTHDAY ❤

Dad ...... A daughters first love!

Forget-Me-Not plants symbolise true love.

As the name suggests, they are given with the hope the recipient will not forget the giver.

It symbolises faithful love and memories.



I'm still missing you and still heartbroken everyday!

Love you for all eternity xoxo

When nights are cold, and stars are few
I close my eyes, and think of you
A silent hope, A silent tear
A silent wish, that you were still here

My broken heart will never mend
Missing YOU always Dad xoxoxoxo

There are moments in life when you wish you could bring someone down from Heaven...and spend the day with them. Just one more time, to give them one more hug, one more kiss, to hear their voice, feel their touch, see their face.

Listen to their stories, or how right they are about things.
One more chance to say I Love you, I miss you, nothings the same with out you here. To go out fishing and not even catch a fish, or to just sit and watch TV.

To see them tinkering around the yard or working on the car.
Today is especially one of those days when we are reminded of all those missed moments, the things we can't & will never have again.
All the unshared & missed celebrations past, present and future.

That person is YOU !!!!! Dad ....... husband, father, father in law, granddad, granddad in law, great granddad (mande) OUR ROCK!

No one can live forever, logically we know this is true, but we were robbed, you were robbed, your time here on earth with us all was taken way too soon, you always had so much to share and how we long and yearn for your words, your guidance, your knowledge, your love, your help, your always being right, nothing was ever too much trouble .......

We know you are not in pain and for that we are grateful, but CANCER should have NEVER called your name.

Today is 9 years since you were taken! I've spent the past 2 nights sleepless, crying, in pain and so sad.
Today I woke up numb, lost, empty, feeling broken ......

You taught me so many things Dad, except how to live without you!

Missing you, Loving you with all that I am, and all that i'll ever be!
xo xo xo xo xo xo xo xo xo

Your Smile

Though your smile is gone Forever
and your hand I cannot touch
I still have so many memories
of you Dad, I loved so much
Your memory is my keepsake
with which I'll never part,
God has you in his keeping
I have you in my heart

You are deeply missed every day, adored and loved in every way!!

Wish you were here, your loving daughter ( Freddy Frog) xoxoxo

Dad, I know you dont get this in heaven. But I feel when I write here, I'm messaging you. It's like our own contact, only thing is you can't reply.
I wish you were here, I wish I could talk to you.
So many things I really need to talk about and I know you are the one who always knew what to do, what to say. Even if you couldnt solve things, you gave it a 110%. I constantly think about all the things I wish I had said to you in your last months, things I look back on and wonder how I had blinkers on and thought you would overcome that battle.
Thinking positive, not believing I guess that you would really be taken from us.
You overcame so many health issues.
I'm missing you so so much, my heart aches, my soul is struggling and my mind is a mess.
I came across this photo, I looked at this with so much joy and happiness, then I felt broken,and I feel my chest cave in with sadness and emptiness. I can't get my head around the fact its been 8 and a half years you've been gone.
You have missed so much

I love you dad. You were and will always be the greatest man in my life.

Always and forever your adoring daughter xoxoxo

AUSTRALIA DAY 2019. Today 9 years ago you were here, although you were in Liverpool Hospital because you had a bad reaction to the chemo you had a few days before, you spent what was to be your last Australia Day unwell in a hospital bed. Our true blue Aussie. We were all so worried. Today 9 years ago, was also a wonderful day in our family because a new addition joined the ever growing Comer family, your first great grandson, RIDER..... I still remember so clearly we were with you at Liverpool, then when we got the word Rider had arrived, Mario and I walked around to Bigge Street private to visit Rach, Kane, Flo and see our new grandson. We stayed there a while then back to you, and back and forth we went all day. Even though you were not feeling the best and you being you, when you realised it was Australia Day, you said you were pleased we had a little Australia Day baby in the Family. And like everyone else you gave Rider a nickname, only one that you would think up ..... Jockey ..... as in a jockey is a Rider as you pointed out when I didn't get it .... hahahaha. Well dad, i don't know if it was the fact it was Australia Day and you weren't here, that we sat at the same picnic table today at San Souci as we did the last time we all went with you, that Rider being born and then the memories flooded back about you being hospital, or all of the above ..... I am missing you so terribly at the moment, but this afternoon and tonight I feel like a freight train has run into me. You have missed and are missing so very much in all our lives and to this day, it is still so f*&king unfair. We did enjoy our times at Sans Souci lovely memories to hold onto. xoxoxo I love you, I miss you, till the end of time. Always your adoring daughter xo

Hey Dad, missed you at Christmas and New Years, and missing you everyday as always. Day out to Bowral and Mittagong with Mum and Mario. Visited Grandma, Grandfather and relatives placing fresh flowers with everyone. It was so lovely that you were there, thank you for the sign made me smile and feel very happy xoxo
What a beautiful find seeing a headstone for great grandma Mable, how lovely she is so close to family, although sad she hadn't had a headstone for so many decades. Although finding that was so lovely, my heart broke that you never knew where your grandma was laid.
Stopped for the first time at the other cemetery and I found another relative Emma Comer, which was nice to know that information. Went by your childhood home, still looks the same, past Edna and Arties looks same just trees so grown. Picnic lunch down at Lake Alexandra with the ducks...... a lovely drive and day out.
Love you always and forever, not just for who you were, but for how you made me feel xoxoxo

Hey Dad, I hope you enjoyed a BBQ and a beer or two, to celebrate Australia Day, with family & friends up there.
I wish you were here celebrating with us, and of course Riders 8 birthday, crazy he was born on Australia Day in Bigge St Hospital and you were laid up in Liverpool Hospital, sadly you never got to celebrate a birthday with him.
Well another Australia Day over, Marios birthday tomorrow, just the start of more things you are going to miss again this year.
Love you dearly dad, to the farthest star away and back.
Always, forever and ever your adoring daughter Debbie xxx

Dad,

I love you, I miss you, I need you.

