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Astrid Sohan Obituary
Astrid Sohan could not sit still for college. Five times she enrolled and five times she dropped out. She wanted to get going on life, not listen to professors. She went to work, learned computer operating at I.B.M. and Johnson & Johnson and was hired to manage the technical support department at Marsh & McLennan. Her salary there let her do what she loved most: shop. "Expensive clothes," said Clive Sohan, her father. "Ann Taylor. Talbots. Shoes — she had too many."
Astrid, 33, learned about tailoring and natural fabrics from Barbara Sohan, her mother, a dressmaker in Hazlet, N.J. She liked simple leather pumps and classic tailored suits of cotton, silk or wool. She especially loved the jewelry — like a diamond- chip monkey pendant and a pair of black pearl earrings — that her mother had brought back from China and Hong Kong.
The other passion she shared with her mother was travel in hot countries. And even in beach towns, her clothes had flair. "She asked me to make a blouse that's unfinished," Mrs. Sohan said. "Purple. Cotton pique, with short sleeves. Just a little summer shirt to wear with jeans."
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September 11, 2016
Hi Astrid, heard your name on TV today, cannot believe you are gone! Hope you have eternal rest, watch over us from Heaven!
Joan J
Highlands, nj
Joyce Daino
September 12, 2015
Thinking of you Astrid & not believing it's been 14 years. Was talking to your dad the other day & he & your mom are traveling to new places each month. They sound great but know they're not the same since you were taken from them. I know you're watching over them.
September 11, 2015
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Michael Beslanovitz
September 11, 2015
My friend our friend.Still very hard. Thought 's and prayers .
November 4, 2013
I will always remember you as a bright little on Raleigh Street Astrid....Harold E. McNeal
Harold E. McNeal
Joyce Daino
September 12, 2013
Hi Astrid,
Saw your mom yesterday reading names at the memorial & think how brave she is. During the ceremony your Mikey & I were texting, I'm so glad he was home with Ann Lisa & their baby girl named after you. She's such a little beauty & I'm sure from heaven you'll make sure she's a fashionista ;).
RIP Astrid
Joan J
September 11, 2013
Hi Astrid, I seen your Mom on TV today, please keep looking over all of us from heaven!
Rich Gates
September 11, 2012
I will always wonder what could have been, but you are more than any of us can imagine. Miss you.
September 11, 2012
Dear Barbara & Clive,
Today my thoughts are with you and Astrid. God Bless you all.
Love Paula and Family
Joan Jay
September 11, 2012
Hi Astrid, I try and wear purple on this day to let you know I am thinking of you.
Patricia (Patsy) Howard
September 13, 2011
To the Tong Family,on the lost of your loved one. The void left behind these pass ten years may have begun to heal, but the loss will never be forgotten.
May the divine grace confort you during your this time of rememberence.
Joyce Daino
September 11, 2011
Hi Astrid,
Thinking of your folks today & knowing how much they are missing you. And of course your Mikey. I remembered you at mass this morning & during the reading of the names. God Bless you in heaven & watch over your folks & Mikey.
Joyce
George Duca
September 11, 2011
Astrid,
You and your family will forever be in my heart, thoughts and prayers. You will be forever missed.
Betsi and Jack Keshish
September 11, 2011
We still remember you and your parents
Dawn Hoffmann
September 10, 2011
Astrid, my friend. I know you are an angel looking over us everyday and you are so very missed by many. Every life you touched here was truly blessed and we all have wonderful memories of time spent with you. Until we meet again, LYLASA!!!!! Dawn Hoffmann
Jeff
September 10, 2011
Your light still glows for many
Linda Fenner
May 2, 2011
Hi Astrid,
Thinking of you on this historic day. May you rest in peace.
love,Linda
Joyce D
September 12, 2010
Hi Astrid,
I watched the ceremony yesterday & your Mikey & I texted through it & then I just needed to hear his voice so we talked & got through the last 2 bell tolls together. He wasn't good yesterday missing you & Greg so much. I've got to call your mom & dad to check in them but want to give them a couple of days. Keep watching over everyone in heaven ok, they need you.
Love, Joyce
September 11, 2010
This childhood classmate of Astrid's is again thinking of her fondly on this solemn anniversary.
