Carl M. Appler

Carl M. Appler obituary

Carl M. Appler

Carl Appler Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by The DiDonato Funeral Service, Inc. on Jun. 19, 2025.

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Carl Matthew Appler "Poppy" age 76 peacefully passed at his home in Milton, NY on June 19, 2025. He was born on October 24, 1948. He is predeceased by his father James M. Appler, Sr., mother Norma R. Appler and brother Gary Appler, Sr.

Carl is survived by his beloved wife of 43 years Deborah Appler, son Todd Appler, Sr. and wife Beverly and son Matthew Appler. Carl is survived by his only grandchild, the light of his eye, "his little peanut" Todd Appler, Jr. He is survived by his brothers James M. Appler, Jr. and wife Kathy, Gael Appler, Sr. and wife Janice. He also leaves behind several nieces, nephews, great nieces and great nephews.

A lifelong resident of Milton, NY. He was an established business man, owner of C.M. Appler & Sons. Carl was a life member of the Milton Engine Co. No. 1. He was known as the Mayor of Milton.

Through the years he enjoyed time in Lake George with his family and friends. During his retirement he enjoyed long rides and time with his family. Carl was not just a family man, but everyone's friend. If you needed a little advice or just a nice chat you could be sure to find him at the last booth at Stewarts in Milton.

A great piece of advice that you can take way from Carl "It's a great life if we don't weaken".

Calling hours will be held on Monday from 4-8pm at the DiDonato Funeral Home, 1290 Route 9W, Marlboro.

A mass of Christian burial will be offered on Tuesday morning at 10:30am at St. Mary's Church, 1209 Route 9W, Marlboro.

Burial will follow in St. Mary's Cemetery, Marlboro.

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Pete Reinhardt

August 20, 2025

From Pete Reinhardt (California)
So sad to see this news of my old friend. I am glad he did well and has a great family.
I lived right next door, and we had lots of great times with his brothers and other of our friends. Hunting, fishing, Boy Scouts, raising Blackie & Duke, etc.
"picture" is from around 1963, with Gael and Carl out in my backyard.

Sandra curtis

June 27, 2025

So sorry for this great loss .never will I ever forget him.the one so great who stood for all people. Thank u in my time of need you were there.i was poor in need of fuel oil.you gave no hassles. And more importantly great heart for the poor..always thank u

Tony and Pepper Valentino

June 22, 2025

So sorry to hear of his passing. I knew Carl way back when we were teenagers.
Our prayers go out to the family.

Jay and Brenda (Bowen) Coppola

June 21, 2025

Our thoughts and prayers are with the Appler family. Carl RIP.

Robb Taylor

June 21, 2025

Our deepest condolences to the apple family. Carl was a man of integrity and we appreciated him very much.
Robb and Lori Taylor

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