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Carol M. Kelley Reimer

Carol M. Kelley Reimer obituary

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Pittsburgh Cremation & Funeral Care - Peters Township

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McMurray, Pennsylvania

Carol Reimer Obituary

Treasured wife, mother, "Gammi," aunt, sister, and friend, Former Assistant to the President, Duquesne University February 8, 1939 - December 16, 2025 Carol M. Kelley Reimer, of North Strabane Township, formerly of the North Hills, passed away Tuesday, December 16, 2025. Carol was preceded in death by husbands, Robert M. Reimer and Peter Mahoney; infant daughter, Colleen; beloved parents, Robert and Lenore Kelley; siblings, Roberta Oleniczak and Thomas Kelley; in-laws, Dennis Burch, Robert Oleniczak, and Patricia Kelley; son-in- law, Jerry Roach; and best friend, Lucille Stringert. Left to cherish her memory are her children, Julie (Michael) McLaughlin, Linda Roach, Kathleen (Gene) Rindels, Michael (Traci) Reimer, and Daniel (Carol) Reimer, Esq.; cherished grandchildren who, for the bulk of Carol's life, called her "Gammi" - JT Palilla, Shannon Antypas, Caitlin Lewis, Chelsea Matarazzo, Nicole Beichner, Bria Zeh, Caylin Charrie, McKenna Christy, Emily Pryor, Alex Rindels, Esq., Benjamin Rindels, Leah, Adam and Megan Reimer, Linnea, Madison and Anneliese Began, and Hannah Reimer along with their spouses, children, and significant others. Also, the children and grandchildren of Peter Mahoney: Karen (Ronald) Lloyd, Suzanne (Brian) Dylus, Peter (Mary Ellen) Mahoney, Michael (Jennifer) Mahoney, and Stephen (Marybeth) Mahoney. Four generations of life and love. She could never forget her much-loved family in her hometown of Milwaukee, Wis., most especially devoted little sister, Jeanne Burch; and the nieces and nephews who lovingly called her "Auntie Carol." Born and raised in Milwaukee, Carol moved with her husband, Bob to the North Hills of Pittsburgh when he took a new job in the steel industry. Joining St. Sebastian Church would be pivotal in the future of the Reimers. When Bob got sick with MS, Carol decided she needed a full-time job, and the pastor of St. Sebastian highly recommended Carol when she applied at Duquesne University the day her son enrolled. She started as a receptionist: Impressed with her personality and skills, then-President Father Nesti moved her to the Office of the President. When the search for a new president ensued, she told her kids,"This is it. I'm going to lose my job." But that did not happen. In time, President Dr. John Murray would promote Carol to his executive assistant. Together, they spearheaded exciting years at Duquesne, including the completion of the Murray Pavilion, where Carol and Dr. Murray could often be found taking a break. She struck up a great friendship with Duquesne's current president, Kenneth G. Gormley, who was also one of her biggest fans. She served on the Board of Directors of Regency Vincentian Home, where Bob was a resident. After Bob passed away, and while still employed, Carol bumped into a St. Sebastian CCD teacher and friend, Pete Mahoney, who was doing architectural work on campus. He had lost his spouse, Mae. Buoyed by their shared Catholic faith, they began dating and eventually got married in the Chapel of Duquesne University, with the Rev. Sean Hogan officiating. They enjoyed 14 years together. Carol retired from Duquesne in 2004 and thereafter became involved in Duquesne's Retirement Association. The devastating effects of a car accident and the years of physical and loving care of Bob's illness eventually took its toll on Carol's body. When her condition deteriorated, especially after she lost Pete, she moved out to Washington County to be closer to two of her daughters. She joined St. Oscar Romero Parish. Although physically unable to attend an official membership ceremony, she enjoyed serving on the Bereavement Committee of the Ladies of Charity, and making her pretzel treats for the Christmas bags for homebound parishioners. When still able to attend Mass, she was thankful for the treatment she received from the ushers who helped her in and out of her pew and to receive Holy Communion. When she was healthy, Carol was a fixture at her grandchildren's and then her great- grandchildren's activities. Just one week before her first fall, she attended the basketball game of a great- grandchild. Carol appreciated the life she built in North Strabane Township. Her landlords, Victor and Wendy, became like family. She truly loved the breathtaking views from the deck on her dream home on the lake. She lived life to the fullest to the end. Carol had been on hospice in her home since last January. She calls the Rev. George Deville and Deacon Rick Cessar her heroes. On a weekly basis, they visited Carol and brought her conversation, prayers, kindness, and the Body of Christ. Her Catholic faith was of utmost importance to her, and the Rosary was part of her morning routine. If the Rosary was not on her night stand, it could be found in her bed beside her. The staff of the Gallagher Hospice organization have been invaluable, most especially Aide Dana and Nurse Angela, who provided ongoing, loving care. Carol was so grateful to Tracey and Lisa who were willing to come to her home to do her nails and hair. Friends will be received from 1 to 4 and 6 to 7:30 p.m. Monday, December 22, in Pittsburgh Cremation and Funeral Care, 3287 Washington Road, McMurray, PA 15317. Departing prayers will follow at which time we will bid farewell to Carol at the funeral home. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held at 10 a.m. Tuesday, December 23, at Duquesne University, 600 McAnulty Drive, Pittsburgh, PA 15282. Please meet at the Chapel. Parking at the Chapel is available on McAnulty Drive and in the Administration Lot. Burial will be private. In lieu of flowers, the family suggests donations to Holy Cross Academy (the old "St. Sebastian School!) or Duquesne University, President's Discretionary Fund. Condolences for the family and memories can be made at pittsburghcremation.com

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Published by Observer-Reporter from Dec. 19 to Dec. 21, 2025.

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3287 Washington Road, McMurray, PA 15317

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22

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22

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3287 Washington Road, McMurray, PA 15317

Dec

23

Mass of Christian Burial

10:00 a.m.

Duquesne University Chapel

600 McAnulty Drive, Pittsburgh, PA 15282

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3287 Washington Rd., McMurray, PA 15317

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