Benjamin M. Cabana– Harper
1982 - 2007
Benjamin M. Cabana– Harper
1982 - 2007
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BORN
1982
DIED
2007
Benjamin Cabana– Harper Obituary
He was born in Nashua, NH on May 22, 1982 a son of William Cabana of McMinnville, OR and Joy E. (Spicer) Harper of Merrimack.
Mr. Cabana – Harper lived most of his life in Nashua, and attended Nashua Schools. He graduated from Clearway in 1998. He loved music and especially his friends, and was loved by all who knew him.
He was employed as a rural delivery contractor.
In addition to his parents, members of his family include his adoptive father, Steven Harper of Merrimack, a brother, William G. Cabana of Greenville, and a nephew Zachry Tyler Cormier – Cabana, Maternal grandmother, Phyllis Rhodes of Derry, Paternal grandfather, Ernest Cabana, Mesa, AZ and Adoptive maternal grandmother, Dorothy Harper of Hudson, and several aunts, uncles, and cousins.
Calling hours will be in the George R. Rivet Funeral Home, 425 Daniel Webster Hwy, Merrimack, Thursday from 4-7 PM. Funeral service will be held at 7 PM. Family requests, in lieu of flowers, memorial contributions be made to the Benjamin Cabana-Harper Memorial Fund, C/O TD Banknorth, Merrimack, NH 03054.
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Kori McKenzie
December 13, 2007
I Wish I could have been there. He was great!! I am truely Sorry for the lose of your son/brother/friend. ~KORI
Travis Gibb
December 11, 2007
I am so so sorry billy. i dont know what to say, ben was a good man the few times met him. I remeber him talking about coming to TI and stuff. I will miss him and wish i could be there bless you.
Benji Davies
December 11, 2007
Billy, I wish you and your family strength and peace during this difficult time. The Ben I knew was a wonderful young man who cared deeply about his family.
Dori Gosselin (Cleary)
December 11, 2007
Jody, Steve and Bill you are all in my thoughts. I am so sorry for your loss. I can't even begin to imagine what you are going through right now. Just know you have MANY people who are here for you and love you.
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Patti Reynolds (Flanagan)
December 8, 2007
Jody, Steve, and Billy,
Words can not express how sorry I am to hear of Ben passing. He was an amazing person who will be greatly missed and always thought about. My prayers are with you all. Love you.
Ben,
I love you and miss you so much. I will always remember everything from Billy making fun of us for playing barbies, to the camping trip when you tried to flip me out of the paddle boat in the middle of the pond. Rest in peace BenJammin'.
All my love, Patti
July 23, 2005
December 8, 2007
Phyllis Dustin
December 8, 2007
Joy, Steve & Bill,
My thoughts & prayers are with your entire family at this time. Be comforted in knowing Ben is at home now with more peace & love than we can possibly imagine.
Phyllis & Troy Dustin
Kevin Rose
December 7, 2007
Steve and Jody -I am stunned to hear of Ben's death.My thoughts and condolences to you and the family.Please call us if you feel
like speaking to anyone.Again our
thoughts are with you at this hard time in your life.God Bless.
Kevin,Marcia and Derek Rose
Dee Trahan (Venezia)
December 7, 2007
To Billy and Family,
I hardly know what to say. I knew Ben for a short time. Billy I am sorry for your loss and even from the cold foothills of Western Maine, I'm here if you need anything. I know it's been awhile. Ben will be missed deeply for his smiles and the light and humor he brought to Nashua High School while he was in attendance.
December 7, 2007
Billy
I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts.
Dorice
Julie Sprague
December 6, 2007
I am so sorry for your loss Billy, let me know if there is anything you need. Its been awhile I know, but if you need anything you let me know.
Steve & Chrissy Summers (Connors)
December 6, 2007
Steve & Jody,
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Our hearts go out to you and your family. May you always find comfort in the wonderful memories you have created and remember that Ben will always be with you and be looking down upon you, protecting you.
December 6, 2007
Billy,
I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you.
Val Walters
Debra Nay
December 6, 2007
Joy & Steve, I am sorry to hear of your loss. I can not even begin to imagine what you are going through. But my prayers and thoughts are definitely with you.
