Betsy L. Smith

Betsy Smith, a beacon of love and generosity, passed away peacefully on June 13, 2025, in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Born on November 6, 1958, Betsy's life was a testament to her unwavering faith and the joy she found in the simplest pleasures of life.

Betsy's early years were spent in the warm community of Cushing, where she attended local schools and graduated from Cushing High School in 1976. Her education laid the foundation for a life of diligence and commitment, traits that shone brightly throughout her career. Betsy dedicated many years of service to Sunoco Pipeline in Drumright, Oklahoma, where her work ethic and collaborative spirit were greatly valued by her colleagues.

The summer of 1977 marked a turning point in Betsy's life when she married her beloved Ronnie at the Cushing Christian Church. Their union was blessed not only in matrimony but also in faith, as she was baptized there just weeks later by Pastor Chuck Thomas. Betsy's devotion to her faith was evident in her years of teaching Junior Church, where she touched the lives of many young individuals with her kindness and wisdom.

Christian values were the cornerstone of Betsy's existence. She lived her faith through her actions, embodying the principles of love, generosity, and selflessness. Her family was the center of her universe, and she cherished every moment spent with them. Betsy was a constant presence at her children's and later her grandchildren's sporting events, her pride and support unwavering as she watched them grow and thrive.

Traveling across America with Ronnie, Betsy delighted in the beauty of the country's landscapes and the joy of sightseeing. These journeys were among her most cherished memories. Her garden was a source of immense pride, and the vegetables she cultivated were not only a testament to her green thumb but also to her patience and care.

Betsy found solace in the simple pleasures of life, such as sitting on her back porch, watching birds feed from the feeders, and listening to music that soothed her soul. Her commitment to her church community remained steadfast, and she attended services with a heart full of gratitude and love.

Those who knew Betsy will remember her as the embodiment of loving kindness. Her generosity knew no bounds, and her selfless nature made her a cherished friend, a beloved family member, and a respected member of her community. Betsy's legacy is one of unwavering love and the gentle strength that she brought to every aspect of her life.

Betsy is preceded in death by both parents, Dan and Marian Sue Burt; three brothers-in-law, Steve Smith, Chuck Williams, and Freddie Eberhart; one niece, Sara James.

Betsy is survived by her husband of 48 years, Ronnie Smith; two children, Amber Brown and husband, Mark and Adam Smith and wife, Stephanie; 3 grandchildren: Ayden, Addie, and Landon; siblings: Brenda, Barbara, Becky, Linda, and Danny; one sister-in-law, Becky Burt; two brothers-in-law, Mike Smith and Steve Ledbetter. Betsy is also survived by numerous nieces, nephews, cousins and other relatives.

As we bid farewell to Betsy Smith, we celebrate a life beautifully lived and a spirit that will continue to inspire all who had the privilege of knowing her. Her memory will be treasured forever in the hearts of those she touched with her warmth and grace.

Her passing gave 3 other people a new life with her organ donations.

Arrangements have been entrusted to the care of Palmer Marler Funeral Home. A visitation will be held on Wednesday, June 18, 2025, from 10:00 a.m. to 8:00 p.m. at Palmer Marler Funeral Home. A Celebration of Betsy's life will be held at 1:00 p.m. on Thursday, June 19, 2025, at the Cushing Christian Church at 302 S. Linwood Ave in Cushing, OK. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made in Betsy's name to the Cushing Christian Church.

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