Joelle Herman
September 11, 2010
Hi Astrid,
I am always thinking of you especially on this day every year. I have so many fond memories of our childhood days at Raritan Valley. I remember going to your house to do homework. So much fun. Missing you.
Joelle Left Herman
Colleen Lapp
September 11, 2010
Thinking of you and your family today. Craig and I have 2 beautiful daughters and today I taught them what I could about you and the tragedy of 9/11. I wish they had known you.
Joan Johnson
September 11, 2010
Hi Astrid,
Hope you are happy in heaven being an angel watching over us. Evertime I wear purple, I think of you. Even though you left IFF years ago, I think of you often and once for my birthday, you wrapped all the things in your supply cabinet for me, because you knew how much I liked to open up presnts no matter what they were. Thanks for making me laugh.
diane fuschetti
August 30, 2010
My friend I think of you often and miss you so much. I know you are up there watching us, I would love to know what you would tell me about my life right now, I know it would be the truth. You always told me the truth.
Joyce Daino
September 12, 2009
Hi Astrid,
Thinking of you today & your parents. Mikey went to the ceremony yesterday with Ann Lisa. I'm so glad he has her to help him through all this. He's become a good friend & will always believe you had a hand in that. Keep watching over him & all your friends you left behind. Love, Joyce (your dad's friend)
APS
September 11, 2009
This childhood classmate of Astrid's is thinking of her fondly on this solemn anniversary.
September 11, 2009
thinking of you...
Margaret Gangaram
September 11, 2009
Astrid, I am thinking of you today. I am also thinking of your parents Clive and Barbara who are friends of my parents. May you rest in eternal peace.
Joyce Daino
April 12, 2009
Happy Easter in heaven Astrid. Haven't talked to your mom & dad in a couple of months, but am glad your dad is well enough to be traveling again. I know your watching over them.
Joyce D
September 12, 2008
Astrid,
Today I went to the ceremony for the first time. We didn't know each other but you know I worked with your dad. I told your mom that myself & your Mikey would stand there for them while your dad recoups after his surgery. Watch over Mikey he needs you, it was such a tough day for him. And of course your mom & dad. I feel I know you more & more through them.
God bless you in heaven. Joyce
michael Beslanovitz
September 11, 2008
Astrid, always will be missed.
September 11, 2008
Astrid, my friend
I think of you often. Today I am remembering your bright smile and sparkling personality. Shine on.
I miss you.
~Dawn
Adell Daugherty
October 18, 2007
Dearest Astrid,
I think about you every day. I sometimes think I see you in a crowd of people and that these past years have been a horrible nightmare. Maybe it is you...watching over me.
Doug Abraham
September 26, 2007
Happy Birthday!!!
Michael Beslanovitz
September 11, 2007
Dear,Clive and Barbara. I'm so sorry, i have not written.We were friend's in High School.We will miss her.
Joyce Daino
September 11, 2007
Dear Clive & Barbara,
How is it that it's been 6 yrs since Astrid was taken from you. Please know that you're both in my heart & prayers today.
Love, Joyce
kristine
August 19, 2007
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
P Tabbernor
March 17, 2007
In memory....
Joyce Daino
September 10, 2006
Dear Clive & Barbara
Thinking of you both on the eve of the 5th anniversary. Know that you're both in my heart & in my prayers. Love Joyce
Diane Lapp
April 29, 2006
As times goes by, no matter how long, Ithink of you every day, and I miss you so very much.
Lisa (Vivirito) Roberts
October 27, 2004
I lost touch with Astrid 20 years ago when I went off to college...and was trying to reconnect, doing an internet search yesterday when I learned this awful news. I had no idea she was lost on that horrible day.
Mr. and Mrs. Sohan, you probably don't remember me. I lived in Aberdeen and would ride my bike to your house to hang out with Astrid. I was 17 and she was around 15 or so. We were really good friends. Every time I hear the song Don't You Want Me by Human League, I think of her. That song was played very often during the time we were friends, and I remember listening to it with Astrid at your home. I have a picture of her in Vancouver that she wrote a note on the back of...and she signed it "Sis". I've looked at that picture many times over the years, wondering what path she followed...wondering if we'd ever get in touch again. I can't believe I waited too long to make the effort.
