Assunta M. "Sue" DeBole

Assunta M. "Sue" DeBole obituary

Assunta M. "Sue" DeBole

Assunta DeBole Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Bartolomeo & Perotto Funeral Home, Inc. - Rochester on Jan. 28, 2026.
Greece: Passed away on January 26, 2026. Sue is predeceased by her parents, Michael & Lucy DeBole; siblings, James "Jimmy" (Mary) Debole, Pat (Mike) Schifano, Sally (Sam) DiMartino, Lina DeBole, Albert (Nancy) DeBole, Louis (Mary) DeBole & Antoinette DeBole; nieces & nephews, Raymond Debole, Janice Schifano, Karen DeBole & Michael S. DeBole. Sue is survived by her nieces & nephews, Marylou Smith, Gary DiMartino, Michael Joe DeBole, Michele Anne VonHold, Louis Frank DeBole, Steven Michael DeBole & Frank Curtis DeBole.

Sue's Funeral Mass will be celebrated Wednesday, February 4th at 10:00 am at St. Charles Borromeo Church, 3003 Dewey Ave. Interment in Holy Sepulchre Cemetery. Memorial Donations may be directed to Congregation, c/o St. Joseph's Northside, 150 French Rd., Rochester, NY 14618 in Sue's name.

Remembering Sue ~

Assunta M. "Sue" DeBole was born on August 23, 1932, in Rochester, New York. She was the seventh of eight children born to Michael and Lucy DeBole, devoted parents who immigrated to the United States from Italy in the early 1900s. Raised in a loving and close-knit family, Sue grew up bilingual, speaking both English and Italian, and often fondly reminisced about her mother baking homemade bread each day-a memory that stayed close to her heart throughout her life.

Sue was a proud graduate of Jefferson High School in Rochester. As a young woman, she thoughtfully considered a vocation to religious life, reflecting her deep and abiding faith. After graduation, she began a successful career as an executive secretary at IBM, where her work afforded her opportunities to travel and experience life beyond her hometown. Eventually, Sue chose to retire early, stepping away from corporate life to focus on what mattered most to her-family, service, and faith.

A woman of remarkable generosity and compassion, Sue devoted much of her time and energy to helping family members in need. She was known for her caring spirit, selflessness, and willingness to give freely of herself. Her faith in the Catholic Church and her Lord Jesus Christ remained her constant anchor, guiding her through every season of life.

For many years, Sue shared a home with her beloved sister, Antoinette, whose passing in 2023 was a profound loss. Now, Sue rejoins her family in the presence of God, embraced in the loving arms of her Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. Surely, there is a mansion prepared for her.

May Assunta M. "Sue" DeBole rest in eternal peace.

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Marcy Potts

January 31, 2026

Sue and I met back in the early 70's when we worked at an IBM conference in Miami and we have been friends ever since. I will miss our phone chats. Sue was a caring and giving person. I know she will be rewarded in Heaven for her devotion to family and friends.

Karen Zandi

January 28, 2026

Sue had her annual visit from Santa (Driver Mary Cariola) each year. this is from Dec 17- a very happy evening! RIP sweet lady.

Steven Alvito

January 28, 2026

Sue was my mom's close friend, their team bowled on Friday nights at Maiden Lanes, then had breakfast at Arrow's Restaurant. She was a sweet person, I remember her fondly. Sympathies to the family. Steve Alvito

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