Always and forever your adoring daughter xoxoxo

Beautiful song, but I have changed some lyrics just for you from me Dad, missing you so much especially on my birthday xxx

It's been seven years, and 7 days
Since you were, taken away

I cry at night and think of you, all day
Since you were, taken away

Since you've been gone I don't know what I wannnt
I just only seem to lose

I can never get from you a kiss, or hug
But nothing
I said nothing can take away these blues

'Cause nothing compares
Nothing compares to you

It's been so lonely without you here
Like a bird without a song
Nothing can stop these lonely tears from falling
Tell me daddy, why did it go wrong

I could put my arms around every man I see
But they'd never measure up to you



I went to the doctor and guess what he told me?
Guess what he told me?
He said girl you better try to have fun
No matter what you do, cause its so cruel
'Cause nothing compares
Nothing compares to you

All the flowers that you planted daddy
In the back yard
Most died when you went away
I know that living with cancer was oh so hard
But I wish you had just never diiiiiiied
'Cause nothing compares
Nothing compares to you
Nothing compares
Nothing compares to you
Nothing compares
Nothing compares to you

Missed seeing you again this father's Day. 2k17. Love you
Always forever and eternity xx

I miss you Dad, I really do
And most the days, i'm still broke in two
Time doesn't heal, it doesn't mend
As time passes, it's not my friend

I want to see you, like I used to do
Pop across the road, to visit you
Maybe ask for advice, or just to say hello
But you're not home, when ever I go

I'm overwhelmed, I'm feeling sad
You taken away, still makes me mad
I know you know, that it'll always be true
I'll never get over, the loss of you

Miss you and Love you so much my darling Dad xxxx

It comes out of nowhere how much i miss you
And tonight is a night, that i really do

I look at your photos, I cant believe you're not here
This Coming September, it will be the 7th year

Oh dad, how I wish I could give you a hug
Or make you a coffee, in your favourite mug

How we'd share our opinions and not always agree
But you knew lots of things and shared them with me

I miss the way you'd act, when i i'd give you a kiss
It's one of the things, I really do miss

I believe there is heaven, well i pray that its true
Because when its my turn to go, Ill be looking for you

Dad i miss you so much, the pain i still feel
Most days I am numb, I still cant believe thats its real

Love you Dad, always, forever and more
Good night, your adoring daughter xxxxx

I try to put in words Dad,
how things have really changed
Life since you were taken from us,
just hasn't been the same

The past twelve months have been the worst
I have been so lost and alone
I can't just pop in to see you Dad
You are no longer home

You were my strength, you were the one
Who was there ALWAYS for me
You knew just how and what to do,
in you I always believed

You fixed the things,
you made everything right
You were always there,
both day and night

Dad ..... you know i am not referring to the material things in life even though you were THE MAN for that .....
I am really struggling, so much, its all so hard, I feel so overwhelmed, scared, basically its just way too much.
I love you Dad, I miss you ....... you were the first man I loved, and the only man who knew what to do, always.
I hope you had a lovely heavenly Christmas with everyone up there.
Always and forever your adoring daughter xo xo

Just thinking about you ..... the things you had done in your life ..... The things we have done together ...... So many memories .......It's not the same without you ..... I love you Dad and MIss you so very much.
xo xo xo always and forever more FF

Happy Good Friday Dad
Miss you
Love you
Always & Forever xo
Debbie

HO HO HO, DADDY wishing you a heavenly Merry Christmas.
Missing you, loving you always and forever xo

I love you, I'm missing you, I really wish you were here, I need you so much .... xo

hey there Dad, I've been so missing you.
It's been a couple of weeks that i've been feeling so blue.
I think that i realise the reasons for crying and my chest feeling so tight well there's no denying.
The times getting closer, when you were taken away,
and in my mind I remember how these days all changed
When what you knew, always what to do,
none of these things were easy for you
Your walking, and memory were not the same
The whole frigging thing was just so insane
And all i can think now, is just what,
Every thing you're missing, and Dad its a lot.

I sat in your chair tonight and then washed up after dinner
I felt empty, really sad, and lonely. I miss you Dad, so so much.

Life is so unfair..........! I love you with all that I am xoxo
Forever and always your Freddy Frog xo

Dad xoxoxoxo

Hey Dad, so crazily missing you dad. Some days its so difficult when i go home and you are not there. I still can not believe that i can't see you, talk to you, argue a point with you, kiss you, hug you ............ Love you and Miss you with ALL that i am, my heart, my soul, my being . xoxoxoxoxo

Happy HeAvEnLy Birthday Daddy !!!!
Miss you, Love you
Always Debbie xoxo

You're the first man i ever loved, and nothing has ever changed. Missing you dad .........With all my heart I Love You!!!

xoxoxo Debbie

X O X O

Hey Dad!
I miss you heaps!
finally getting my life back together with my new girlfriend Sharon.
I think you would like her a lot and just wanted to show you our new car.
Love Michael
xoxoxo