I'm so sorry for your loss...but it's the world's loss too. A brilliant light when out that day. The world will never know what it's missing out on.
Love,
Lisa
Angelique Smith
September 14, 2003
Aunt Barbara and Uncle Clive,
May God guide you in these hard times and may Astrid's memory always stay strong with in our hearts and minds. May she always know from heaven above that she was loved by all those she encountered, and that her beautiful smile seemed to captivate your heart.
I want you to know that I send my deepest sympathy to you and I know I can't take the pain away but I know she is in a beautiful and peaceful place above.
We send all our love and prayers.
Angelique, Chris, Antonio, and Arianna
Diane Ruggiero
September 11, 2003
I worked with Astrid at The Poet's Inn about fourteen years ago. I don't recall why but we used to call each other "Artemis" and I always think of her when I hear that name. She was a truly lovely and genuine person. My deepest sympathy goes out to her friends and family.
Michelle Payne-Aromi
September 11, 2002
I only met Astrid once but she was very nice, it's too bad that it took such an awful tragedy to bring our families together. I am related to Astrid through my grandmother Pearl Ten-Pow Hunte. I want to send my prayers to her mother and father, Barbara and Clive Sohan. The memory of your daugher will live on through those precious times you shared with her for 33 years of her life. You have all of your family and friends to support you. God Bless You in your time of remembrance.
Joelle Herman
September 10, 2002
I went to grade school and high school with Astrid in Hazlet, NJ. Astrid was a good friend when we were growing up and I am so sorry that we never stayed in touch once we graduated from highschool. I have been thinking about Astrid every day since last Sept 11th, since I found out that she had passed on. I know you are in a beautiful place and you are watching over everyone dear to you. To Mr and Mrs. Sohan my thoughts are with you everyday of my life. Just remember that Astrid is always with you and watching over you and she is your guardian angel. I am really sorry for your loss and I will always keep my memories of mine and Astrid's school days close to heart.
Joelle Alyse Herman
(maiden name Left)
Adell Daugherty
September 5, 2002
Dear Astrid,
I know you are watching me from heaven and that God is taking good care of you. There is not a single day that goes by that I don't think about you. I always thought we'd grow to be hip old ladies, eating chocolate, shopping for shoes and wearing purple. I miss you.
Love,
Adell
Gloria Lewis
July 18, 2002
Dear Barbara & Clive
I connot imagine the pain you both are going through, I have prayed for comfort for you both. I will keep praying that time and prayers will help you to heal. It may be easier for me to say don't loose faith, but believing that God loves us and getting through one day at a time is comforting. We missed Astrid's adult years, but just knowing you both I know you did a great job over the years with this beautiful child. She would always be in our heart.
May God conbtinus to Bless you both and keep you strong.
Love, Gloria,Winston, Wayne & Shelley
Monica Foley-Collins
May 23, 2002
Well girlfriend - I don't know what to say except that I've had your blue blouse and pleated mini skirt dry cleaned and ready to give back to you.... for 6 months now - but that typical for me isn't it.
I was so proud of you when you decided to leave us at J&J for "the big city"... selfishly I missed you - but it was so perfect for you - the cloths, the people, the atmosphere :) - Ryan and I always figured - with a dinner at Rafferty's we could quickly catch up on months worth of lost "together time"...
I miss you - and I think about you every day. As you know - Todd & I were married on 9/15/02 - and it was the happiest yet saddest day of our lives. Pray for us and watch over us.
Love. Monica
May 6, 2002
DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS WONDERFUL WOMAN..ASTRID SOHAN AND MAY HER SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS.GOD BLESS HER FAMILY AND FRIENDS.GOD BLESS AMERICA AND NEW YORK..AMEN
Grace Sue
April 17, 2002
For you Astrid
Many really cared
Like a shooting star shining bright
You appeared into our lives
Then was so suddenly ripped from sight
Leaving behind broken hearts and shattered dreams
Still you are unique a light
One that we will always remember
Love always
Grace, Rod, Emma and Sydney
Nicole Reda
April 15, 2002
Astrid, bright & sunny and always smiling. I only have good memories of you. Playing at the company picnics, shopping for Lancome products at the company store, chatting on speaker phone from Greg’s office. Because of Greg, I knew you well. He always had such wonderful things to say about you. I remember it was time for him to get a new laptop, which meant that his current one would go to you. Greg took so long to fill out the paper work & you kept asking about it, finally you filled out the paper work to speed things up. Soon the two of you were happy to play with your new “toys.” You were always so thoughtful, when Nicholas was born you showered us with Johnson & Johnson gifts. When Matthew was born in July, only a few days later you & Jen sent us a Vermont Teddy Bear dressed pajamas covered in stars. I hold the bear as all of the memories of you dear to me.