Debra
Wendy Savoie and family
December 6, 2007
As a Mom, my heart aches. As a friend, you are now at peace, Ben. It was a pleasure to know you
Jared Newnam
December 5, 2007
Ben-jamin...it was close to 20 years ago that you, your brother, Chris and I started hanging out. You had enough energy to go twice around for all of us. I haven't been around the last few years, but you should know that I'm married now with a daughter of my own, Pamela. I plan to tell her about you and our adventures. Remember going to the Boys Club and hanging out in the Art Room…all day long!! Those were the times, cuz!! You take care pal…you will not be forgotten!
Tim and Trudy Wallingford
December 5, 2007
Dear Steve, Joy and Billy,
Please accept our deepest condolences, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Ben was a very special person who will be missed; he will remain in our memories and in our hearts.
Angela & Chris Hill
December 5, 2007
Dear Joy & Steve: Please accept our deepest condolences. Our hearts hurt and ache for each of you because we that have children understand they are truly our Life. If there is ever anything we can do please let us know. Our thoughts and prayers are definitely with you and your family. Love Always,
Nicole Hilborn
December 5, 2007
Steve, Joy, and Billy~
So sorry you are going through this, you are in my thoughts...
Betsy and Dave Lindsay
December 5, 2007
We will always remember Ben's great sense of humor and his love of music. He was a wonderful friend to our son, David. Our hearts go out to all who knew and loved him.
kathy Collins
December 5, 2007
Ben knowing you was a gift in my life. I love you and will miss your laughter...fond memories of you will always bring me joy.
Kat
Sandy Herman & Family
December 5, 2007
Joy, Steve and Billy, I'm so sorry for your loss! I have many so many special memories of Ben and your family!!He will be missed...
Kristin Oak
December 5, 2007
My deepest sympathies.
Paula Cail
December 5, 2007
May the comfort of friends and family be your strength now and in the days ahead.
Quote from "The Next Place"
I won't remember getting there.
Somehow I'll just arrive.
But I'll know that I belong there
and will feel much more alive
than I have ever felt before.
I will be absolutely free of the things that I held onto that were holding onto me.
Michelle Cleary
December 5, 2007
Ben, No matter how long it has been the memories will last forever. You will forever be in my heart and the hearts of those who knew you even for a moment.
Jeannine Delude
December 4, 2007
Our hearts and condolences are with you and your family.
Love
The Delude Family
Louie, Jeannine, Mindy, Chris, Amy,Heather and Sarah. (Bills, older sister and family.
Mel and Debbie Stoner
December 4, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Michael Newnam
December 4, 2007
Steve and Jody,
I am truly sorry to hear about Ben. Please accept my condolences and my prayers.
Katie Marsch
December 4, 2007
My deepest sympathies.
Janice Cleary
December 4, 2007
Jody, Steve & Billy, I am sincerely sorry for the Loss of Benjamin. Hold on to the wonderful memories of him. If I can help in anyway please call me.
Brian and Pam Denny
December 4, 2007
Steve and Jodi, our hearts go out to you and our prayers are with you."Benjammin", We will miss you.
Love,
Brian and Pam
William Cabana
December 4, 2007
You will live in my heart forever Ben. No matter our distance, we will always have a bond that can never be broken. I love you Ben.
Peace
Your Bro
Billy
Heidi Molloy
December 4, 2007
Steve and Joy,
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Steve & Joy Harper
December 4, 2007
We will never say goodbye... As you will always be with us. Bjamin we love you and miss you.
Peace Out!
Stephanie Webb
December 3, 2007
To my Benjamin. I love you more than you will ever know. You are very special to me and will always have a big piece of my heart. I will miss you.
Allyson Webb
December 3, 2007
We'll miss you Ben. Sorry we never said goodbye.
Dean & Shelly Ledoux
December 3, 2007
Steve, Jody and Billy Our hearts ache for you at this terrible time. Know Ben is loved and will always stay in our hearts.
Love you all Dean and Shelly
Stephanie Webb
December 3, 2007
To my Benjamin. I love you more than you could ever know and always will. You were a very special person and will always have a huge place in my heart. I will miss you.
The Staff of George R. Rivet Funeral Home
December 3, 2007
Offering our deepest condolences during this time.
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