Bruce F. "Toby" Wesson obituary, Chatham, NJ

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Bruce F. "Toby" Wesson

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Rosemary Todd Clough

Yesterday

Betsy, Kim, and All the Wesson family.....I was deeply touched by Toby's service thig morning and hold all of you in my heart as you are with your grief and loss. May all love surround you....go gently and take all the time you need to heal. I am with you in Spirit.....
love,
Rosemary Clough

Joanand Michael Gambro

November 20, 2025

To Betsy and all of Toby's loved ones-we are profoundly sorry to learn of Toby's passing and we hope that your loss will be balanced by the cherished memories you've all created together and that you'll continue to take the family trips, cheer on the grandkids' at their various endeavors, and do all the things, individually and as a family, that Toby loved and spearheaded. He was and still is a great man and loving spirit.
With our sincerest sympathy,
Joan and Michael Gambro

Janette Puskar

November 20, 2025

Sending our deepest condolences to the entire family. He will be sadly missed, but your love and memories will live on. Love and prayers, The Puskar Family

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Art Williams

November 19, 2025

Dear Betsy,

Sandra and I send our condolences and warmest wishes to you, your family and all of Toby's friends. May he rest in peace.

Art Williams

Donna Grieves

November 19, 2025

So sad to have lost a wonderful amazing man.as my daughter said we have always been very close! I met Toby in junior high and he already was smiling at my best friend ,his beautiful wife, Betsy! The fun times including trips and adventures on land and on the sea! Fun with all the kids and now amazing grandkids! Will be missed! All the golf outings with the clan and more! I´m sure my husband was waiting at the gates for his arrival! Love to all

Melissa Grieves

November 19, 2025

I am proud and honored to say Uncle Toby was my godfather. I grew up with Uncle Toby, Aunt Betsy (my godmother), Kimmy, Kristy, Stephen, David, and Jeffrey as a frequent presence in our lives, like they were extended family. Because the Wessons are family to me and my family.

When my dad, Peter Grieves, suddenly passed five years ago, Uncle Toby felt even more like a second dad in my eyes. In the years since my dad´s passing, each time I saw Uncle Toby, he was warm and sentimental. Welcoming me like family, representing and celebrating the living connection to my dad and our families´ history together.

Uncle Toby- you will be missed more than you know.

Aunt Betsy, Kimmy, Kristy, Stephen, David, and Jeff- we love you all very much and are heartbroken for your loss. Uncle Toby was the BEST .

Karen Elting

November 19, 2025

Having been fortunate enough to share grandparenting duties with Toby and Betsy for almost 30 years, I saw firsthand what an amazing father, grandfather and friend Toby was. The world has lost a little of its glow.

Bradley, Brough & Dangler Funeral Home - Summit

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November 17, 2025

Nov

20

Visitation

4:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m.

Bradley, Brough & Dangler Funeral Home

299 Morris Ave, Summit, NJ 07901

Nov

21

Funeral Mass

10:45 a.m. - 11:45 a.m.

St. Teresa of Avila Church

306 Morris Avenue, Summit, NJ 07901

Nov

21

Service

12:00 p.m. - 12:15 p.m.

St. Teresa Cemetery

136 Passaic Avenue, Summit, NJ 07901

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