Everyday I imagine what you were all going through on that terrible day. The only comfort I have is that you & Greg were together, you weren’t just co-workers but friends. I pray to you and the rest of the lunch crew everyday. I look up at the stars & moon & know that we are still under the same sky. Watch over us and help us along the way. Until we meet again.....
Kim Hing
April 12, 2002
I've become closer to Astrid since moving to New Jersey in 1993. She was an achieving, kind, loving and generous person.
Astrid was only 32 yrs old when she was promoted to Assistant Vice President. She had determination and she made strides to accomplish her goals.
She was also kind and loving that she gave her friendship and love genuinely. She enjoyed helping to solve issues or just being there for comfort. She liked talking, staying in touch.
She was generous with her possessions with me. Visit my house and I need not say anymore.
She did not become an AVP by being just kind, loving and generous. She was no push-over. She reasoned and she gave her opinion good or bad. She did shoot from the hip. She was just genuine and uninhibited.
Loving you always, your aunt Kimmy (only Astrid called me Kimmy).
Petra and John Colannino
April 11, 2002
April 15, 2002
May peace be with the three of you, Clive, Barbara, Astrid, from today throughout eternity.
With love, John and Petra Colannino
diane fuschetti
April 4, 2002
She was like a little sister to me,She was so smart so determined to succeed, and she did it! Astrid was truly one of the smartest women I have ever known. I miss her everyday, I loved her.
Heather Hing
March 25, 2002
We all love and miss Astrid. You guys know that you have our love and support. Our ears and shoulders are always available to carry some of the weight from your shoulders and minds.
Sincerely,
Mom,Dad, Heather, Lyle, Shawn, Serena, Kiond, Tobin, and Connie
Carolyn Oglensky
March 25, 2002
I will always remember Astrid with deepest affection, for being such a devoted and loving best friend to my daughter, Robin. I know how much Robin misses their "girl-talk" conversations, their week-end breakfasts together, and their unique, thoughtful gifts to one another over the years. It is rare to find a friend as special as Astrid. My heart goes out to you, Mr. and Mrs. Sohan - I think of your loss and grieve for you. Please accept my deepest sympathies and prayers.
Carolyn Oglensky
June 1982 - Vancouver Holiday
Yvonne Soo Kaim
March 24, 2002
Dear Babs & Clive,
May the memories of the time you had with Astrid, provide some comfort from the pain of losing her.
Your family around the world (from England, Italy, Toronto, Vancouver and elsewhere) share your loss. God Bless!!
Talk to you soon... lots of love.
Yvonne, Ivan, Anthony & Alex Soo Kaim
Norma Prasad-deFreitas
March 22, 2002
Every soul has something to share and to learn from. There are no words to adequately express or understand your loss, so please know I am always here for you, Clive and Babs
Carol Kersch
March 17, 2002
Your mother and I are first cousins. We lost touch when I left Guyana in 1962 for England. All I knew was that she had a daughter named Astrid.
On Sept 13th, I saw your name on TV, thousand of miles away. Since then I got to know more about you not merely a name. You've touched our hearts!
Barbara and Clive, you're are always in our thoughts!
With Love & Best Wishes
Carol, David, Greg & Paul
March 16, 2002
Dear Barbara and Clyve, May God give you both the srenght to carry on. I cannot imagine your pain. Please know that I'm here for you. When ever you feel the need to have a good cry, my shoulder is available. Love you both, Olga, Ricky, Richie, Steven and Diana.
