Brenda Jo Graham

Brenda Jo Graham obituary

Brenda Jo Graham

Brenda Graham Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by McMikle Funeral Home - Charleston on Nov. 10, 2025.

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Brenda Jo Vasquez Graham, age 52, of Wyatt, MO, died Sunday, November 9, 2025, at Mercy South Hospital in St. Louis, MO.

Born February 21, 1973, at Chicago, IL, to Benito Vasquez and Betty Hitchcock Martinez, she had lived in Wyatt a number of years.

In 2006, she married Randy Ray Graham, who survives of the home.

Other survivors include her sons, Christopher Joe (Brianna) Lynch and Zackery Ryan Lynch; her grandson, Romeo Carl Lynch; her father, Benito Vasquez; her brother, Benito Vasquez; her sister, Angela Vasquez; other brothers and sisters include, Angelo Reyes, Benny Thebeau, Michael Vasquez, Pamela Vasquez, Conswala Thebeau, Amanda Byrd, Nichole Kanneman and Savanah Vasquez; also, a number of nieces, nephews and cousins as well as her father in law, Jimmy Graham and brother in law, Joseph Graham.

She was preceded in death by her mother, Betty Martinez and her mother-in-law, Linda Cossey Graham.

Arrangements are pending at McMikle Funeral Home in Charleston.

Online condolences may be shared at www.mcmiklefuneralhome.com.

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