Benjamin J. Gruenes, age 41, of McGuire Air Force Base in New Jersey, formerly of Spring Hill, Minnesota, left this world suddenly and unexpectedly at his home on Tuesday, October 21, 2025. His departure leaves a profound void in our hearts, and as we remember him, let us celebrate the extraordinary life he lived with passion, love, and unwavering devotion.
A Mass of Christian Burial with full military honors, will be held on Saturday, November 1st at 11:00 a.m. at St. Michael's Catholic Church in Spring Hill, Minnesota. Visitation starting at 9:00 a.m. until the time of the service. Rev. Mitchell Bechtold will be officiating. A private inurnment will be held at a later date.
Benjamin was born on July 21, 1984, to Tony and Mary (Klein) Gruenes. From a young age, his spirit was vibrant and full of determination. He grew up in service working at his parents’ store, Melrose Conoco. He graduated from Melrose High School in 2003, and his journey of service continued soon after when he proudly enlisted in the United States Air Force. For over 20 years, Benjamin dedicated his life to defending our country, serving bravely both overseas and stateside, including deployments in Operation Enduring Freedom. Rising to the rank of Technical Sergeant, his commitment and courage inspired everyone around him.
Yet, beyond his military service, Benjamin's true joy came from the simple pleasures—laughter, camaraderie, and the thrill of a game. He loved everything related to baseball and softball, especially cheering on the Minnesota Twins. Whether in person with his best friend Josh or on TV, he soaked in the games with excitement and pride. His love for the sport was more than just a pastime—he cherished the friendships he forged along the way, playing recreational softball throughout his military career, even becoming an umpire.
Benjamin's spirit shone brightest through his devotion to his children. His four beloved boys—Joshua, Gabriel, Nathaniel and Thaddeus all from New Jersey—were the lights of his life. His heart swelled with pride every moment he was with them, and he dreamed of passing on his passion for baseball and softball to them, nurturing memories and dreams that would forever tie their hearts together.
He is survived by his beloved boys, his parents, Tony and Mary Gruenes of Albany, MN. His siblings—Jim (Tammy) Gruenes, Kahului, Hawaii; Nancy (Kevin) Dobos, Albany, MN; Mike (Melissa) Gruenes, Roberts, WI; Mark (Jennifer) Gruenes, Minneota, MN; JoAnn Moen, Sioux Falls, SD; Tony Gruenes, Avon, MN; Pat (Beth) Gruenes, Attleboro, MA; William (Michelle) Gruenes, Grand Forks Air Force Base, ND. His legacy also lives on through numerous nieces, nephews, aunts, uncles, and cousins who adored him.
Benjamin was preceded in death by his sister-in-law, MaryJo Gruenes, and brother-in-law, Wayne Moen.
Benjamin’s legacy is woven into the hearts of all who knew him—a true hero, a loving father, and a true loyal friend. We celebrate his life and cherish the memories that will inspire us forever. May his soul find peace, and may we carry forward his legacy of love, strength, and passion.
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