Betty Whaler Obituary
Betty Whaler, 68, passed away on November 1, 2025, in Claremore, OK. She was born in Claremore on February 22, 1957, to the late Ella Mae Snell.
Betty loved gigging for crawdads and looking for wishie's and morrells. She enjoyed picnics at the at river, crusin around town, but most important was spending time with her family.
Funeral Service will be 1 PM, Friday, November 7, 2025 at Colcord Community Center. The family will receive friends on Thursday, November 6, 2025 from 5 PM until 8 PM at Hart Funeral Home.
In addition her parents, she was preceded death by her husband, Harold Whaler Sr., brother, Bill Snell, sister, Annie Snell, sons, Allen Whaler, and Harold Whaler, Jr.
Survived by her children, Shannon Whaler and Anthony Leon Whaler, brothers, Herman Snell, Rick Snell, Gordon Chunstoodie, Ron Snell, and Eddie Snell, sisters, Mary Snell, and Kimberly Snell. granddaughter, Raven Whaler.
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1506 N. Grand Ave., Tahlequah, OK 74464
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