Diane Lapp
March 16, 2002
Astrid was one of my closest and dearest friends. She was always there when I needed her and her friendship was unconditional. It was always Astrid who would remember to call, to make the plans, to get me moving when I needed it! She was there for me when my husband passed away three years ago and never NEVER in my wildest dreams would I ever beleive that I would be saying goodbye to her so soon. We had plans that would take a lifetime to pursue and now I sit here and can only write words of memories of her. I miss her every single day and I think of her every single day. I try to keep her memory alive as much as I can. She meant so much to me. It breaks my heart every time I am reminded of the tragedy and who was lost. My world is so different now that Astrid is gone...no phone calls, no dinner plans, no tennis tournaments and no shopping.
To Barbara and Clive: I know how hard this is for you and I think of you every day. She was such a brilliant star in your life and I know that no words can console you. Remember how much she is loved by us all.
To Robin and Adele: Friends like Astrid are the rarest. I cherish the friends we became and my only wish is that I could have met her earlier in my life. You are so fortunate to have known and loved her so long. I know the every day pain is there in your heart because it is there in mine.
To Mark: I know how much Astrid loves you. It must be so hard for you to beleive she is gone, I cant really beleive it...even now. I think of you often and hope that as time passes, your heart will heal and memories will make you smile. I love Astrid...she was a true friend to me...the rarest of kinds.
To Astrid: I miss you my friend, every day. My life will never ever be the same. Say hello to Bill for me and watch over us as best you can
PS Joe says hi!
IT MATTERS NOT HOW LONG THE STAR IS IN THE SKY...BUT RATHER...HOW BRIGHTLY IT SHINED..
Robin Spucches
March 14, 2002
Loyal, giving, loving--these are just a few words to describe my best friend Astrid. I miss her very much and think of her always--everywhere I look, there is something to remind me of her.
I consider myself so lucky to have had her in my life--she will live forever in my heart.
WE love you very much Astrid--
Robin, Jim, and James
Lucien(Luc) Sergile
March 12, 2002
I really don't know where or how to begin. I found out just last night (3/11/02) that Astrid had passed away from such a tragic event. I'm still trying to understand.Astrid and I have been friends for the last 15 years. I remember talking all the time aboutanything.She was my number one confidant.Our paths had separated us over the years but we didn't let that stop us from catching up. Astrid provided "unconditional friendship". She was always there no matter what the circumstance. Astrid, I know you're listening, there is so much to tell you about. I will be thinking and speaking to you every day. I won't let this stop us from talking to each other. Mr. and Mrs Sohan, Laura and I offer all of our love and support for everything you are going through. Going forward I hope the beautiful memories of Astrid keep you warm and at peace.
I Love and will miss you my dear friend
Eric Lapp
March 12, 2002
I think about Astrid each and every day and hope she is in a place where she is at peace. I keep pictures of her close to me to remember all the good times we had together and to see her smile. She touched my life like I thought no one could ever do.
Astrid, you are missed but will never be forgotten.
Laura Sergile
March 12, 2002
Astrid was a good friend of my
husband's, Lucien Sergile. I was
able to spend a few times with her
and during that time understood why
they were such good friends. Over time the communication between them grew farther apart, but when ever they got together it was as if they had talked every day. Astrid was a good person and my husband and I will miss her in our lifes.
Halley Bowden
February 22, 2002
My Husband and lived upstairs from Astrid. Even though we did not know her very well, we are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prays are with your family
Joyce Daino
February 6, 2002
I never had the pleasure of meeting Astrid but worked with her dad Clive at SoGen and he and I remain friends. My heart aches for the loss her parents are suffering right now. May God Bless both of you....
Jim Collins
December 29, 2001
I was so saddened to learn Astrid was lost in the tragedies of September 11. We met at Brookdale and dated for a while. I always considered her a friend. She truley was a free spirit. I know she enriched my life from the moment we met and my life seems a little poorer now that she is not with us. I have three childern of my own now and shutter of the thought that they might be taken from me. To Mr. and Mrs. Sohan: As a parent, my heart goes out to you. I know Astrid was your only child and you loved her very much. I am so sorry for your loss.
Jim Collins
Teresa Jahn
December 11, 2001
We are so very sorry for your loss of Astrid. Our hearts cry with you.
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
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