Betty J. "Bender" Austin

Betty J. "Bender" Austin obituary

Betty J. "Bender" Austin

Betty Austin Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Flint Funeral Home - Addison on Sep. 3, 2025.

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Betty J. Austin, age 87, passed away peacefully on Tuesday, September 2, 2025, at Elcor Nursing and Rehabilitation Center. Born on June 2, 1938, in Hornell, NY, she was the daughter of Howard and Dorothy (Fisk) Bender. She attended Painted Post High School. She married the love of her life, Frank V. Austin, who sadly predeceased her in 1972.

Betty dedicated many years of service to the Campbell-Savona School District, first as a bus driver and later retiring as a custodian.

A woman of strength, resilience, and honesty, Betty will be remembered for her love of hunting and fishing, her fierce devotion to her family, and her no-nonsense attitude. She raised her five children on her own after the untimely passing of her husband, always speaking her mind with clarity and purpose. A proud and lifelong Buffalo Bills fan, she brought passion and loyalty into everything she did.

Betty is survived by her children: Tammy (Gary) Saunders of Columbia Crossroads, PA; Beverly Austin of Addison; and Betty Marie Austin of Elmira. She is also survived by her sisters: Joan Share of Fort Myers, FL, and Marjorie Austin of Savona; 15 grandchildren; and 19 great-grandchildren.

In addition to her parents and husband, she was predeceased by two sons: James V. Austin and John G. Austin, as well as her great-grandson, Noah Mann.

Betty will be laid to rest beside her beloved husband at Addison Rural Cemetery. Funeral arrangements are being handled by Flint Funeral Home in Addison.

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September 8, 2025

Claire Larrison posted to the memorial.

September 6, 2025

Reene Narde posted to the memorial.

September 6, 2025

Darrel and Jo Chaney posted to the memorial.

Claire Larrison

September 8, 2025

RIP Betty

Reene Narde

September 6, 2025

Tammy, so sorry for your loss!! Sending comforting thoughts and prayers to you and your family! Miss you and Gary!

Darrel and Jo Chaney

September 6, 2025

So sorry for your loss Tammy. Darrel and I are sending our love!

Joan Share

September 6, 2025

To my beautiful Sister, Betty. You are at peace now. Lots of love, Joan Share in Florida.

Rita Rimbey

September 4, 2025

I am so sorry to hear about Betty. She was a special lady, she lived next to me for a few years. I miss her.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family!

Terry roupp

September 4, 2025

Sorry for your loss Tammy she wad s good person the best mother-in-law there ever was

Joice smith

September 4, 2025

Tammy´ Clark and I Send prayers and good thoughts to you and your family.

Tammy Saunders

September 4, 2025

Love and miss you already mom,

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